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I was in a relationship with a muslim guy for only about 6 months. Im not a muslim myself. We ended the relationship 2 months ago and I found out shortly after that I am pregnant. We have a age gap of 12 years, and he has always known that Im was not on any birthcontrol. He was okay with it. I was always thinking about the age difference, because I am the older one, and wasnt sure how we could make this Work, mostly because of he being muslim and Im not. But he was always positive and said we would fix it somehow. I cared a lot about him. But it ended because it could not work. And now I am pregnant. And he does not want me to keep the baby, saying I will ruin his whole life. Not sure where Im toing with this but I need advice. How much will I damage him and his family. What should I do?

Salaam to all I'm Alhamdulliah expecting my third child I have two daughters already Since I fall pregnant I have been dreaming of seeing boys like toddlers or sometimes baby boy Only few times I saw girls as baby im really getting curious my inner feeling says it's a girl but I have been doing dua of baby boy but whatever Allah will grant me I will be 100% content to it please guide me what's my dream interpretation ? jazak Allah

Salam Alaikum, I am new to this forum, I have been reading quite a bit and everyone seems very helpful. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for almost 2 years, with no success. Alhumdullilah we already have a 3 year old son but we really want to expand our family. We have seen a specialist, done tests, etc and everything is normal. I no longer want to rely on medication, instead I want to believe that Allah will grace us with a child. My question is, are there and dua's or things I can do to help? Thank you for your time

Alsalamu Alaykum In accordance with Islamic rules, a man is allowed to divorce his wife even though she is pregnant. Another case which is important to express in this regard refers to the matter of her 'Iddah. sheikh zein al-din ameli says:

Salam i wana know if a girl gets pregnant during mutta who will be responsible(who will take care him fincially) for the baby that will born thanks

So I clicked a link one one of these topics to *******.org and started browsing. Then, I came across a very very Bizarre Hadith! Not only is this not possible, but Surely Amiral Momineen (as) should have known this, right? Is this site genuine? Am I misreading this hadith? Can anyone help me understand it? 3 – Chapter on the ruling of when the man has sexual intercourse with his wife, and she (then) commits tribadism with a virgin and she (the virgin) becomes pregnant [ 34474 ] 1 ـ محمد بن يعقوب ، عن عدة من أصحابنا ، عن أحمد بن محمد بن خالد ، عن عمرو بن عثمان ، وعن أبيه جميعا ، عن هارون بن الجهم ، عن محمد بن مسلم ، قال : سمعت أبا جعفر وأبا عبدالله ( عليهما السلام ) يقولان : بينما الحسن بن علي في مجلس أمير المؤمنين ( عليه السلام ) إذ أقبل قوم فقالوا : يا أبا محمد أردنا أمير المؤمنين ، قال : وما حاجتكم ؟ قالوا : أردنا أن نسأله عن مسألة ، قال : وما هي تخبرونا بها ؟ قالوا : امرأة جامعها زوجها ، فلما قام عنها قامت بحموتها فوقعت على جارية بكر فساحقتها فوقعت النطفة فيها فحملت ، فما تقول في هذا ؟ فقال الحسن : معضلة وأبوالحسن لها ، وأقول فان أصبت فمن الله ومن أمير المؤمنين ، وإن أخطأت فمن نفسي ، فأرجو أن لا اخطىء إن شاء الله : يعمد إلى المرأة فيؤخذ منها مهر الجارية البكر في أول وهلة ، لأن الولد لا يخرج منها حتى تشق فتذهب عذرتها ، ثم ترجم المرأة لأنها محصنة ، وينتظر بالجارية حتى تضع ما في بطنها ويرد الولد إلى أبيه صاحب النطفة ، ثم تجلد الجارية الحد ، قال : فانصرف القوم من عند الحسن ( عليه السلام ) فلقوا أمير المؤمنين ( عليه السلام ) قال : ما قلتم لأبي محمّد ؟ وما قال لكم ؟ فأخبروه ، فقال : لو أنني المسؤول ماكان عندي فيها أكثر مما قال ابني . 1 – Muhammad b. Ya`qub from a number of our companions from Ahmad b. Muhammad b. Khalid from `Amr b. `Uthman and from his father, together, from Harun b. al-Jahm from Muhammad b. Muslim. He said: I heard Abu Ja`far and Abu `Abdillah عليهما السلام saying: While al-Hasan b. `Ali was in the gathering of Amir al-Mu’mineen عليه السلام a group approached and said: O Abu Muhammad, we want Amir al-Mu’mineen. He said: And what is your need? They said: We want to ask him about an issue. He said: And what is it? Inform us of it. They said: A man had intercourse with his wife, and when he got up from her, she got up with her heat (i.e. in a state of excitement) and fell upon a virgin girl and had tribadism with her, so the sperm entered into her and she became pregnant. So what do you say regarding this? So al-Hasan said: A conundrum! And Abu ‘l-Hasan is (the one) for it (i.e. providing the solution to the issue). And I say that if I hit the mark, then it is from Allah and from Amir al-Mu’mineen. And if I err, then it is from myself. So I hope that I err not, إن شاء الله : The woman is proceeded to and the mahr of the virgin girl is taken from her right away, for the child does not come out from her until she (i.e. her hymen) is split and her virginity goes. Then, the woman is stoned because she was a muhsana (see definition of ihsan above). And one waits with the girl until she delivers what is in her stomach, and the child is returned to his father, the owner of the sperm. Then the girl is lashed with the hadd. He said: So the group departed from al-Hasan عليه السلام and they met Amir al-Mu’mineen عليه السلام. He said: What did you say to Abu Muhammad, and what did he say to you? So they informed him, and he said: Had I been the one asked there would not have been with me more than what my son said.