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Chaotic Muslem

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  1. obviiously i was not talking about the incel cult obviousy i am not endorsing the cult obviously i am not hinting at the cult at any point obviously this deaf people talk is not going to be fruitful salam. close my account too please.
  2. I also do not like the cults culture: Emo, Nerds. Geeks, etc etc. But .. yes but... these cults gain momentum from a growing social problem. Look at Emo culture, it started some decades ago but wher eare we now? Suicide is leading cause of death in US. Depression and mental health is worst that ever in human history globally. We can be all proud and feed our ego but i prefer to be honest rather than blind. Yep women can be incels too if peeps around just wanted to throw some hidden insults, if that makes them feel better, yep they can be incels in the modern definition of the involuntary
  3. I try not to be a literalist be it in religious matters or none religious matters. If we took the main behavior of the incel definition without associating it with any online or offline community, a certain race or certain nationality, we will be discussing a real issue that is often recurring theme in many "i want to marry" topics in SC. It is better not to bury head in sand and it is better to address the matter: 1- unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one 2- Discussions are often characterized by resentment, misanthropy,[1] self-pity,[13] se
  4. USA suicide: https://www.cdc.gov/vitalsigns/suicide/index.html France suicide: https://www.thelocal.fr/20180206/in-france-a-person-commits-suicide-every-hour-so-what-needs-to-be-done Both countries re plagued with the ill mental health of its citizens. It is still very shocking that he decided to commit suicide in holy mosque in holy month. As if he is testifying that he disbelieve in God's mercy and God's might and power to change situations. I am not underestimating the amount of pressure that was upon the man that lead to such fate, on the contrary, I am saying tha
  5. Salam Thank you for sharing these posts. They carry a good general advises and reflections, but they lack practical steps to change the mindset needed to lift the spirit out of the dark pit of anxiety and depression. What I am mulling over now is the conept of "Tafreej al karb" the word karb in Arabic means the sever stress. alleviate the karb or tafrij alkarb from a believer is considered one of the highly rewarded deeds in Islam. In the Hadith it says "whoever alleviate a sever stress from upon a believer, Allah will alleviate his stress in the day of judgement." I'm loo
  6. Salam, Recently, I've been looking at backbiting from different perspective. I work in a very stressful job and very sick work environment. Almost everyone is burnt out, depressed or have one or another mental issue (They are sane, just mentally worn out due to stress). I've been noticing pattern of how to spot person in burn out, they often start talking negatively all the time about almost everyone in their life including themselves, among other things. From high moral grounds, what they do is unjustified, but for me, I start to see them as victims rather than the criminals. It is
  7. It is the victory of fantasy over realism that distances the American public from the horrors of war. https://www.rt.com/op-ed/429168-syria-saving-private-ryan/ I enjoyed reading her reflection on the Hollywood's version of war vs the reality of life, and how people can be convinced by mere myths even if they were logically implausible.
  8. salam i hope you are all doing great. <3
  9. the amount of peace in this place does not belong to this world. Imam Hussain was forced to leave mecca under a threat to kill him even if he was holding on the clothes of ka,bah , i cannot even imagine that. This place has a grace that forces even mushriks to take care of it and honor it, those at the time of imam hussain didnt even have that much of fake attitude. i prayed for you all
  10. salam, it is ok, you are not alone. And it is not your fault. Something is simply not right that makes many people feel not good. But there are simple steps that can at least clarify your mind a bit and makes you focus again on living: school, social life and taking care of yourself until Allah decides when we should leave this world. Until then, we should wait elegantly. Start by cleaning your room. If it is clean, re arrange it again, just because. Try new hair cut or reward yourself with anything that is totally selfish. Nothing fancy but very personal. Go and walk, walk and
  11. Totally disgusting Totally disgusting Totally disgusting Totally disgusting Ok, though WE as CONSERVATIVE muslims MAY agree on the no makeup rule... The concept that the only reason for makeup is explicit sexual act is disgusting. JP went from 70% agreement to -20.
  12. Thank you brothers and sisters. I am contemplating a solution and i hope it works, praying for it to work!
  13. Salam Your prayers is badly needed. For safety and fear and worries.
  14. اني اريد امانا يابن فاطمة

    مستمسكا بيدي من طارق الزمن

  15. My joints hurt. I feel like if each one of them is coming in and out of their place. I have chest tightness and i cannot focus. There is a clutter in my mind and the work is piling up. I recovered my hate notebook again. I was looking down staircase and estimating how much damage will it do if i jumped down. I wish I can curl up on my grandpa grave and cry. It is just expected. I came back to the bullies offices and they've been doing what they excel at : abolish people's morale. I have a new boss who is new, freshly graduate with high degrees. I am watching as he is going through sa
  16. STEM is training for a job while humanities are raising up a child and nurturing him/her. Discipline of a child should be carried out by family or community norms or some professional in the art. I will not trust anyone from the current educational complex to nurture my children. I think they've done already enough. But there are things that decrease empathy, for example : lies. But current political correctness moral campus puts the traditional morality into trash and it is synthesizing a whole new moral system, which probably will create more sociopaths. In this case, a gun control won
  17. The verse does not contain the word sahaba, it uses the word (those with him). It could refer to people around him or it could refer to those who are with him always (physically and none physically) in this case it can refer to ahlulbayt.
  18. well, Sahib is an arabic word that is used casually to describe a fellow or companion. The word itself is neutral and does not indicate any special relation between the company and the accompanied. If you searched for the word Sahib in Quran, you will find in many instances that it was used to describe the relation between 2 humans who existed in same place and same time, but were following 2 religions for example. The proper question is "when did the significance of the prophet's companion came to be part of mainstream muslim schools of thought?" Mutawakil the bbassid is great start
  19. He was attracted to her! He liked the fact that she has strong opinions even if he disagrees wit them. He was analyzing her all the time. Him moving is arms in a power fist was to lower his "threat" to her, acting a bit cartoonish so she can stop attacking him and start admiring his ideas BUT and i like what she did, the moment he was about to boast about how he would lambasted his academic opponents, she cuts off his grandiose talk ! I do not disagree with everything he says nor agree with him either, but that interview was over blown IMHO because of that subtle attraction that led to "g
  20. considerig that you are a very far away from a racist, the fact that you have never thought about it is quite telling
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