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  1. UPDATE So me and the girl decided to seperate for 1 month just to clear our minds. She started crying a lot when we were talking and I started crying too since my feelings are too strong for this girl. I really want to give it another shot but with some rules. That she will raise my children and teach them praying, fasting, eating halal food ONLY and I can take care of the rest when it comes to Ahlulbayt etc´and if she agrees upon it I might give it a shot. One thing though that made me worry is that her family (her cousins, not her own family) drink alcohol when celebrating somethin
  2. I am a religious man "in the mind". I don't go to a lot of majles but I have religion 24/7 in my mind. My life is based on religion. I don't always do the extra stuff like Salat Al-Layl and such so I am not the ideal religious Shia Muslim and the only thing I require from her is to stay away from haram food, pray and fast so that my children will learn the core of Islam and I would teach them about Ahlul Bayt
  3. @AfricanShia @Marbles @AfricanShia @SunniBrother @Dhulfikar @shiaman14 @Panzerwaffe That's my thought right now. I will give her more time to teach her by actions and not by words. My cousin told me something: "If she really falls in love with you, she will eventually start looking deeper into your beliefs". She gave me hope but I don't want to hope too much. We still got like 3-4 years before marriage/engagement.
  4. Salam W Alaykum I am in a very confusing situation right now.. I have been stressing too much about it. I am originally a Shia Lebanese and live abroad with my family and have been doing it ever since I was kid. I always had in mind that I would marry a Lebanese girl since Lebanese suffer of extreme nationalism. For the past 3 months I have been dating an Iraqi girl who I adore and admire. I enjoy every second with her. When we first started talking she told me that her father is Sunni and her mother is Shia but she has very little knowledge of both, so she told me doesn't count hers
  5. I'm here because I need help. I get sexual aroused a lot in Ramadan for some reason (I am fasting btw), so I masturbate but I manage to convince myself to stop after a few minutes (Ejaculation does not occur). So it's been annoying for the past days, so I got a random idea which I think is wrong but that's why I'm asking: After that I'm done with Fu'tur(eating when the Salaat al Maghreb & Al Aisha comes), I thought I will masturbate to ejaculation and perform ghusl so that I don't have to keep masturbating all the time ... I'm pretty sure it's wrong but I don't know what else to do. I was
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