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313_Waiter reacted to SO SOLID SHIA in New trend amongst younger Shia to challenge long held beliefs
I've seen a lot of these unstable kids post and challenge Islamic beliefs in general especially the shia ones. There seems to be a large online communist movement crept in amongst Shias. these green haired take off the hijjab (out of defiance and Yass Queen-ism) and wear a t-shirt with a picture of Che Guevara on it and all claim they are suffering with 'Imposter syndrome' is just something that makes them feel important in this world. AND OF COURSE THEY ARE IMPORTANT, but they feel that they need to be different in order to be heard. I blame Daddy issues once again. Every problem in life, its a daddy issue.
If you just ignore them, they'll eventually find something else to do. Right now they all want to diagnose with something to put in their bio.
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313_Waiter reacted to Ashvazdanghe in What War With Iran Would Look Like
Salam it's a well known dirty tactic of creation of spiral of silence by relating these movements into infamous supporters of Zionism & new (Zionist) world order likewise Soros & Rockefeller 's family which they are disturbing few amount of fund between student groups in order to deviate them into their desired procedure because currently students groups are chanting slogans both in favor of Palestine & against new (Zionist) world order which as @Eddie Mecca has said they are trying to push them toward their evil agenda by disturbing few amount of funds & etc between student groups while until now these groups have been independent groups so then they couldn't accuse them into receiving funds from Iran or Hezbollah or Hamas & other anti zionist groups ; so therefore now they are spreading their poison between these groups by such little funds & doing a massive propaganda about it which source of this claim is NYpost which is propaganda machine of another infamous zionist Rupert Murdoch .
some examples of fake & fabricated news by NY post
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_York_Post
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313_Waiter got a reaction from Eddie Mecca in What War With Iran Would Look Like
Is this true? If so, is the goal destablisation of America and formation of Israel as new global dajjalic system?
https://www.rt.com/news/596640-student-protests-palestine-soros/
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313_Waiter reacted to SO SOLID SHIA in Adding religion
Salam Alaykum moderators
Can you please add' Rastafari' ,'Sufi' and perhaps 'Church of Satan' to the religion options to make it more inclusive.
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313_Waiter got a reaction from Diaz in How long before marriage
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313_Waiter reacted to SO SOLID SHIA in How long before marriage
I meant daddy as in father, but now that you mention it....Daddy issues leads to Dzaddy issues. It's all one
Wahdatul wujood
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313_Waiter reacted to Qa'im in How long before marriage
Some people are blinded by love, lust, or addicted to the "butterflies" "honeymoon" phase of a relationship. It feels like a volcano of emotions. Some people are also genuinely just slow-witted. That's why there isn't a prescribed time. Personally, I can get the general gist of a person after 3 weeks of talking to them everyday. For some it may take 4 months or 8 months, maybe a year, but not longer than that.
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313_Waiter reacted to Abu Hadi in How long before marriage
You'll instantly want to be with them physically. That's called lust. I agree that that's part of marriage and an important part but it's not the 'whole enchilada'.
Like others have said whether a couple is compatible for marriage depends on many things, their values, goals for life, preferences, morality, personality type, etc. You can't tell all that instantly. Sorry.
To the OPs question, there's not a specific amount of time in terms of weeks or months. You need enough time to figure out if u are compatible, long term. That includes talking about things like children, career goals, preferences for things like where u want to live, her thoughts about religion, family, life in general. In addition seeing her in enough different situations where u see how she reacts to different things that happen, like what was stated in previous posts. Anyone can say that they are kind, patients, good tempered, moral, etc but u don't really know until u see them in situations where it is not in their material interests to be that way and yet they maintain their values despite that.
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313_Waiter reacted to PureExistence1 in How long before marriage
Salaam...this is interesting, especially when as mentioned by someone else, temporary marriage would "protect" the both if you from haram especially if all you would both be doing during that amount of time is talking other than the 5 weeks youre able to actually see her off and on while visiting..is she in a hurry to get married?
As someone else mentioned, there is no time limit on how long to get to know somebody for..the more a person is able to see the other in all the different types of situations life throws at them, the better you both will be able to judge how you each cope and react to these situations and how compatible that is for you both. Some people have extremely poor coping skills but you won't know that until they end up in a situation where they're forced to show their true nature. Other people, are extremely generous and giving, yet you might not see that from them unless the correct circumstance arises. Other people have serious anger management control issues, and you won't know that until you see them in a situation where they are extremely upset about something and how they manage themselves.
