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Umm, Assalamu Alykum! I've been hiding the fact that am shia from my friends and now I posted something of ahlulbayt. It signifies that am shia.. I'm tired of hiding, but am scared of bullies. Anyway, please I need help for you people. Anything at all.. I just need support and maybe courage? I dunno am soo lost. Thanks and May Allah bless you!!
Salam Alaykum brothers and sisters This is my first post on this website, hope I get great feed back from everyone else. Any ways... Does anyone else suffer from social anxiety? I know my reason for suffering from this illness. It's feeling guilty for my past sins. I used to often let my self fall for sins since I was little and as I got older, I felt much more guilt for sinning which caused me to lose my self confidence and be afraid of people judging me. I would always seek Allah's forgiveness but than commit the same sins again and again and again. Except the margin of me committing that same sins widened from days to weeks to months. It's like when ever I commit those sins I feel sooo depressed that I would rather bury my self. I feel so ashamed for not keeping my promises with Allah. Now, Alhamdulliah I have stopped for a while and never intend to go back to my evil ways. But no matter how much I ask Allah for forgiveness I still have this lost self confidence which I don't know how to get back. My social anxiety grew bigger and bigger every time I would commit those same sins. But I still have this social anxiety in me. I feel like I am the only one who has it. I feel so alone and different. But I don't want this to get in my way... if I am going to be a father soon I can't let this get in my way. I need to gain my full confidence by the will of Allah, I need to battle Shaytan. I just want to stay on the right path of the Ahlul-Bayt, live a humble, clean and good life. Please everyone pray for me that this illness can be taken down. I am really trying. Peace
(bismillah) Assalam-o-alaikum, I don't really know the motive I'm posting my show's videos that are aired on a Shia Islamic Channel, maybe I really and desperately need your reviews as to how you think about my presentation skills so that I could improve myself for good. These videos are in Urdu language and I'm aware that a majority of the SC members belong to different countries. But all, I need to know is your views about my:- 1) Appearance (A lot of people think I look like a hardline extremist because "face veil isn't wajib then what's the need to appear on TV like this"...and I've also been told my kohled eyes look attractive but my intention to apply these is just to look more awake.. I wanna ask you'll, is it too much really???? 2) Presentation:- I somewhere feel my confidence and overall body language isn't upto the mark..I really adore Zahra-al-Alawi but no matter how hard I try, I just don't find myself good enough...not even an iota of a decent public speaker :( Please let me know your views about this work of mine, I really need to improve myself and as always, your comments do make a hell lot of difference in my approach towards various issues. (Brothers can post as well) http://www.channelwin.tv/video/1727/greater-sins-12-part-1.html I'm eagerly awaiting your opinions, any sort of criticism is always welcomed..i really want to become better!
Salam all, I just wanted to have some insight from an Islamic and social perspective on self confidence and arrogance. Of course, it is imaan to have confidence in Allah. However, confidence in my self has ALWAYS been an issue in everything! It is concerning! anyhow, I met someone with alot of experience in the social services field. I asked her to "read" me to see what she finds. She said self-doubt, self esteem issues and you want to be successful but there is something stopping you. My whole life, no one understood me like that. She was a Muslim aswell, I feel that Allah helped me through her. Anyhow,I lack so much confidence, I realised what the cause was. I am scared of being arrogant... Is there a thin line between the two? How can it be distinguished? please help! It will be much appreciated!
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