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In the Name of God بسم الله


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  1. Salaam. I am the youngest of four girls, and there's an 11 year gap between me and my sisters - the oldest is in her early thirties and I'm in my early 20s. We all have a different relationship with our mother, but I think I have the most strained one. My mother is known to have anger management problems. She will snap and get mad at anything if she is in a bad mood, and she is a very rushed and anxious person. She even takes medication for this. She's like this with me and my sisters, but especially with me because I've been the only one at home for the past 5-10 years, as all of m
  2. Alhamdulillah, thank you to everyone for the advice. Muslim brothers and sisters truly care about each other, and it's very touching, mashAllah. May Allah ta'ala bless you all.
  3. I'm not sure this is true; almost anything on ShiaChat should be verified with authentic sources.
  4. A daughter doing hijab, in this case, can hurt the parents by a) her possible lack of safety and b) possible cultural stigmas, unfortunately. You're right, I shouldn't have directly asked them in the first place. It's my position as their child that made me feel like that was the natural thing to do.
  5. Though I do have to say that Islam isn't an "excuse" for younger kids in the West...maybe for some, but definitely not all. Islam provides a source of peace, solace, and sense in a society that is becoming increasingly misguided. For me, it's the protection I feel while wearing hijab that makes me want to always wear it. It reminds me that Allah ta'ala is always protecting me and that He is with me all the time. It honestly is such a comforting feeling that I don't want to let it go inshAllah. May we all be kept on the straight path iA.
  6. My family is from Pakistan actually, and I have a feeling the cultural tendencies have something to do with it. I'm not sure why, but it's like hijabis are always seen in a negative way...like as if a hijabi is labeled as "that girl that wears hijab", if you know what I mean. People assume that they're trying to be "different" and "prove themselves" almost. It's devastatingly unfortunate, especially among Shia Muslims. I've thought about going this route and doing that look, because I would be fully covered and not be blantantly wearing hijab. It's something that I'm still considering, and I
  7. Though I don't know exactly how to go about this, I know that hijab is wajib and that I'm not under any/enough danger to not do it. And even not concerning that, I would want to do hijab even if it wasn't wajib. InshAllah I would like to start hijab before I start this school year, but ideally it would be in front of my parents, and they would know and approve of it, and so would my sisters. May Allah ta'ala grant them and me the inspiration and courage to do so, Ameen.
  8. Thank you for the advice everyone, it has helped a lot :)
  9. My parents may be able to be talked into coming around, it just depends on the circumstances (how I approach it and if any others try to sway my parents' opinions). I think taking the plunge might be the only way, and if that's the case, then inshAllah that I do and that it has benefits for me and my family.
  10. I agree, it's just a question of convincing my parents of that iA.
  11. My parents actually are, alhamdulillah, very good people and inspire me to be a better Muslim. I'm pretty sure they don't fear my hijab being a "reminder" to them, they just have many issues with my safety. And please, if anyone wants I debate the necessity of hijab, kindly take it to another thread, as this one doesn't pertain to that.
  12. You are all right, I know this is a test from Allah, and while I may not have passed the first time, He is giving me another chance Alhamdulillah. I'm not sure how my parents would react if I just started without their permission. I don't think they would be very happy at first, but maybe if they see things are going well for a bit, they will accept it inshAllah. Please do dua that my parents and family change their views soon and accept my hijab inshAllah, and that I pass this test. May Allah bless you all.
  13. I definitely see the reason behind their concern, however they should understand that I am doing this for Allah ta'ala and He will do what is best for me inshAllah. I have thought about doing hijab behind their backs, but I feel that this should be treated as an open blessing, not something I should hide and feel embarrassed for :(
  14. There aren't any other hijabis in my college. It's a small college and there are very few Muslims, most of whom sont publicly acknowledge that they are Muslim.
  15. Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatahu I have wanted to do hijab for the past couple of years, and especially within these last few months. I'm a 19 year old girl in college in the US, and I know hijab is wajib, but I have to at least ask my parents before I start. A few months ago I resolved to take the hijab and persistently asked (even begged, I would say) to let me wear hijab. However, they objected because they said my safety would be undermined while I'm at college (we live in the South, where ignorance can be abundant). Although I constantly told my parents that I am ready for
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