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misbah 2004

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  1. yeah sure, no probs.

  2. You first. And I never did. You seem to be forgetting that you yourself clarified the usage of the term in quotations by describing it as the ahadith "regarding the status of women in Islam". And my post was directly in response to this clarification. Wrong, I said that "many" of those ahadith are authentic. Multiplicity does not denote majority. Obviously. It would be absurd to claim that every single hadith about a particular topic is authentic. I think you're having trouble comprehending the exchange that occurred between us. In case you've forgotten, you stated: You MUST really go thro
  3. And what YOU were referring to were ahadith "regarding the status of women in Islam" that were posted on threads here, and many of those ARE authentic regardless of how you feel about them.
  4. "We" are not kidding anyone here. You should speak only for yourself. Good for you. The ones I was referring to, however, are authentic in both ways.
  5. Uhhh that is the thread that I linked to in my post too. Are you referring to some specific post which is a reply to my question?
  6. Why the inverted commas? Many of those traditions are authentic. I am very well aware of the position of women in Islam.
  7. If it comes to choosing between having them wear skull rings and makeup *gasp* and having them live the servile lives that most Afghani women live (refer: video below), I think I'll go with the sneaker chick lifestyle. Good for them.
  8. I see. But then, why does Islam allow a man to have sex with his married slave girl? From here: Link
  9. Depends on your marja. There are scholars like Khoei who deem it compulsory and others like Sistani who say that it only becomes wajib if you are attracting attention.
  10. So a woman having more than one spouse i.e. having sex with more than one person is wrong? Scientifically and/or morally?
  11. what u chking my profile for? <_ stop stalking me..gimme some space sheeshhhhhh>

  12. Can I have that pic of yours again, please? :angel: :angel:
  13. The consensus is certainly there, and only the very ignorant people are unaware of it. The claim that women are deficient in intelligence and faith has been accepted by ALL early Shi'a ulema. For example: Sayyid ibn Ta'wus in his Kashaful Muhajjah, page 181: æÇáäÓÇÁ äæÇÞÕ ÇáÇíãÇä äæÇÞÕ ÇáÚÞæá äæÇÞÕ ÇáÍÙæÙ ÝÃãÇ äÞÕÇä ÅíãÇäåä ÝÞÚæÏåä Úä ÇáÕáÇÉ æÇáÕíÇã Ýí ÃíÇã ÍíÖåä æÃãÇ äÞÕÇä ÚÞæáåä ÝáÇ ÔåÇÏÉ áåä ÅáÇ Ýí ÇáÏíä æÔåÇÏÉ ÇãÑÃÊíä ÈÑÌá Sharif Murtada in Risa'il, page 124 ãÚÇÔÑ ÇáäÓÇÁ (1)¡ ÇáäÓÇÁ äæÇÞÕ ÇáÅíãÇä¡ äæÇÞÕ ÇáÍÙæÙ¡ äæÇÞÕ ÇáÚÞæá¡ ÝÃãÇ äÞÕÇä ÅíãÇäåä ÝÞÚæÏåä Úä ÇáÕáÇÉ æÇáÕíÇã Ýí ÃíÇã ÍíÖåä¡
  14. Well, when you are from a South Asian culture, going to the mother's house for the delivery and staying back makes a lot of sense. The woman who has just had a baby needs looking after and usually MILs won't take on that responsibility and would expect the woman to do housework and serve her/the husband. The mother of the woman, on the other hand, pampers her and takes care of her.
  15. and yeah, i do log in mostly but to reply to PMs and stuff. and yeah marriage means fighting lolol...im not out of practice either heheheh

  16. how mean is that..."you wont understand techinal stuff blah blah" <_>

    im good, am married too...waiting to join the hubby in canada. how's married life?

  17. Whats that supposed to mean? I rarely post here. I think i posted stuff after a year or so. And i do have a life outside of Shiachat. How are you? Long time no fight hehe

  18. According to Islam, men are indeed superior to women. There is unanimous consensus among our classical scholars that women are subservient to men due to our weakness in intelligence and judgment. Which is why throughout Islamic history women have not been allowed to be judges or rulers (and this is in conformance with the rulings of our own Shia scholars). For example, take a look at this hadith by Imam Ali [as]: 305 / 6 - ÍÏËäÇ Úáí Èä ÃÍãÏ Èä ÚÈÏ Çááå Èä ÃÍãÏ Èä ÃÈí ÚÈÏ Çááå ÇáÈÑÞí (ÑÍãå Çááå)¡ ÞÇá: ÍÏËäí ÃÈí¡ Úä ÌÏå ÃÍãÏ Èä ÃÈí ÚÈÏ Çááå¡ Úä ÃÈíå¡ Úä ãÍãÏ ÇÈä ÃÈí ÚãíÑ¡ Úä ÛíÑ æÇÍÏ¡ Úä ÇáÕ
  19. The standard Muslim reply to that is that women prefer to have only one partner at a time and that is apparently in their nature and hence the wife will not desire to have sex with anyone else.
  20. Sounds like a complete jerk. If he can't be loyal to you and wait for you, he doesn't deserve you. Also, it might sound frivolous, but having a sense of humor is really important. Having a partner who can make you laugh and lighten up even when you have serious problems, that is so essential. I don't know what I would have done if my husband didn't crack jokes like uhh 24x7 LOL.
  21. Added on MSN. Send me a message on SC when you are online on messenger coz I rarely log in there.

  22. you have an account on gmail? i am on gtalk most of the time.

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