Jump to content
Guests can now reply in ALL forum topics (No registration required!) ×
Guests can now reply in ALL forum topics (No registration required!)
In the Name of God بسم الله

Search the Community

Showing results for tags 'mastubation'.

The search index is currently processing. Current results may not be complete.
  • Search By Tags

    Type tags separated by commas.
  • Search By Author

Content Type


Forums

  • Religion Forums
    • General Islamic Discussion
    • Shia/Sunni Dialogue
    • Christianity/Judaism Dialogue
    • Atheism/Other Religions
    • Minor Islamic Sects
    • Jurisprudence/Laws
  • Other Forums
    • Politics/Current Events
    • Social/Family/Personal
    • Science/Health/Economics
    • Education/Careers
    • Travel/Local Community
    • Off-Topic
    • Poetry and Art
  • Language Specific
    • Arabic / العَرَبِية
    • Farsi / فارسی
    • Urdu / اُردُو‎
    • Other languages [French / français, Spanish / español, Chinese / 汉语, Hindi / हिन्दी, etc.. ]
  • Site Support
    • Site Support/Feedback
    • Site FAQs
  • Gender Specific Forums
    • Brothers Forum
    • Sisters Forum
  • The Hadith Club's Topics
  • Food Club's Topics
  • Sports Club's Topics
  • Reverts to Islam's Topics
  • Travel Club's Topics
  • Mental Health/Psych Club's Topics
  • Arts, Crafts, DIY Club's Topics
  • The Premier League Club's Topics
  • Quit Smoking's Topics
  • Quit Smoking's Ramadan 2020 : Quit smoking!
  • Horses and Horse Riding's Topics
  • Sunni and Shia Collaboratian Club's Topics
  • THE CLUB OF CLUB's Topics
  • Islamic Sciences's Theology

Blogs

  • ShiaChat.com Blog
  • Insiyah Abidi
  • Misam Ali
  • Contemporania
  • Volcano Republic
  • Reflections
  • Al Moqawemat
  • Just Another Muslim Blogger
  • Amir Al-Mu'minin
  • Imamology
  • The Adventures of Wavey Bear
  • Religion
  • Think Positive
  • Reflections
  • A Whole Heart of Hollow
  • Blogging at ShiaChat
  • Shian e Ali's Blog
  • From the cradle to the grave - knowledge blog
  • repenters Beast mode 90kg - 100kg journey
  • My journey into a "White hat" Hacking career
  • The Sun Will Rise From The West
  • Muslim Coloring Book
  • Qom
  • ANSAR-AL-MAHDI (AFS)
  • My Feelings and Emotions About Myself
  • Unity, the New iPhone and Other Suppressed Issues
  • Mohamed Shivji
  • The People's Democratic Republic of Khafanestan
  • Crossing the Rubicon
  • My Conversion Story; from Roman Catholic - to Agnostic - to Islam Shia
  • Inspire
  • With Divine Assistance You Can Confront a Pharoah, Even Empty Handed
  • Banu Musa
  • Erik Cartman Podcast
  • My Quora Digest
  • Transcriber's Blog
  • Who/What is the Dajjal (Anti-Christ)?
  • ZIKR-E-MEHBOOB
  • A Marginalia to Mu'jam
  • Random Thoughts of ShiaMan14
  • Notepad
  • Pensées
  • Reflections
  • Historia
  • Test
  • Memorable Day, 28May2017
  • Zavon Diaries
  • Alone with God | وحيدا مع الله
  • Procrastination Contemplations
  • From Earth to Heaven
  • The secret of self is hid
  • A Passing of Time
  • Pearls of Wisdom
  • The Muslim Theist
  • Stories for Sakina
  • Fatima
  • Toons
  • Saqi
  • The Messenger of Allah ﷺ
  • The Truth
  • Light Beams
  • A fellow traveller
  • Combat With The Self
  • Imam Mahdi ATFS
  • Self-Love, Islam & The Law Of Attraction
  • Basra unrest Iranian Conuslate Set Fire
  • spoken words/poetry/ deep thinking
  • Guide of marriage notes: Constantly updating
  • Zaidia the middle path.
  • The life of a Shia Muslim in the west.
  • Poems for the Ahlul Bayt
  • Ahlul Bayt Mission
  • Twelver Corpus
  • Manajat of the Sinners
  • Khudi
  • Chasing Islam
  • Bayaan e Muntazir
  • Deen In Practice
  • The Seas of Lights
  • Salafi/Athari - What does it mean?
  • The Luminous Clearing - Part 2
  • Shaan e Zahra
  • Book blog
  • Philosophy Club's Philosophy Club Journal
  • Quranic Studies's Quranic Studies Best Articles
  • Spoken Word's Blog

