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Since i was younger my father has been extremely abusive to my mother, sister and me. He would hit us and verbally abuse us for small matters. Im pretty sure he has two personalities as he is so loving until he gets mad, which makes it so hard for me to leave. My mother does not want to leave him even though she is aware that he is capable of murdering us. A year and a half ago my father was in the verge of killing my mother ( not the first time ) so my and my older sister who was 18 at the time ( i am 16 now ) called the police on him and revealed all of what he had done to us. However, my mother does not want help and nor to leave him so she didnt reveal anything and made me and my sister change our statments. My father was released the next day and my sister took the entire blame of calling the police on him. His brother held him back, but if not he wouldve murdered my sister and mother. Since we were younger ive only gotten two beatings, while my sister and mother would almost lose their life for every mistake. After my father left, my older sister ran away the next day to reveal the truth fearing for her life. My father then «forgave» us and mother was left alone with me and him for the rest year and a half. He did not hit us for the next year and a half, but was still very verbally abusive at times to the point where he spat on my face. My mother really loves us, but would treaten to kill herself ( which i know she is very much capable of ) if i left to tell the police the truth making her very manipulative. My father was released a month ago with no punishment and we are now i contact with my sister. However, they are still very mentally abusive and i have found that my mother cares more about her husband and family honour than her childrens safety. She tells us that my fathers pshycotic behaviour is just a form of love. My sister has just received a letter from her lawyer to appeal the verdict, but im not sure what to do. If she appeals the verdict im am very sure my father will get time in jail and i cannot return home to my mother as she will manipulate me into changing my statment if ill tell the truth. I am so sure that my mother will kill herself if i tell the truth, but i do not want to live a life in constant fear. I just turned 16 and will therefore have to live in a fosterhome. The only Thing holding me back is my mother, but know that i cannot possibly change her mind. Should i tell the truth even if there is a huge possibility that my mother will commit suicide?
Salam i just went to an exam and i Got a bad grade. (I Got a D) And when i came home and told my parents they started yelling at me. I know that all parents get upset when their child gets a bad grade but my parents overreacht. They told my that i suck at everything and that i dont study and stuff like that. So far i have gotten pretty good grades. But when i get a good grade they dont Seem to Care as much. I have been crying for the past two hours because of their yelling. They are telling me really horrible stuff. So finally my question is, is it ok in islam to mentally abuse your child until they have a breakdown? and what they are telling me cant be described. I honestly Think that if it wasnt haram in islam to comit suicide, i Would have done it a long time ago. I have to go through this every single year. And No i am not overreachting. I am really sick and tired. i do want to point out that i am 17 years old.
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