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السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ (May Peace and Mercy and Blessings of Allah Be Upon You) My Shia Muslim Brothers and Shia Muslim Sisters in Islam. Hope you all are Living a Good Life By رَحمة (The Mercy) of Allah الحمد لله (All Praises Belongs to Allah). My Shia Muslim Brothers and Shia Muslim Sisters, as you all know in Islam we all must live a life of Honour and Dignity and Islam is the Only Religion which Gave us the Complete code of Life سبحان الله‎ (Allah is Perfect). I would say It's really such a Blessing for us to be Blessed with Islam. To Become a Muslim Gentleman of Honour and Dignity, We must be careful on actions we do. The way we Walk, The Way we Talk, The Way we Eat, The way we Wear Clothes, The Way we wear Shoes, The Way we Comb our Hair, The Way we dye our Hair, The Way we Take Bath, The Way we Wear Jewellery, The Way we Sleep, The Way we enter someone's home, The Way we are in a Gathering, The Way we Make Choices for ourselves (when choosing a Spouse), The Way we Marry, The Way we Give Time to Our Family and Friends, The Way we deal Ignorant People (Jaahil) in our Daily Lives, The way we Workout , The Way we do Jihad etc. In all situations of Life, we truly are Blessed by the Instructions Given by Islam. I would say it's such a Blessing. Islam wants Muslim Gentlemen to be Better Sons, Better Brothers, Better Husbands and Better Fathers, الحمد لله (All Praises Belongs to Allah). I am 19 and This Rajab I will be 20 انشاء اللہ (If Allah Wills). I really wanna become the Gentleman I know Myself and Live the Life of Honour and Dignity. I Want to be Respected in Society wherever I go. I hope this thread will also be Beneficial (As Muslims we should Benefit Each Other) for All Muslim Teenagers (Brothers) and all Muslim Young Adults (Brothers) who are living their Lives with Aim and wanna Become the Gentleman they know themselves and want to live a Life of Honour and Dignity. So I want an Islamic book on Etiquette and Manners on living Life According to the Sunnah of Master Muhammad ﷺ (Peace and Blessing be Upon Him) and According to Sunnah of Ahlul-Bayt رضي الله عنهم (Allah Is Pleased with Them) and Imams after Them رحمه الله (Allah Have Mercy Upon Them). I came across the Book of Allamah Baqir Majilisi رحمه الله (Allah Have Mercy Upon Him) Naming Tehzib-ul-Islam (Etiquette according to Islamic Laws), This Book was Great but I want more. I want A Big Islamic Book on Etiquette. I know This is ShiaChat and we should only answer in Shia Perspective but I will also Appreciate if You All will give me with some Sunni References . Everyone of Us Gonna Die Someday. Why Not live this Life According to Sunnah. جزاك اللهُ خيرًا (May Allah Reward you With Goodness)

AOA brothers and sisters, I am in a very difficult situation in life. Something I did 10 years ago, (when I had freshly become a teenager) is still haunting me till this day. It gets better when I pray and have a positive outlook on things, but there are certain people who can never let it go. There is one person from the past who is still haunting me. People who are close to me know my story. Even though I have repented and Islamically speaking I did not do anything worth a 100 lashes wrong, but if the things I did get out, I know for a fact they will be exaggerated. I wouldn't have a happy married life. I will probably get divorced because of him and the mischief he will cause for me (I mean its been around 10 years and he still hasn't let it go then what do you expect from him?) I don't want to give my kids a broken home. My parents will be humiliated. I will not be able to live with myself. No matter who i meet or talk to will never let it go. They will (and some of them do) laugh at my back. Please don't tell me to be strong because i have tried to be strong for the past 10 years. And please don't say that those who really care about you wouldn't care at all. Because I have come to a conclusion that such people don't exist. People who you thought were close to you at one point in your life became just an acquaintance and the ones laughing behind your back. Whenever he finds out I am happy, he just cannot bear it. HE WILL DO ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING TO DESTROY MY MARRIED LIFE JUST AS WHAT HE IS DOING NOW WHEN I AM NOT EVEN MARRIED. Now I was wondering is suicide allowed? 2 nights ago I was at my rooftop ready to jump, but there was an Alam in front of me which was blowing with wind and something inside me told me I should wait. Or maybe i'm not strong enough to do it? When i think of the after life, I don't want to miss out on my chance of going to heaven. But when i think about this life, I see no light at all. Everything in my life is a mess. I don't sleep at all at night. I catch up on my sleep in the morning where i have to deal with as much less people as possible. My mother is worried sick. She's always crying for me. I wish I could undo the past. And each time I try to move on people see me happy, they bring up my past. I want to have a happy simple life. I want to have a family, I want to have kids so that I can teach them what my parents have taught me, the knowledge and the love for 14 Masoomeen A.S. I want to be there for my kids with their father( whoever he is). Please tell me if there is a way out of this? I need help, for the Love of Allah and 14 Masoomeen (A.S) guide me.

I had always had a strong connection and chemistry with someone i had known and grown up with all my life, we had a relaltionship when we were younger at around 13-14 we were both young and stupid and got caught by my mother, then last year it all started again, we love each other so much and we both still do, things started to get serious really quickly, he said he wants to get married and i agreed, anyways things got serious really quickly and he convinced me that we would be together no matter what even though we both knew we would have massive problems with our parents accepting us, but i still believed and trusted him, unfortunately i allowed for the worst to happen, we both committed zina and fornication without nikkah, this now means i am no longer a pure girl. months went by and things were going great except for his parents who were strongly against me simply because they did not like me and they wanted a bride from their home land. two weeks before my birthday he stopped talking to me, i was really confused and i didn't know why, he broke up with me because of his parents and he said that he is going to get married to the person they desire only because he does not want to disrespect his parents for Allah's sake, but what about me ? he has basically ruined my life if he marries another, how am i supposed to get married to someone else like this? what will my parents do when they find out from a future husband? does respecting his parents outweigh leaving me like this with no future? anyway, he is about to go and get nikkah with someone very shortly, my mother found out about our recent relationship and she asked if we had commited zina or fornication but i was too afraid to tell her the truth, she said that it will ruin your honour, our families honour, and your future, i really wanted to tell her that we did fornicate and commit zina but i was so scared, what do i do ? do i tell her? do i leave it? please please help me as he is going to get married soon and i dont want to be too late to take action