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  1. I know it's destined when things actually happen or do not happen. I don't agree with you, I don't think its a sin to say this. Allah (swt) says in many places in the quran that nothing happens in the heaven and the earth except that which he allowed/destined. not a single leaf falls on the ground without His permission/will. whatever comes from Allah is either a punishment, a test or a blessing. we can not do a thing on our own, whatever we have/choices we make have direct link with Allah, He's the only administrator. the evil deeds some ppl tend to do shouldn't be confused with this idea. if someone drinks alcohol, then that person is being tested with alcohol. if they continue drinking it then they will be punished b'cos of their stubbornness and challenging Allah, the lord of the world's. besides, according to some narrations, it is said that ''a good woman/wife is a blessing from Allah''. same way a wretched/wicked partner is also from Allah. like the quran says ALL good and evil comes from Allah. why separate the two! honestly, I find it strange to be a shia and not believe in this. its more of a shia thing than sunni. ALL our blessed imams lives is full of lessons and proofs for this concept. for instance, our prophet (saw) and imams married wicked women knowing the evil they'll commit during and after their lives, they married them b'cos Allah wanted it that way. Allah chose those women for them to marry to test them and His people. it wasn't out of 'choice' the prophet married Aisha and Hafsa for instance. our prophet and imams only did what Allah wanted them to do. im not saying this from my own. the prophet and the imams have made this clear in ahadith that they only married those two women bcos it was Allah's will and desire to do so. we don't end up in someone else's life just bcos we had a moment of 'choice'. like the quran says, this life is nothing but a test, so is everything in it is also a test.
  2. Aw really? since when sunni jurists come on this site? ALL I see are trolls.
  3. ^ why don't you educate me on the concept of predestination that you have 'expertly' grasped instead of attacking people and their beliefs? besides, who says everything sunnis believe in should be rejected. NO one is using Allah to justify anything, that is your own insecurity, perhaps bitting you? you consider birth predestined by Allah yet, refuse to accept that the parent's union for instance is also part of this, strange.
  4. Maybe you forgot to put ur glasses on, so I thought I could tell you that this is a shia forum, and not a sunni. if you're looking for answers to your questions from sunnis, I suggest to go to a sunni forum. there're plenty online, no need to come here. just my two cents!
  5. I think it all depends how you understand this concept. I dont see it as sunni vs shia concept, rather it depends how you understand it and how you argue your point. maybe my upbringing has something to do with it (I come from sunni family who strongly believe in this thing called pre-destination) however, I've grown up to form my own understanding, slightly similar as them though. I didn't say its Allah's fault the sister married this guy. of course it was her choice, we all make choices in life that we need to be prepared to deal with the outcome, however it was something she definetly could not avoid, cos it was something she had to go through in her life. we see a lot of ppl around us who are married either for the wrong reasons or wrong individuals, it cant be said that they did that solely by thier own choices, Allah put those ppl in their way, it was a test from God, wether they pass it or not, it solely depends on them but the fact that this ppl are in their lives is more than a bad choice they made. its part of what God has written for them. the attitude towards things is what matters the most, what happenbed already has happened. for instance, if the sister becomes pregnant (which could happen), can we say that kid was a product of a bad choice his mother made and could have had a different family (ie a shia maybe)? course no one thinks that way. many arguments for this concept. like I said its more than sunni vs shia thing here. its a reality, ive seen a lot of stories and things to believe in it. Besides, the quran clearly says to not be happy or sad for whatever happened or did not happen in your lives. ALL comes from Allah. to question and say for instance that the sister could have made a bad choice is wrong. Edit; a better choice***
  6. ^ I highly doubt that. a post on a rafida site, makes a salafi prouder, really? LOOOL where did Omar and Aisha go!
