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Salam, I am a very old visitor ShiaChat. This is my very first post here with this ID because of the type of Topic and because of needing help. I have been living overseas for a decade and now moved to Pakistan to make my religion stronger. One thing that is bothering me is the companionship of the opposite sex. I’d like to tell you I am a new convert to Shia from Sunni and my family disowned me and blocked me from family acitivities on that ground, but mashallah say by the grace of Allah, I have a high paying job and so it was easy to move on but feel lonely, left out and often wanders around. I need companionship, love as all of us. I don’t want to indulge in anything wrong such as prostitution or adultery or porn and after much through thinking and trying to be as close to the religion as possible I understand that a Mutah Nikkah or temporary marriage is my only solution. I am desperatly seeking your help and guidance. I am looking for advice on how to find such proposal. Society in Pakistan has become very hyper sexualize to the point that temporary nikkah is the best solution. I have thought about some ways, I thought about giving an ad in the local Newspaper here, but then do not know the legal repercussion that may come with it. I searched online and found only a few posts regarding this that gave me no help, I even approached marriage agencies in Lahore but it like most of them do not even cater to Shia let alone mutahnikkah. Please help and advice. I feel lonely, desperate and often times vulnerable. I do not want to go on the path of Shaitan and carry illicit activities (which has become all too common in Pakistan). Please let me know if you know A) Which local newspaper I should post this ad to B) Which marriage agency will work best for me C) Any family that is in need of such

I am a Hindu. For acedemic interest I am posing this question . If I want to marry a muslim women/girl it has been seen in the past that Hindu man has to adopt Islam and then marry a Muslim women, as it happened in the case of Kishore Kumar famous Indian Film singer marrying Madhubala who was a muslim girl. Since polygamy is banned in Hinduism Dharmender a famous cine star did the same( adopted Islam ) while marrying Hema malini as a second wife. When a Hindu can enter into Nikah with a Muslim girl or do polygamy after adopting Islam(though for a short period, rather need based adoption ) then why not Mutah with Hindus (though after adopting Islam only) . What the rules say. I think any body who adopts Islam even for a short span can enter into Nikah or Mutah contract to marry a Muslim women. Pl correct me if I am wrong. If you dont want to make it public you can reply me to my mail id .