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Asr

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  1. It is possible for a nine year old girl to enter puberty and have kids. Possibly in the past or hotter climates it was a lot more common..but it does still happen. That doesn't mean parents are required to marry her off if that happens either.. as per the Hadith of imam Ali (as.). each era is different..so raise the child according to the era they were born in. Given the historical context, in the pre Islamic period; there was no minimum age..it was quite common all over the world (including west) to marry off even younger kids (boys and girls); for all sorts of reasons..(political; se
  2. It is possible for a nine year old girl to enter puberty and have kids. Possibly in the past it was more common..but It still can happen. It doesn't mean parents are required to Marry her off if that happens either.. it is merely the base line given the historical context, in the pre Islamic period; there was no minimum age requirement..it was common to have .marriage with even younger kids (boys and girls); for all sorts of reasons..(political;settle a dispute; dowry) hence the age of possible puberty was established as the cut off point to protect the pre pubecence children.
  3. Drugs drink dating is etc is not specific to any race or culture ... you will find it exists in all backgrounds and countries.. openly or covertly.. it happens regardless of how educated or rich/poor you are. The difference is your faith and how much YOU decide to put in practise in your life. As for white wash: kids will naturally adapt to the culture they are raised in (parents and new country) ..you simply can't expect them not to...but there are good and bad aspects in all cultures... so as long they pick up the good and resist the bad (according to their faith)..then islam does not r
  4. And if you were being an ignorant retard like those of her customers you wouldn't deserve her services either. It was quite obvious She wasn't talking about ALL Danes.. as for the sister Lebanese dame; you need to sit down and have a meeting with your boss..tell him how you feel and he needs to take action or you will take it higher up. You have an right to work without being abused daily..If they can kick customers out for yelling at them they or you can do it for you too... Taking it quietly will only make it worse and is already affecting your job performance. Remb.. The prob
  5. And if you were being an ignorant retard like those of her customers you wouldn't deserve her services either. It was quite obvious She wasn't talking about ALL Danes.. as for the sister Lebanese Dane ; you need to sit down and have a meeting with your boss..tell him how you feel and he needs to take action or you will take it higher up. You have an right to work without being abused daily..If they can kick customers out for yelling at them they or you can do it for you too... Taking it quietly will only make it worse and is already affecting your job performance. Remb.. The pro
  6. Can someone explain to me how fitted trousers/normal jeans or short tops that lift and expose your lower back cover the minimum hijab requirement for men? Yet we don't hear a peep in our mosques and from our educated brothers on these outrageous exposures in our holy places of worships and gatherings. Also i doubt over styling your hair and donning clothes/accesserories that attract females attention is appropriate hijab at all! Modesty is key here..
  7. You cant leave it to mens interpretation of appropriate ladies hijab. Thier ideas will vary from person to person.. Its your responsibilty to find out the requirements and apply accordingly. Regardless of what you wear someone will always object; why is your face not covered? Why is it covered? You should be wearing abaya! No patterns or colours allowed! Endless list of questions and judgements. Ignore and don what you deem appropriate.
  8. this hammered idiot is baiting...theres no need to fall for it... For all we know he might be a paid zionist to stir more sectarian hatred. Either that or an isis poodle... Theres no need for sunni abuse. He is simply not one of those.
  9. Its normal phase.. Hes only 1.5. Nothing to do with name..
  10. If these friends aee taking you away from religion then distance yourself slowly.. And trust in God.. He will bring better people in to your life. Take one step; and He will take 10.
  11. This the reason Allah has made men as wali; where some women can succumb to emotional pressure the men can often stand thier ground. Often women are naturally willing to self sacrifice for other people expectation. You are doing the right thing by standing up for her even if she cannot. Ask your sister; if this proposal had come when your father was alive two years ago; would she still accept?
  12. br kaziim My sincere advice for you would be..you are doing the right thing. Please stand strong for your sister. This 'alim' seems to be taking advantage of his position and power; aswell as a vulnerable family. His response to your rejection was very telling; it is a big big big red flag. Any genuine humble amazing person would act respectfully and accept your decision; this man seems to think you OWE him your sister; and he WILL get his way no matter. Not so amazing or pious afterall. Not only that he thinks his lust is a divine revelation from God!!??? A sign of mental unstability
  13. Not really; Nope. they are just as valid or void as your own 'theories'. Im not in need of your stamp of approval thanks.
  14. ???? You seem to live in a dream world. Politically we have NEVER had it better since 1500 years ago. If you think this is bad for shias; you should read up on the state of shias and thier treatment in history. Downtrodden voiceless and defenceless. A far cry from what we are seeing now. There is a reason saudis/israelis/isis types are panicking & lashing out; whilst they are in thier death throes; the shia cresent is becoming a full moon. Something unbearable for those who are used to oppressing them. Right now; the shia nations and allies are unstoppable and this is thier moment.
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