So the good and the bad eventually come out when getting to know somebody.
Marriage isn't a game and its a very serious decision.. most people only want/plan to go through it once. It's not something I would be in a hurry to get into unless there are some very pressing reasons to do it immediately.
I know generally we hear people saying you should get married right away, but the world is a very different place now than it ever has been, things have changed more in the last few hundred years than they have in thousands of years, that also means people have changed as far as behaviors, attitudes and responses are concerned. I say take your time. I don't see what the rush is.
w/s
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313_Waiter reacted to Ashvazdanghe in How long before marriage
Salam knowing each other has no time limit although basic understanding of each other likewise during a year is a good idea which you can do Mutah for a year for not committing any Haram in interaction ; so then make it a permanent marriage if you have reached to a positive conclusion about each other in both sides ; anyway process of knowing each other must continues even after your permanent marriage in order to you found interesting things about yourselves & refreshing your love & preventing of having a boring life with each other.
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313_Waiter reacted to SO SOLID SHIA in How long before marriage
If you ask my grandmother this question she'd probably say at least 1 days notice and call you entitled for even thinking you are allowed to get to know your future spouse. Anyways why are you thinking of this right now?
Have you found anyone yet.? Have you ever spoken with a female before ? What were the conversations like?
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313_Waiter reacted to Eddie Mecca in What War With Iran Would Look Like
IRAN PREPARING FOR IMAM MAHDI, ISRAEL PREPARING FOR MOSHIACH & WAHHABI GULF ARAB KINGS PROTECTING ISRAEL! - Independent Islamic Republic - 8 minutes 49 seconds
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313_Waiter reacted to Eddie Mecca in What War With Iran Would Look Like
Iran spent approximately $10 million volleying antiquated wooden (i.e. fiberglass) missiles at Israel...this made the US and Mini-me respond by firing all their advanced drones in an attempt to block everything...Scut Farkus (U.S.A.) and Grover Dill (Israel) decided to fire their latest technological drones because they assumed that Tehran was firing their best advanced stuff...Tehran made the Axis of Genocide spend $1.35 billion
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313_Waiter reacted to Eddie Mecca in What War With Iran Would Look Like
A historic watershed moment...absolutely unprecedented (putting aside Saddam's Scud missile-bombing of Tel Aviv and Haifa back in 1991)
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313_Waiter reacted to realizm in Poor Jokes - [OFFICIAL THREAD]
@SO SOLID SHIA @AbdusSibtayn
Two must-read for any Muslim.
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313_Waiter reacted to SO SOLID SHIA in Poor Jokes - [OFFICIAL THREAD]
This isn't actually a joke. Who can relate?
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313_Waiter reacted to SO SOLID SHIA in Sunni praying Jummah prayers at a Shia Mosque - What to expect?
Salam alaykum brother! Firstly expect the replica Zuljanah horse to be brought out before the azan. Following the prayers you will be required to remove your shirt and perform matam with the rest of the momins.
Eid Mubarak I'm just joking! Am sure Inshallah there will be no odd stares and you will be welcomed gracefully by everyone. Peace and blessings
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313_Waiter reacted to hawdini in Martial Arts Anyone ?
hahaha
no i wishh, its my dream to be so strong and flexible. My bro did practice those moves on me when we were kids tho
whats the difference between northern and southern?
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313_Waiter reacted to SO SOLID SHIA in Martial Arts Anyone ?
Haha that does sound like a game to pass time in prison ! It was actually in a coffee shop
That looks like it has Northern Praying mantis moves in it too....what do you mean?? It's yours and your brother's favourite YouTube video or style of Kung Fu ..you guys do Kung Fu??? Drunken style
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313_Waiter reacted to Haji 2003 in Midjourney Experiments
I just asked for a middle east mixed-gender discussion and got this!
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313_Waiter reacted to SO SOLID SHIA in Midjourney Experiments
This isn't AI but I wanted to share it because it's real
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313_Waiter reacted to Haji 2003 in Midjourney Experiments
I started using the blend function in Midjourney
I uploaded these pictures of various muqarnas that I had taken.
Sultan Qaboos mosque in Muscat Oman, a mosque in Kashan and another in Isfahan.
It came up with this:
The source images.
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313_Waiter got a reaction from hawdini in What Are You Reading Currently? [OFFICIAL THREAD]
The future of humanity by michio kaku. Good book so far, recommend it to people interested in space travel, future technologies etc.
