What to do if a married man 5+ years is loosing confidence, becoming fat, can't think logically and unable to make smart decisions in life, aren't able to stand up for myself eg at work, can't even think fast or a come-back when someone is being cynical/rude, I'm stupid and naive. Why you must be thinking?
I've made bad decisions in the past and not standing my ground against my parents now I'm getting abused by my wife, but I know she cares about me but this is the way she deals with her frustration about me.
I ask Allah to help me and my wife.
I feel like I'm a looser.