  7. My name is Ismahan and I support this post :D If only I get one pound for each time I get people ask me this question I would be a millionaire by now. the question I get asked is the other way around though LOL anyway to answer your question, '' what do Salafis have 'we' don't'' .... Salafis are proud people. full of confidence and pride. Although they have no religion other than worshiping satan, they will always remind us that they're superior to us and better than we'll ever be. that kind of confidence, that kind of swagger can't be found in any other people except in Salafis and Sunnis. It just rubs you in a very bad way. damn, I even think that the most ignorant salafi will probably have more pride and confidence in his religion than the most learned shia will LOL .... they also have trust and loyalty for their scholars, blindly and truly believe in them. whatever their Sherlock Holmes would say about shias for instance, they will listen and truly believe in it. whereas shias, in most cases, they seem to be living in their own fantasy world where no other people except them live in. and refuse to stop sugarcoating the truth and just accept their faith. from my observation and experience, in most cases we lack confidence. this would be the biggest problem I may have with most of those people who consider themselves as 'shias'. I dont consider myself in anyway or form better than any one, only Allah is aware of the inner soul of each and every one of us, however I genuinely believe that there are many things that are wrong in us that need to be addressed. since we are all one ummah by believing in the Ahlulbayt (as) and adhere/follow the same aqeda/beliefs, such discussions are vital, in order to help each other to improve, as well us make our pure imams happy and proud, as they (as) said in many ahadith to always be a good ornament for them and not a shame. despite having ALL that you mentioned such as our pure aqeda, fiqh and the knowledge we inherited from our pure imams we still have long way to go, to at least match sunnis in their level of eman and confidence in their beliefs/books etc.... . perhaps the only time we may have such kind of confidence and pride as sunnis/salafis is when it comes to mutah topics. :sick: Our speakers, ulama and those that speak for shia are the worse when it comes to this, makes me question the cause for such insecurity and lack of trust in their own faith that you struggle to find answers. you find speakers, ulama etc, in discussions/lectures about our pure Imams where there're no sunnis around, use sunni references for their information. this is so pathetic and saddening. ive said this b4, why do some speakers feel the need to use sunni sources to 'teach' or 'guide' the shia listeners? are they trying to 'boost' their confidence and convince them more about their faith by using other ppl's sources? if that's the case, then we have a serious problem, in fact a calamity that we should mourn over. bcos nothing is worse than using other people's books (people who are enemies to our imams and work against their wills). you will never find any sunni or salafi using shia source to educate their ppl about their own faith, they barely notice we even exist. whereas in shia, speakers have become accostomed to such absurd way of mentioning them in every leacture, even in muharram. lack of respect of the Imam and the audiences I find this very annoying. when I encounter such predicament, all I want is just leave the center or the mosque but bcos of the respect that I have for the ppl who invite me that lecture/event, I would just sit and feel obliged to continue listening with a disappointment. Also as its already been said, the way they work and organize themselves and present is admirable. basically you can say they're dawa'h machines. they have obsession to turn every person and stone on earth salafi/sunnis. I think there's no comparison between the two if you want the truth. maybe number have something to do with it, as they're huge in number and have Saudi backing but this shouldn't be the excuse for shias. Another thing is, the quran. I know it isnt wajeb in Islam to memorize the quran, however what happened to proper recitation of the ayats/verses? even our 'ulama' (most of those I've been to their lectures or watched them online) struggle with reciting simple ayat/verses on the mimber in lectures, its shocking! I always ask myself why is that though? if the 'scholars' we admire and let them speak on our mimbers would have such a problem, it makes you wonder about the ordinary shias. isnt the quran our primary source of guidance, how come most ppl do not even know how to recite properly let alone memorize anything. none of those shias that I know in person, know how to properly recite the quran, its sad. As for the unity/disunity business, I think for most of us, politics is more important than the religious beliefs that we took from our imams, the way they (as) drew for us. this great disunity that we see in the shia people has direct link to do with politics, it has nothing to do with Ahlulbayt and their ways. otherwise, if we all go back to our original aqeda, you will find the answer there, but most people seem to be very comfortable where they stand that they are scared of finding the truth. as long as we're avoiding to get our priorities right, the discussion about unity, will always remain just a discussion.
