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Mlle. Advice

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  1. Dearborn, Michigan has the largest Muslim population. It is relatively cheap compared to other places. Arizona also has a very cheap housing, but not sure about the community.


    Not sure who recommended California and Los Angeles to you. California is expensive wherever you go. Avoid it. Usually big cities like Chicago are also expensive.


    Your best bet is to look into Dearborn, Michigan.


    Ok, thanks for replying back. I like your advice. I have thought a lot about Dearborn.

  2. Salaam alaikum,


    Hello Im not really sure if this topic is supposed to be in this section? or off-topic? , so I do apologise in advance. I really need some help from my brothers & sisters out there who live in different parts of the Usa. Now don't worry yourself, I'm NOT here to beg money from the website, I know better than that hahaha.



    I am planning on moving to another state (Inshallah) because of important financial issues. The Arabic association where I currently live cannot help me with my questions. I am ashamed to say that possibly I can't afford to pay the full rent of my current residence & frankly it is just too too much. I live in a very expensive & run-down state, unfortunately.


    I want to ask about your opinions or recommendation on which state or area possibly has good living conditions, neighbourhoods, cities, etc but with a much more affordable range ($400- 500 or less) for rent. I am planning on moving to a state that has a good Arabic/ or generally Muslim community because I don't want my sibling to feel outsiders in school. And for safety issues.


    I don't really have this type of general information; my kowledge of usa demographics is not that good. Some people have recommended for me: New jersey, Dearborn, Michigan, Chicago, & Florida,&  California los angeles. I really need some second opinions from brotehrs & sisters on how it is in those places, like how expensive or affordable?? You don't have to tell me where you live, thats your privacy I respect, but if you have some knowledge and experience or advice PLEASE share with me anything you know or recommend. Also, any trusted websites I can search.


    thanks a lot

  3. This is unfair, not all men threaten to divorce their wives.  :mad:


    Sorry for the late reply. Of course not all men threaten divorce like its a game but if you watch Arabic soap operas like I do nowadays divorce is like a card game in all the shows, it's so easy and any one man can divorce their wives in 5 minutes. Even they do so divorce on Skype, Facebook, viber, and through text messaging also.

    Yes, men are men. Women are women. Humans are humans. Animals are animals. What's the point of what you just said?


    I simply mean that men tend to get angry & say mean stuff they later regret more often than women do. It's in the man's nature. I mean how many women do you know go around threatening divorce in a loud angry voice everyday??

  4. Oh?

    Oops. I thought a threat of divorce was an announcement that the marriage is effectively over. Ah well, lesson learned.

    Or maybe those idiots making the threat idly should learn a lesson to only say what they mean.


    Lool, yes well men are men so what can you say?

  5. My ex-husband threatened me with divorce once . . . .



    probably most men actually threaten but don't really divorce for real ... they use that as something to scare and warn the women by because they know every woman's worst fear after marriage is divorce lol



  6. Who in the world would be stupid enough to divorce "in anger" then regret it later? Are humans really that idiotic?


    salaam alaikum,


    unfortunately yes some people would be capable of doing such a thing, you would be shocked but what can you say? the op is talking realistic, and it does happen. I have heard of a couple who got divorced in that way here in the us but not sure if what their sect is.



  7. Salam alaikum, 


    nice topic, Latin is important language and teaches you many "origins" of Romance modern languages of today like Spanish, French, Italian etc. It is also very useful for students going into Medical/ medicine careers or pharmacology because thousands of the words in the Medical field have their origins in Latin. Especially students wanting or are planning to take the Medical exams like "Mcat" should consider taking a Latin course because they will be very surprised to find that it will help them A LOT for vocabulary and identifying terminology of something they don't know. I learned Latin for 2 years in grammar school, and it was VERY VERY hard definitely one of the most hardest languages on earth! But its definitely not a "dead" language as the person above said. Latin is still a "living" language and it lives in the modern Romance languages of today and in general scientific vocabulary.




  8. my beauty ritual is oil pulling with a tbs of Coconut oil every morning.


    maybe u know but theres a very good line of videos on youtube called "HomeVeda". they have recipes for natural Ayurveda remedies that u can easily do at home with simple ingredients from ur kitchen. u dont have to go out & spend a ton of monry on some expensive products from those stupid cosmetic stores who only want ur money. their products only do more harm than good because they have a ton of chemicals in them. if u go natural u will have the most benefits.

    simple stuff that people forget about can solve all ur skin & beauty problems, like salt water, lemons, oatmeal, green apples, cinnamon, honey, almonds. and of course the list is pretty ling byt u get the idea.

    Stay beautiful

  9. Salam aleikum,

    I agree with Enlighfen on using shampoos to clean our hair. i was just reading an article on how dangerous & damaging shampoos are for our hair. even i know some people get irritations like redness, itching, dandruff on their scalp & they dint even know its all because of their shampoo. if u research on google they tell u what kinds of harsh chemicals are in it.

