Salam As you know I am trying to find someone, Inshallah will find someone soon, I have a search party looking out for me :D I want to know what you sisters/brothers think about delaying weddings. I am a student and so I am unable to give a flashy wedding, so I was thinking of asking the girl to do the Nikah and have the wedding later if she wants a flashy wedding I can't yet afford. If not a flashy wedding then a cheap one I can do. Would it be a good idea to ask this? I can imagine a few ways in which this might go wrong.