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Jumanah83

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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Ismahan007 in My Marriage Proposals   
    Sister!, don't just reject based on your initial feelings!, you may regret in future ( inshaa'lla no regrets), get to know something about the person, give yourself chance to think, keep ur expectations REALISTIC, INVOLVE ur parents in decision making!, yea involve them, nothing like it is ur life just decide, yea the final decision is urs but u need support, u need to hear opinions, u need time to make ur mind, I wish u luck, may a'lla grant u a good mo'men husband soon, do duaa and Twasool bi ahlulbayt, and trust in A'lla, read Ziyarat Ashuraa and Duaa A'ulgoma, surat Yassen and al Safaat and bay Sadaqa daily .. refrain from sins and hearing music that contaminate ur soul .. wish u luck ..
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    Jumanah83 reacted to Shia_Debater in Man And Woman Intend To Marry, Can He See Her   
    (salam)
    Just wanted to say guys don't mistake the OP for me :mellow:
    Not saying that the topic of the OP is bad, I just don't want people debating with me about why I wanna see someone before I marry them :wacko:
    (wasalam)
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Kamranistan in Doubts   
    The one with excessive doubts SHOULDN'T care for his doubts
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    Jumanah83 reacted to Muslim Queen in My Marriage Proposals   
    Opportunities are like clouds. If you are in the right age and state of mind, it is wise to acknowledge the ones who propose and find a good reason when you reject them. It is not right to let opportunities go by without trying at all.
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Naz_ in I Ask One Thing..   
    Al- Hadi & Sayeda, have a safe trip and remember us in your Duas :)
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Al-Hadi in I Ask One Thing..   
    Al- Hadi & Sayeda, have a safe trip and remember us in your Duas :)
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Saviour in I Ask One Thing..   
    Al- Hadi & Sayeda, have a safe trip and remember us in your Duas :)
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Kamranistan in I Ask One Thing..   
    Al- Hadi & Sayeda, have a safe trip and remember us in your Duas :)
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from satyaban in Co Wife Question   
    again! Islam don't encurage people to do arranged marriages or marry within the family, how one choose his/her partner (dating, arranged, ect) is up to them as long as they do not violate islamic law. yes Islam do encuorge Muslims to choose their partners based on piety, religion. ALL what you mentioned are cultural norms and not necessarily ALL are bad .. yes, it does exist more commonly in Islamic communities. and arranged marraige does not necessarily mean love will never born, only when they are not lucky enough!! .. when you read some Islamic law some rights and rulings seem dry and harsh. an example is the man right for sex from his wife seems like yes he can go and rape her!!, it is stated that he has this right from his wife but it doesn't mean that he have treat her badly or humilate her for it!!, if such a relationship continue, either the marraige will be dissolved, or continue raising more hate and conflict which is ofcourse unhealthy.. bro hyder mentiond the mere rights and ruling according to the Islamic law, and one should be wise on how to use their rights and to consider their parner's feelings as bro Abu Hadi said which you don't force every one for!! .. weighing the adventages and disavdatages of every thing is it better if Muta or polygamy is prohibited all together because some people abuse it or because it doesn't convince every body!! .. because i know cases men who claimed to be christians cheat their wives and even marry another woman!! .. why is not it is prohibited in christianity!! .. or prohibiting divorce making the life of people difficult .. or extra marital sex it is prohibited but people still fornicate!! .. you talk on the level of emotions which is fine, but rulings has to be realistic...
    you don't force someone to love, care, appreciate, consider your feelings it has to come from them!! .. and a good Muslim - generally - is expected to behave well!!
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Praetorius in Co Wife Question   
    again! Islam don't encurage people to do arranged marriages or marry within the family, how one choose his/her partner (dating, arranged, ect) is up to them as long as they do not violate islamic law. yes Islam do encuorge Muslims to choose their partners based on piety, religion. ALL what you mentioned are cultural norms and not necessarily ALL are bad .. yes, it does exist more commonly in Islamic communities. and arranged marraige does not necessarily mean love will never born, only when they are not lucky enough!! .. when you read some Islamic law some rights and rulings seem dry and harsh. an example is the man right for sex from his wife seems like yes he can go and rape her!!, it is stated that he has this right from his wife but it doesn't mean that he have treat her badly or humilate her for it!!, if such a relationship continue, either the marraige will be dissolved, or continue raising more hate and conflict which is ofcourse unhealthy.. bro hyder mentiond the mere rights and ruling according to the Islamic law, and one should be wise on how to use their rights and to consider their parner's feelings as bro Abu Hadi said which you don't force every one for!! .. weighing the adventages and disavdatages of every thing is it better if Muta or polygamy is prohibited all together because some people abuse it or because it doesn't convince every body!! .. because i know cases men who claimed to be christians cheat their wives and even marry another woman!! .. why is not it is prohibited in christianity!! .. or prohibiting divorce making the life of people difficult .. or extra marital sex it is prohibited but people still fornicate!! .. you talk on the level of emotions which is fine, but rulings has to be realistic...
    you don't force someone to love, care, appreciate, consider your feelings it has to come from them!! .. and a good Muslim - generally - is expected to behave well!!
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Naz_ in You Laugh You Lose - Muslim Edition!   
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from ImAli in You Laugh You Lose - Muslim Edition!   
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Blissful in You Laugh You Lose - Muslim Edition!   
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Ismahan007 in ShiaMatch.com, Beware of Frauds...!   
    Get Ready for the Surprises !
    Not to forget to be causious with a complete stranger!
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from wonderer in Apple Crumble   
    I make it with sum modification; 1 1/2 cup of flour, 1/2 cup vegetable oil,1/2 cup of sugar, i used 3 big apples dunno how big would be :wacko: add sum cinnamon powder ~ as available in the kitchen :cry: I make new recipe of urs :P but they like it :lol:
    should reduce oil if i use it next time, inshalla Im gonna to try the standard recipe next time :mellow:
    Thank u for sharing ;)
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Devotee in Apple Crumble   
    thnx for the recipe ;)
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Ismahan007 in Sheikh Usama Al-atar Released!   
    alhamdulillah
    becareful bro/ sis when u want to read the Ziyarra near the baqi3, those Wahabbi police stay near and get violent and agressive if u try to approach or stay long!! , u saw that already!!, may all shia pilgrims remain safe
    May alla Free Makka and Madina from those Wahabbi soon...
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Ismahan007 in 2 Questions For The Brothers From A Sister   
    1. as a girl, if he is a good shia guy, i will not care much about his family, but hope that they are not violent or Wahabbi!!
    2. I think u mean how a convert get along with their family after they convert?!, well yeah i will try to talk, and even convince them about the right path of shiism, if they still cant accept me, or get violent, i will walk away, it all for the sake of god sis, try to find comfort through fellow shia friends, or engage in activities that make u think less about ur problems, dont argu much with them if they reach the point that not listening but only insulting u, let it for time, hope those who go through the same dilemma will help you. alhamdullia i was born to shia family, but thru my search i dont believe in sum shia figures, but they still do, if I discuss this with them they accuses me!, so I leave it. so I bit understand u ...
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Aabiss_Shakari in Unfair That A Woman Must Observe Iddah After Muta'   
    It is said for psychological purposes also...
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Maula Dha Mallang in Unfair That A Woman Must Observe Iddah After Muta'   
    It is said for psychological purposes also...
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    Jumanah83 got a reaction from Light of Ali in Where Are You Originally From?   
    Thank you for your warm welcome :)
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