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  1. Salaam, Classical music like some of the ones found in action movies is regarded as halal by some scholars. He is going to upload a music free version in the future, which I will update here inshallah.
  2. (1) Shia Muta Temporary Marriage (1/9) Muta in the Quran & Definitions & Background information (2) Shia Muta Temporary Marriage (2/9) Who prohibited the two Mutas (2B) Umar's Famous Sermon forbidding the two Mutas http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4nM2R8Pn_lc#t=07m32s (3) Shia Muta Temporary Marriage (3/9) Who prohibited the Muta of Hajj (4) Shia Muta Temporary Marriage (4/9) Companions who allowed Muta marriage (5) Shia Muta Temporary Marriage (5/9) Companions who did Muta marriage (5B) Asmaa The daughter of Abubakr did Muta Marriage http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=44C
  3. Assalaamu alaikum Please share and promote “The Ultimate Muta marriage documentary” This is an unprecedented documentary revealing many suppressed truths about Muta marriage in Islam, from the Sunni Saheeh sources: we have finally finished this comprehensive research which reveals many suppressed truths about Muta marriage from the sunni perspective. It exposes many shocking evidence and realities, which are kept hidden from the majority of the people. This documentary took a very long time to research and produce. In the process, it required the downloading of more than 8 Giga
  4. Salaam alaikum, From what I have read laser hair removal should not affect a woman's fertility, the laser only penetrates the skin at a very shallow depth, it is much too shallow to be anywhere deep enough to impact the reproductive organs. I also read a lot of articles about whether laser hair removal increases the risk of cancer, all the articles I found said that there is no evidence so far that it does, (but of course it could be discovered later to cause an increased risk).
  5. I don't know what you believe regarding this, but every person has to have a possibility in their mind that there is a chance that they may not be on the truth (even if the possibility is very, very small). They have to be open to hearing any new information that comes their way and analysing it, to see if there is any truth in it. If one closes their mind completely to the possibility they might be in error, then if they are really misled they have no chance of discovering it, because they will never be open to considering the possibility that they might be wrong. You can see for example on s
  6. Salaam alaikum, How can you know if you have the 'best' religion, if you do not study all the other religions and compare? My father told me to not read the Quran (to throw it away or burn it or something like that), he said that every person should stay in the religion they were born in. The majority of the people in different religions say that their religion is right and say not to study other religions. If I had followed this ideaology, I would never have studied and reached to the conclusion that Islam is closest to the truth (from what I have studied so far). Every religion (from buddhis
  7. ^ Salaam alaikum, I think that depends on your definition of 'decent'. I would not consider a man decent, if he refuses to marry a girl who had good religion and manners just because she married before (and she didn't have a bad reason for leaving the first husband). I would consider such a man a loser, because he is losing the chance to have a spouse who could lead him and his children closer to Allah ÓÈÍÇäå æÊÚÇáì. Anyway, there are very few men (and women) who I would consider to be decent in this day and age. But because the girl is placing her future and her children's future in the hands
  8. Salaam alaikum, 1. The haddith mentions the word marriage (which doesn’t specify permanent or temporary marriage), so I would not cancel out the possibility that it could also apply to temporary marriage. This haddith is giving the general rule for marriage selection, however in every situation one needs to consider whether any secondary Islamic rules apply, which may have an effect on what is the preferred decision to make in that situation. For example: - There is a rule that it is makrooh to do temporary marriage with virgins, so one would need to study whether the benefit of this marriage
  9. Salaam alaikum brother, I disagree with most of what has been said to you in this thread, unfortunately I don’t have enough time now to go through everything here and individually address each thing that I believe is wrong. But I would like to address some of the points, and tell you the positives and negatives that I see. - I think it is very good that you are prepared to be honest with yourself and acknowledge what your reality is regarding your own needs, despite the absolute deamonisation that comes from society when a man admits that he needs more than one woman. It is still impossible fo
  10. That is right, there are ways of doing things properly. We don't know everything that has happened because we are not witnesses to the situation, but if it is true what kdawn says that he left in this manner without even talking to her about the reasons or even whether he is leaving permanantly or coming back, then this is not right. She also mentioned that he has left bills unpaid, if this is true, this is very incorrect Islamically, he must talk to his wife and arrange for these things to be sorted out.
  11. Salaam alaikum, My understanding of the type of slavery that is permitted in Islam, from what I have read, is as follows: - A person can voluntarily become your slave if they see benefit in doing so. For example becoming a slave of one of the good people, such as the ahl bayt. - The only time a person can be made a slave against their will (from my understanding), is in the case of war. If a people have been attacking the Muslims and later the Muslims defeat them, then there has to be a system of what to do with the people who were attacking them (the prisoners of war). If they are immediately
  12. Salaam alaikum, On another site I use, the moderators ask sisters (who have 50 posts or more) who want to access the sisters section to ask them for access, and then the moderators grant them access to this private forum (no further passwords needed). If everyone here had to answer a question about their gender when they first register, then they could be granted access to a private brothers or sisters forum once they reached 50 posts and asked a moderator to grant them access. That would not make the sections completely private (so sisters would still need to be aware to not post photos of
  13. Salaam alaikum sister, I think you are in a very confusing and difficult situation, and can use as much good advice as you can get from others, because you have to make a very serious decision which should not be taken lightly (that is continuing or ending your marriage). So inshallah I am going to continue to give you my advice here, and ignore all the childish comments from those who don't understand that one of the most serious matters such as considering ending a marriage (divorce the halaal most hated by Allah, which should only be used as a last resort) deserves in depth advice, rather t
  14. I'm his wife, and I am not just asking for the sake of this incident, but so that other members including myself will understand what the actual rules are and we will not end up wasting our time writing posts that will just be deleted or be attacked for writing in forums that we thought we were allowed to write in.
  15. Salaam alaikum, Could you please let us know if there is a new rule that brothers can not post in the sisters forum, and sisters can not post in the brothers forum, even if the topic does not specify 'sisters only' or 'brothers only' in the title or in the first post. This topic did not say sisters only in the title or in the first post. All those posts came at the same time and alimohamad typed it before reading your post about disallowing men in this thread. Please let us know the new rules in these forums, because people don't want to waste their type typing out content that is just going t
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