  8. Dear brother Ali Hussain, I really have forgotten this thread, please accept my apology! about the book, I borrowed it from a friend who goes to the Islamic College. they have it in their library. I haven't read the whole book (three volume paperback), cos I didn't have enough time to do so, however, its pretty good book. If my memory serves me right, I think the author appears to rely on mostly sunni historians ( Tabari, Bladhurri, etc). It is referenced although I can't say how comprehensive the referencing is. if you go to the Islamic College, you may find the book there. hope that helps, please again accept my apologies :) slm
  9. Brother Al-Mufeed, I'm just curious to know why its hard for you to believe this story lol! what happened to 'qada wal qader'? don't we have this concept in shia islam or what? :donno: the reason nothing makes sense in this story itself is the proof for this concept I believe. there was NO good reason to marry this guy but she married him anyway. she should be pleased with her decision and not cry! am not saying she should stay with this alcoholic, this ''marriage'' shouldn't have taken place but it happened anyway. its something that was written for her. all she needs to do now is make a choice, that is - whether to stay or leave this man. the later is the one should go for, Allah knows better.
  10. w'salaam sis, A man in his position has NO choice but to show the 'best akhlaq' he can show. c'mon, he's a divorced man, with an age he could easily be your dad.... dont be fooled by this sister. look beyond what he says and do to you. ask him what caused his divorce and why he couldnt avoid it. Allah knows best but be suspicious and always ask questions. dont rush into it. also, family is extremely important, consult your family and take their advice.
  11. I didnt claim it to be healthy. but the fact of the matter remains that the one who cares more suffers the most in the relationship, unfortunately that's what happens most of the time :(
  12. I agree with you ImAli. The one who cares less always wins in the relationship.
  13. haha play that at the first sight of a wahabbi, it will do you a great favor. they may join you since they're also brainless and that way you save ur life. btw, you dont have to thank me for anything. I love saving kids lives. I like children :)
  14. And how nice of you to take me serious and let me know this. thanks :lol:
  15. 'wsalaam sister, 'while you are safely and comfortably in you own home, not many shias in Pakistan, Afghanistan and Iraq have the same luxery as you.....'' firstly, please you dont know me and know how my life is, so I suggest you not make such a statement. 2nd, I've already said that the killings of shias in those counties has nothing to do with how some people chose to practice and follow their religious teachings. shias has always been killed and will always get killed, not bcos of what other shias do or say but bcos of their beliefs. nothing more or less... read your history, you will find similar if not worst killings of shias. 3rd, to challenege an ideology and bring it to question does not akin to hatred.
  16. Ooh really? what makes you think a brainwashed loser and a hypocrite such as yourself would succeed in making me get offended? you're a fool who's scared of the enemy and refuse to admit and embrace the truth about his beliefs and hide behind '' I know that there is a time and place for things'' tell me the place and the time for the things, that is; your faith? I assume in ur little closet where no one except the shaytaan sees you. that's where you practice ur religion? you dont even have the courage to admit what ur beliefs are when u are supposed to. you are speaking against ppl for speaking out the truth, for refusing to practice their religion in the closet like you and hide from the eyes out of fear for their 'lives'. stop acting like you care for those ppl wahabbis kill, you are scared for your own self. you want to hide behind those poor ppl to cover for urself. cos you know the whabbis wont leave u, they will get u too.... thats why u insist you practice ur religion in the closet and insist treating wahabbi with silky gloves. well my dear, not all ppl are like you. they have embraced their beliefs and accepted their faith and they have decided that they will not chose time or place in order to practice. you first come out of the closet that you are in before opening ur big mouth on ppl.
  17. You're truly a nuisance and a walking tragedy. you're so scared of the wahabbis and their fitnas that you wish bad for your shia brothers and sisters and wish they disappear from the existence. why?? do the wahabbis scare you that much? what do they have to be scared of them. let them spread their propaganda and lies as they wish, they're only increasing their sins. you shouldnt let that affect you. I think you're a disgrace. may Allah guide you.
  18. you seem to be one of those ppl who are angry at Omar and curse him because he banned mutah. I however, curse him and is forever angry at him because he hurt my Lady Zahra (as), that is the difference you don't know.
  19. Who let the DOGS out ?!?!?!?!?!?! Wooof Wooof Wooof Wooof lol
  20. How about practicing what you're preaching? you openly accused me even though we dont know each other. I can have all kind of views on mutah as I want. that shouldnt give you the right to say what you said about me, you shameless hypocrite. What part of the verse I 'ignored'? I didn't say the verse was not about mutah, so stop putting words into my mouth to hide your lack of reasonable answer to my question. I simply asked how this verse promotes mutah since its used on every mutah debate/discussions to easily trick ppl into fooling them about mutah. I think the above qouted verse is the most misunderstood verse of all in shia ppl in general. what a pity.
