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  1. Or is it the case that they would only go for an Iraqi guy? Seems as if Iraqi guys would be happy to marry a non-Iraqi like an Iranian, not sure about females...
  2. Salaams everyone Ok well I'm a bit stuck as I am not sure what I should be doing in regards to a situation... I do want to approach this female and we're both attending this non-Muslim professional event in a weeks time. My contact with her up until now has been sporadic, I don't know her really well we do have a lot of mutual friends however we've never really spoken a great deal. Over the past few months theres been a few internet back and forths but thats mainly been around me giving some advice on jobs etc. So I don't know what to do, I don't want it to be that after the event I don't re
  3. Salaams I'd appreciate peoples honest responses here as I am in a bad place mentally.... I was born with a genetic condition which to briefly explains means that my collagen is weak and therefore I have flexible joint and I walk with somewhat of a limp. This condition is with me for life and as a result it also means that should I ever marry and want a child them there is a 50% chance that he/she will get the condition. I've certainly had ups and downs in my life and it has been tough to deal with my condition. However, that hasn't stopped me, I can walk, have gone to uni, got a degree,
  4. All my friends around me are getting married left right and centre! I was stupid during university and didn't focus on finding someone there and now here I am with seemingly no options whatsoever! I don't come from a family who have an extensive network/reputation so that's out of the cards, really getting worried that I will miss the boat entirely here as I have no time whatsoever to look because of work!! And yes I've tried these websites and I am afraid that that's not the road I want to go down........this is entirely my fault lusting over certain females and not conducting myself in a pro
  5. @OneNoteSong it is called Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, I have a mild version of it and note the serious form of it alhamdullah
  6. Salaams everyone, inshallah you are all well. I need some advice here, I am approaching the age of 25 and I want to married now as I have a job and feel that I can support a wife. However, I seem to have this barrier in going ahead with anything. I was born with a medical condition which means that I have weakened joints. It means that I cannot do overly strenuous activities however up until this point I have achieved a lot (although I have had numerous operations). Part of me thinks that there is no chance a sister would want to marry me, given how some people can judge an individual on their
  7. Iranian Thanks for the posts so far some have been useful. I have another question, I am Iranian and if I want to marry an Arab (e.g. Iraqi, Lebanese) there would be no issues from my side of the family. However, is it the case that her family will look to have someone from their own country or does that depend on the family themselves?
  8. Unfortunately I am not Pakistani, on top of that my mother doesn't know anyone!
  9. Salaam bro, well I am 24 at the moment. Ideally I would like to get married at 25-26. I am a bit wary of websites such as the above. I was thinking of asking friends for people they know but its just confusing especially as I only started socialising with other shias from university time onwards. You my friend have a loooooooong way to go. It doesn't help when I am getting harassed by my mother on daily basis!
  10. Salaam everybody, I am new here to SC so its my first post (please be gentle!). I basically have reached a stage where I think it is the right time to get married. I have finished uni, secured a job and am starting to improve on my religious duties. However, as a male I have no idea how to go about looking to marry someone. My family are not really well connected and do now know that many other families. I also live in a part of London where there are not many other Shia families. I really do not understand the process of securing marriage, do I get to know a female first and ask her? Do I get
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