  10. Silence

    ^^ Haha , i agree but sometimes not always from gold.

    im in surprise that no one said Portuguese , its

    so soft & beautiful. thats number 1 most

    beautiful for me ;) (just listen to the Disney songs in Portuguese & u will love it!)

    also Farsi , Spanish , german (sometimes) , Arabic , & Greek is lovely too. I find mostly Medditeranean languages r beautiful but not Turkish its sounds too strong. Chinese is super annoying though Lol.

  11. Salaam alaikum,

    im dealing with this problem for a long time now. im experiencing slower than usual Internet problems and especially when im on websites where there's a lot of pages and i need to click through each one, I never get passsed the first page and the website just freezes and "pretends" to load but never does. does anyone know whats going on & how can I fix this problem?? is it Internet or laptop related stuff??

    thanks & Jazak'Alla kheir

  12. Dua-e mashlool very good for physical ailments

    no, its not from quran........u can find it online at duas.org or in mafateeh 








    Salaamun Alaykum wr.


    Please follow these suggestions:


    1-The Duā which is narrated from the Prophet (p) in Bīhār al-Anwār, vol.92, p.35, H.21:


    اللَّهُمَّ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ الْعَلِيُ‏ الْعَظِيمُ‏ ذُو السُّلْطَانِ‏ الْقَدِيمِ‏ وَ الْمَنِّ الْعَظِيمِ وَ الْوَجْهِ الْكَرِيمِ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ الْعَلِيُّ الْعَظِيمُ وَلِيُّ الْكَلِمَاتِ التَّامَّاتِ وَ الدَّعَوَاتِ الْمُسْتَجَابَاتِ حُلَّ مَا أَصْبَحَ بی


    2-Read this verse 40 times (source: Jawāhir al-Qur’an):


    لا اله الا انت سبحانک انی کنت من ظالمین


    3- Recite the Surah al-Hashr (the 59th verse of the Noble Qur’an) and when you reach to the last three verses, put your hand on patient’s head and read those three verses.


    4- Read this Duā (al-Kāfī, vol.2, p.567, H.14):


    يَا مُنْزِلَ‏ الشِّفَاءِ وَ مُذْهِبَ الدَّاءِ أَنْزِلْ عَلَى مَا بِي مِنْ دَاءٍ شِفَاء


    I pray for you to gain your health again.


    With Duas.







    Salam mlle,

    I hope you become better,inshallah. Stay positive and give sadaqa when you can. I do not know of any specific dua,but do tasbiha al zahra and gift something to um al baneena and gift something else to her when you become better.

    Yes,everytime I gift something to her or any of the ahul bayat (as),my wish or condition becomes better,allhumduallah.

    Asalu meen Allah an yashafeeki wa yashfee kola mareeda.

    Look after yourself and take care.



    thank you SO MUCH for all who replied, i greatley appreciate it ur ideas, suggestions and duas u gave me. i have been in A LOT of pain for 3 months now so you will all be in my prayers inshAllah since u took ur time to help a sister out.


    Narsis, the duas u gave me are very good i beleive they are right for these situations, so thank u so much sister, i will pray for u & sister kim.tinkerbell. 

  13. What had you? There are specific duas which are read for specific ailments.

    salaam ,

    i dont want say too much. lets just say theirs a sprain involved & effecting my entire left leg. any duas for this ???


    Do Dua Mashlool for back pain and other illnesses

    Try out: herbal medicine-ask a traditional doctor for what herb is good for what illness.

    In addition make Dua in Sacred places, if you can, and tell there about your illness what it


    which Surah is in??


  14. good luck brother, may Allah bring to u the best & be a friutfilled marriage,


    seems ur both doing ok, just give her more attention and be as caring to her as possible. u have to make her feel she is the "ONE" in ur eyes & she is special to u. don't EVER make her feel like she is "just another proposal girl". don't make her feel cheep or low and forget the things u both spoke about in ur meetings she will think u dont listen to her "dont care about her", etc.


    also, please do not talk about or bring up other past women to her. this can really bother most girls  :excl:

  15. salaam alaikum,


    i hope all on SC is doing well


    does anyone sister or brother know some very good helpful Duas for physical recovery?? i didn't want get into details but i have been trying to get physical recovery since February this year because of a physical trauma i caused myself. my recovery is VERYY slow and the smallest trip, slip, or fall makes me go back days or weeks before. 


    i know there are some good Du'as for physical well-being and recoveries but i am not sure exactly which ones are for this right situation. i keep praying to get better but everrytime i do, something happening and i get worse then wait for more days for recovering. it's taking a VERY long time now since February & im desperate.


    if anyone know good du'as for this, PLEASE reply with anything u know. all is appreciated !!!!!


    jazakAllahu kheir!!!

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