  21. See whos talking about immaturity now? if there's anyone immature here is you. you sound best at it. and why should I be offended by what a faceless troll such as yourself'd say about me lololololols you dont know me, why should I care. if theres anything you say it only reflects ur dirty mind who thinks the worst about ppl whom he doesnt even know. Real Talk! I respect Abu Hadi's views but there's nothing new or surprising there. Its you who claimed mutah as 'Allah swt's merciful laws' to which I disproved. instead of proving it is you come again crying hiding behind your usual fallacy. Like I said you have a small tiny brain as that of a monkey to understand anything. I wouldn't expect different from you. you still haven't get anything? your argument of omar is laughable. let me waste more of my precious time and explain to you since u have no functioning brain. the story says this man banned mutah and said will punish anyone caught doing mutah. tell me where did I ever said such a thing? where did I disallow mutah and said will punish anyone who do mutah? in ur tiny little monkey brain perhaps???? PS Do not come back here crying with the same allegation against me to cover for urself because I will certainly tell you to shove it up in your pug nose. there you have it!
  22. The boy will not agree. why should he buy milk when he can have it for free? common sense isnt it. Thank you for taking time to post that article. I've read it long time a go, nothing new or different in this article. the same topic and arguments over and over. I agree with the sunni scholar mentioned in the article who said mutah is a pure fornication. since the majority of mutah is done without the consent of the families, then that is nothing but a pure fornication. thanks for our 'scholars' who give green light to such a fasad. I'm well aware that almost ALL 'shia scholars' use this TIRED verse to justify mutah. but how does this verse advocates mutah? its simply addressing those who engage in mutah and how God wont blame them for engaing in it bcos this act doesnt oppose share'a so there is no blame on them for doing it. it doesn't in no way promotes the idea of mutah and call ppl to engage in it the way some ppl are doing on this very thread or else where. this should be clear, we shouldnt mix up things to satisfy already lost souls. so its useless for you to use it for this argument...'shia scholars' like this verse very much. they use it all the time, its sad. the same scholars who have the audacity to give out rulings allowing such as virgins engaging in mutah without the permissions of their walis despite the quran being clear in more than three places, emphasizing the importance of asking the permission of the girl's family in marriage and strongly warns to not meet in secret let alone do things God forbid.. . cherry picking much? this ppl make me ahsmaed cos they make islam look like nothing but a religion designed to only fulfill muslim men's sexual needs like animals. its so pathetic.
  23. Its obvious he's speaking of himself. may be he normally looks for alternatives to mutah to doubt ppl. the only purpose of his post is to use mutah as an excuse to hide this. what a loser.
  24. you're a sad pitiful misanthropic creature you know that? I knew someone with little brain gonna mention Omar or my member title. I dont know why such ppl like to use what I write on my member title or signature for their little pathetic arguments. are you that retarded? I think you have small brain as that of a monkey that tells you to imagine anyone who's not doing mutah is fornicating. perhaps you speaking much of ur own personal experience? however you should know that not all ppl are sex manics and cant survive unless done mutah. mutah is for weak minded ppl with very low eman. plus I dont know which book you read to conclude that mutah is a 'law' laid by Allah. for your information, the quran doesnt mention anywhere about doing mutah. it doesn't even suggest such a thing. mutah is basicly a jahiliya practice that the jahiliya 'arabs' came up with. stop using wrong information to brainwash young minds. as for the ahadith, majority of the ahadith on mutah are fabrications that goes against the logic that should be scrutinized and then killed.. no body wants to do mutah with a low life such as yourself. now cry us river!
  25. Like propaganda said, that's not always true. what if all the attempts to find a suitable husband/wife through the family didn't work? should they not then try other methods that could perhaps work? I'm not fond of matrimonial sites myself but I know few good believers who did use this method to meet their spouses who are now very happily married. I think making such a generalization is an offence for ppl (such as those I know) as well as many who married through those sites.
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