Find results in...

Find results that contain...


Date Created

  • Start

    End


Last Updated

  • Start

    End


Filter by number of...

Joined

  • Start

    End


Group


Facebook


Website URL


Yahoo


Skype


Location


Religion


Mood


Favorite Subjects

Found 2 results

  1. I would define myself as aromantic and asexual. Which means that I don't experience romantic or sexual attraction towards women (I am a male). But at the same time, I still do experience libido. It's just not directed at people. I have been having trouble with masturbation and such lately. I have been doing it wayyyy less now and only do it when it feels absolutely unavoidable. But I still have the intense urge to do it from time to time. I feel that my medical condition (bipolar disorder) makes me have the urge to have it do to my moods, as it's almost insatiable at times. But at the same time I limit myself and don't try to over do it. I did try to look for an older person to do mutah with. But the problem with that is (even with younger people) is that I don't feel romantic or sexually attracted enough for them to do sexual things with them. I feel repulsed from having romantic/sexual affection from women, but at the same time, that means I don't have a way to fulfil my sexual needs too. I also realize that a woman might not even do mutah with me, if I can't sexually satisfy her either. Because I'm not interested in doing anything sexual with her at all, which makes it hard for me to find someone that would actually do mutah with me. I have realized why masturbation is not a good thing to do in terms of spirituality. But at the same time I have difficulty not masturbating. Especially with the urges I feel when it comes to my mood disorder, I have difficulty with impulses. I realized that this is the case because I get the urge to masturbate when I'm late taking my medication and I've been awake for some time. I feel that I'm condemned to not having an orgasm, especially since I really don't want to marry. I feel this is really difficult for me, as others can just wait until they're married. But for me, being married, whether mut'ah or permanent isn't a desire I have and it's not feasible for me. Of course I'm not asking for masturbation to be permissible for me, but at the same time this is something I have a hard time avoiding due to my circumstances. I feel like masturbation can cause a drop in spirituality which is why I try avoid it and I only do it when I absolutely cannot avoid it. When I have the urge, it's like I absolutely can't avoid it. I have thankfully limited myself from masturbating way less but it's hard to eliminate it completely. Though, what should I do in my case though? I have trouble not knowing what to do. Usually the hope for some people is that they get married eventually. But I feel that is hard to do in my case. I wonder if I am excused from having sin placed upon me if this is something I genuinely cannot handle myself from not doing. Again, not saying it should be permissible for me and that I should have free reign to do it. But that I wonder if I am excused something akin to like how if a man can't stop flatulating during salah due to medical conditions, he is excused from that. I would appreciate any advice given. I would love to hear about any rulings that talk about masturbation in this sense for those that have disabilities, mental conditions that make it hard to avoid it, and those who cannot marry indefinitely due to a lack of a desire to marry. I would also love to know where I could possibly get a ruling from this other than a scholar saying it's just absolutely haram (which it is, not denying that) and actually give me genuine advice given my situation.
  2. Hello, I used to masturbate before - I held in the semen and then did a wudhu and proceeded to read salah, for the times which ejaculation happened I did a ghusl - I'm unsure if I should read all my namaz as qadha again as I'm unsure if masturbation with no ejaculation invalidates salah that has been done with no ghusl before it - please guide!
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    No registered users viewing this page.

×
×
  • Create New...