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He Asked Her Hand, Just Before Me...

fathl posted a topic in Social/Family/Personal

Salaam brothers and sisters. I could really use some advise. We have a female employee working at our office. She has proven herself to be a very disciplined, intelligent and hard working female, and I felt immediately attracted when I was first introduced to her. I have kept my feelings inward, and have remained focused on my own responsibilities, and have cherished the intention of approaching her after I have finished my main work. This was like two months ago. And just yesterday, I heard from the CEO (who is my elder brother) and human resource manager (who is a close friend and trustee), who interviewed her that someone has proposed to her, and they are expected to get engaged soon. I am happy for her. But it breaks my heart that I was too late. Im still seriously considering approaching her, en informing her of my interest of getting to know her. But as I was raised in Europe, and I'm currently residing inTunisia, would it be scandalous to do so? My brother is grooming me to take over his job, and I cannot permit myself a vulnerable position and risk a bad reputation. And since her importance to the company is increasing, I dont want to raise fears about her job security because of my position of influence. I'm seriously considering approaching her in the coming days... Your brother, Fathl Wassalaam

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