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  1. 10 hours ago, notme said:

    So would a lot of men. 

    If the mahr has not been paid, the woman requests it and the man refuses, does the woman gain the right to divorce? Or what if the husband refuses financial support such that the wife is forced to work for an employer to provide for herself and children? 

    It’s obligatory for the husband to provide for his family. Not doing so may provide sufficient grounds for a divorce.

  2. On 4/25/2022 at 1:11 AM, notme said:

    I mean he can refuse to divorce her.

    My ex-husband initially refused to divorce me. I was able to persuade him, but if I had not been able, I'd have been left neither functionally married, nor single, at his discretion.

    Dear sister, he can refuse to divorce her but that doesn’t mean she can’t receive her mahr. 

    mahr is not bound by a divorce, the wife can ask for it anytime during marriage and husband must pay her immediately.

    In marriage a women has more rights than a man, you will be surprised. 

  3. 15 hours ago, HRB said:

    Thanks Hassan.

    What about washing hands impure with urine with kurr water? Since the water wont change the colour, smell or taste of water and one can not see the intrinsic impurity dripping while washing (but it will be there as I am washing urine), so will that dripping water considered pure?

    Who said the water won’t change its colour, smell or taste? If you can see the urine as you are washing it, then the water has changed and has become najis.

  4. 54 minutes ago, notme said:

    Right.  So if wife asks for divorce, which is the scenario we are discussing, husband can demand that she return her mahr. Correct? 

    He also can simply refuse.  That's condemned in the Quran, but not prohibited, according to our scholars.  

    What do you mean he can refuse? If you are talking about mahr, he can’t refuse. If wife demands it he must give her the mahr. If wife doesn’t want it then husband doesn’t need to give it. It’s pretty simple.

  5. 14 minutes ago, notme said:

    So you're saying if the husband wants to keep it, he can?  Because that's what this sounds like.

    No, I said if the wife agrees to it. If she doesn’t agree, and he divorces her, he must give her the mahr.

  6. 3 minutes ago, notme said:

    So to be clear, if the woman asks her husband for divorce and he (amicably) agrees, she may keep her mahr, but if she demands divorce due to him being intolerable to her, she is not?   Basically, if he's a good and decent man and she wants to divorce him anyway, she keeps her mahr?  

    Technically, even if she demands divorce because she despises him, he has to agree before it is valid.  

    Whether she asks or demands for a divorce and the husband grants her it, he must give her the mahr. Only a khali’ divorce, which is when the wife agrees to step down from her mahr in return for the husband to divorce her, is the exception.

  7. 14 hours ago, Guest AnonymousSinner said:

    Waalaykum asalam, thank you for your reply.

    what about in my case as I can't be a hundred percent sure whether the najasah transferred to my other hand or not as a result of it brushing against the najis hand?

    If you are not 100% sure it is ruled as tahir. For something to be najis you have to be 100% sure of it.

  8. On 4/21/2022 at 7:11 AM, HRB said:

    So which ruling should dictate if the dripping/splashing water is pure or impure?


    According to rule 15 adding impurity to Kurr water stays pure if the colour, taste and smell of the water didn’t change. Rule 19 says says dripping is impure if the colour, taste and smell of water changed. Both rulings tell you the same thing. your washing blood and you see the blood dripping, then the Kurr water’s colour has changed and it’s impure.

  9. If she’s not divorced or widowed then no. Although it’s halal (given the father or paternal grandfather’s approval), it will do more harm than good for her. In the Arab culture if a virgin women is known to have done mut’ah then say goodbye to her reputation and future, no man will ever permanently marry her. 
    Just because something is halal it doesn’t mean it’s the right thing to do.

  10. 21 hours ago, Kamyar Majlessi said:

    How would I know the common view? :clap:

    It’s what people in your area consider what a beard is. If you live in the Middle East where everyone has beards, they may not consider 1mm hair to be a beard where as in the west they may consider it. It’s on you as a person to figure that out. 

    If it’s not considered a beard, and you don’t have enough moist on your eyebrows, then your wudu is void and you must repeat it.

    If you understand Arabic I can show you evidence.

  11. I like cats and as much as I would want one it’s not worth the risk, they shed everywhere even if you clean and groom them. You have to clean and vacuum your house daily and even doing that will not guarantee every single hair to be removed from your home. Every time you want to pray you must change your clothes and must have a special praying matt, if there’s one single cat hair on you (according to a lot of Marjas) your prayer is invalid. 

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