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Salam alaikum brothers. There are a couple of things that I need to ask about that I can't ask other males around me. I hope some of you can help. This is the first question. For context, I am a muqallid of Ayt. Sistani حفظه الله Can anyone tell me long how long it takes normally/max to urinate and do istibra i.e to get into a position where one is ready for salah? I am suffering from a condition where it takes about an hour for me (up to 2 hours on some days) to feel totally empty/relieved which I know is obviously not normal. I did go to a urologist who told me that while my flow rate of urine is nearly half as slow as the average (04 ml/sec vs 10 ml/sec average), he couldn't find anything that was causing it and in the end indirectly said that it was in my "head." I know it is not waswas because when I try to end the flow and do istibra, nothing may come out but I can feel the presence of urine still there and indeed I have to go back to the washroom once I have finished the prayer. At the same time, I don't think that comes under the ruling of incontinence as it is possible for me to stop the flow, just after a very long time. Add to this I also cannot maintain my wudhu due to gas but also cannot following the ruling on using one wudhu for multiple prayers as the gas is not always emitted as frequently as specified in the ruling to be eligible for that rule. I am worried that if I cut my restroom sessions short and don't wait until I can entirely release, that my wudhu and prayer will be invalid and that Allah will punish me for my obstinacy and misbehavior Anyone have anything to share?

Salam, After I urinate, I do Istibraa and try wait for the final pools of urine to come out, and then wash my male genital organ and put my pants back on. Then later as I walk around or bend over, urine drops exit my male genital organ and obviously touch my underwear. Given I have water on the male genital organ after Istibraa, can I deem the urine drops as Tahir? Or do I need to Taher and change underwear each and every time this happens (which is every single time I urinate)?

if I did ghusl janaba and istibra and some liquid comes out with lust isnt thick and didnt come out with a gush is clear but might smell like semen is it pure? i suffer from waswas aswell.

I am asking this question to every male here. No females. What is your reason talking to females, that you don't have any blood relation with, and that is not your client or part of your profession/work or someone that you have to interact with for a particular reason. And I am not talking about 10 second talks. As for me, the only reason I would consider talking to females is just to know them and hopefully have a halal relation (mutah or Nikah) with them if needed. is there any other reason for us men to talk to them? SISTERS PLEASE STAY OFF THIS THREAD. I DON'T WANT BACK AND FORTH ARGUMENTS/DISCUSSIONS. THIS IS A STRAIGHT FORWARD QUESTION TO MALES ONLY. SISTERS PLEASE STAY OFF. could a mod please delete the 2 sisters posts

Is it still haram to masturbate without releasing sperm? Even if you can still feel the sperm moving... Is it still haram? I already know releasing sperm is haram