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Salam, After I urinate, I do Istibraa and try wait for the final pools of urine to come out, and then wash my male genital organ and put my pants back on. Then later as I walk around or bend over, urine drops exit my male genital organ and obviously touch my underwear. Given I have water on the male genital organ after Istibraa, can I deem the urine drops as Tahir? Or do I need to Taher and change underwear each and every time this happens (which is every single time I urinate)?

Assalam alaikum, Seeking the guidance from you guys, it’s a matter of my 3 young kids (boy 15 - girl 12 - girl -9). Obviously I love my wife ... I made a blunder made a mistake that cannot be undone and I think I have already paid heavy price for it... I did Mu’tah with a Muslim woman, had a child out of it who is 2 years old now... and I am in contact with her once in a year... it was two years ago, my wife came to know about it and left the home since then I am living alone ... my wife lives in his cousin home, I have done everything she demanded, sell the home and gave her maximum money, paying expenses for children every month... she was melting a bit as I continuously pleasing her .. she hasn’t ceased having conjugal relationship... she too loves me and was understanding that my mistake was big but she is ready to move back to me, but the problem is her brother who are not letting her come back to me as they are demanding to bring my second wife and in front of them I should give talaq saying that she was my mistake... for which I do not want to do, I cannot humiliate a woman. now her brothers threatened me that my wife would take a qula if I don’t do that... how can she take qula when she was having physical and loving relationship with me? What are the basis that she can get qula? I was providing her with home and other necessities and more over requesting her to comeback home so that I can talk to my second wife and settle things... what do I do? I’m in a very complicated situation... I love my kids and my wife very much and do not want to loose them.. on other hand I have responsibility of my other wife and child... can I let marja to contact her brothers and convince if I’m on haq. your help and advise would be appreciated and inshallah will dua for you in Karbala as I will be doing arbayeen there. p.s: I live in Australia and my other wife live in India along with the child.

I don't mean to sound nit-picky or anything, but since I used to make the same mistake that I read many of you are making in this forum, I would like to point it out. The correct way to say "Peace be upon you" is either "Assalaam 'Alaykum" ( (salam)), or "Salaamun 'Alaykum." I see many people combining the two. Walaykum Salaam

Brothers please please reply to this asap. I am shia muslim, in my mid 20s. I have never ever masturbated in my life, never even touched the organ. I was talking to someone and got aroused, and by the time the time of suhoor ended. Now, there was some kind of liquid, I dont know what it was. I have read the difference between precum and all in detail, but I just cant decide, I am really kaseer ush shak so I am never able to decide. Now, being able to control myself from sins always, and right now I just dont know if I have invalidated my fast. I dont know of another forum to ask this. Please let me know what to do. I think it was clear sticky liquid, little amount. Just that this force and not force, I can ascertain. I just dont know! I found this on Ayt Sistani's website. NOW I dont even know if its semen or what. 1598. If semen is discharged from the body of a person involuntarily, his fast does not become void. But can this be my case in worst case scenario? considering best case is that it was precum or sth. Please remember me in your prayers. Please reply.

(bismillah) Salams all, Hope everyone is well. Id like to start with condoling all the believers on the tragic martyrdom anniversary of Sayeda Fatima (sa), may God hasten the reappearance of his final Hujjah and present khalifa of the earth to avenge the blood of her family. Im not sure about recently, but ever since i've been active on shiachat, every so often a topic about hawza and hawza opportunities is made. Recently i received an email about an opportunity to study the first year basic studies of hawza in english as a tester for those considering joining the seminary. It seems like a good idea for those who want to get their feet wet before they jump in the pool. This way the most is made out of the first year of hawza without having to go through the sometimes painful process of learning farsi or arabic first. This can be especially desirable for those who want to take a gap year from uni and open up their doors. anyways, i dont know details, but read the message and email the organisers if need be. Dont mind the cheesy email, its all ligit lol