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Aliya 16

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  1. Hi I've been married many years with 3 children. It was a love marriage. From the beginning of our marriage I did notice my husband watched porngraphy and would satisfy himself after watching it. I ignored it as things were going well and it never stopped him coming to me for pleasure. But over the years I've noticed he comes to me less often and will be watching porngraphy more often. Several times a week. He would either go down in the middle of the night to fo it or deliberately start an argument so he then sends days/ weeks downstairs. I'm assuming so he can do his business without
  2. Thank you all for your comments / advice. We have been married for some time now and our sexual relationship is still very good. I'm also quite sexual and we will fulfil each other's needs when ever we require. For that reason I'm shocked he would turn to such an act. He's reassured me or a nothing to do with me but sometimes likes a release and he finds that way helps him distress. He is aware it's wrong and states he's doing it alot less. But I still cannot understand why he is doing it. As you say it's between him and Allah. He knows it's wrong and as his wife I'm made it clear I'm n
  3. Salam I'd like to get an opionion if it's the norm that a husband chooses to masturbate and watch porn as it makes him feel good. Why he chooses to do this if he's married ? He is aware it's haram but doesn't think it hurts anyone so not a problem doing it. I'd like to know do alot of men who are married do this ? Is this something that is happening in marriages that is widespread and noone talks about it? Does the man have the right to do this if for what ever reason his wife does not give him what he needs when he needs it? Or is it still wrong ? Has a wife got the right to a
  4. Salam What is the correct time to break ones fast? As some Shia's and all Sunni's break fast when sunset is shown signitifically, I.e if you Google time of sunset this is the time they break fast. But some Shia believe this is incorrect and you have to wait later till the last thread of the sun disappears. What are your thoughts plz and which teachings do you follow? Also if your going a way from home, what distance must it be before you are not supposed to fast? Thank you and appreciate your responses.
  5. Thank you all for your responses. Alhamdulillah I'm fasting and performing my saalat daily. I asked as I know someone is doing this. They know they should be praying and are able to pray but have not prayed in so long and so got into a bad habit which they can't seem to break. But they choose to fast everyday. Everything everyone has said makes perfect sense. I personally believe and feel that without prayer your fasting should not count. After all women cannot fast when their on their cycle. Why is this? Surely it's because you cannot pray if your unclean and if you cannot pray then you
  6. Hi I would like to know if your fast still counts if you do not do the daily prayer? If anyone has a Ayah in the Qur'an etc that makes the answer clear. Thank you.
  7. Thank you for this link. Found it very informative. Do you know if there is a utube or TV channel of this show ? Love to see other topics they discuss. Thank you.
  8. Salam Can anyone please explain what the interpretation of the Sura An-Nisa? Especially this part : An-Nisa' 4:34 ٱلرِّجَالُ قَوَّٰمُونَ عَلَى ٱلنِّسَآءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ ٱللَّهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَىٰ بَعْضٍ وَبِمَآ أَنفَقُوا۟ مِنْ أَمْوَٰلِهِمْۚ فَٱلصَّٰلِحَٰتُ قَٰنِتَٰتٌ حَٰفِظَٰتٌ لِّلْغَيْبِ بِمَا حَفِظَ ٱللَّهُۚ وَٱلَّٰتِى تَخَافُونَ نُشُوزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوهُنَّ وَٱهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِى ٱلْمَضَاجِعِ وَٱضْرِبُوهُنَّۖ فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوا۟ عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلًاۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيًّا كَبِيرًا Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one ove
  9. Thank you for your reply. Correction his name is Ali Gomaa and he was an Egyptian Islamic scholar. Known world wide. Two years ago he passed this fatwa. Search it and see what you think. There is alot of debate on this topic and wondered if more Islamic scholars looked into it further and possibly pass a fatwa. I would appreciate a link of the person you speak of. Thank you.
  10. Salam I'm looking at the reasons why dogs are not permitted to live in the home of a muslim. There seems to be a split view and last year a sunni ayatullah Mufti Ali Gomaa made a new fatawa stating dogs are pure and not unclean. Is there any shia ayatullah who has done the same? If not, how can muslims push for this topic to be revisited and possibly a new fatawa made. Appreciate your thoughts on this and any knowledge/ thoughts on the sunni ayatullah that made this fatwa on dogs. Thank you.
  11. Thank you for your replies. Can I ask please Abu Hadi is emtionally abuse ( which I consider not talking to children under the age of 12) as abuse, is this allowed in Islam? Is there any hadiths / teachings about this ? You state the man has the last say with how he disciplines the children with some input from the mother. Where does it state this? Surely both should agree on the method of discipline? What is a mothers role than if she feels the man is too strict and harsh with his kids? She needs to reassure the children they are being protected by her. My husband follows t
  12. Salam brothers and sisters I have researched online and any Islamic books of answers to what are the teachings of discipline of a child in Islam. Is it wrong for a mother or father to physically or emtionally punish a child? In particular what is the Islamic teachings about disciplining children? Is discipline different at a older age? Can a father punish his children physically or emtionally? Is this mentioned in the quran or any teachings on how to deal with or discipline children? For instance young children who misbehave, if the father as a way of punishment chose to not
  13. Thank you all for your replies. I shall take them all on board and hopefully it will go well. Wish me luck!!
  14. Salam All My sons teacher has asked me to come into class and speak to the children about Eid next week. My son is 6 years of age and his class is mainly white, so they have very limited knowlodge about Islam. I hate giving talks etc, but am keen to do this as my son is sooo excited and I have gone into school when he was in Reception year and spoke to the kids about Eid, but they were alot younger and it was really easy. Now they are older, I am not quite sure how much detail to tell them etc or how to start the talk? Please if you can help me with ideas on what to say to the children tha
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