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  1. Walaykm salam I have a friend who has a shredder, so i usually send him those papers and he will take care of it. What tendersoul suggested is a good solution or you could shred the part where there is Allah's name or other sacred names and verses into tiny pieces so as not to have two letters beside each other
  2. I just hope the maraji are seeing this..... sometimes i feel that some maraji are never there when the faith really needs them..... being silent is making insanity worse.
  3. Salams Fairly most girls become attractive after putting on kohl, but a little so as to mimic normal eye color is acceptable as long as it does not attract attention (because we know when it does) and yes there is brown kohl, you just have to search for it
  4. Thuglife..... you are such an opportunist!! And a showoff ( no disrespect)
  5. Salam alaykm A simple question, i posted something a few hours ago and i signed out. When i signed back in the post disappeared? Was it removed?
  6. Anyway, every person has his own package you just have to pick out what feels wright for you. For example, alot of guys prefer that their wife asks their permission for every single thing, now i am not saying that is wrong, but some girls cannot live with that, so is she considered bad as a wife ofcourse not and on the other hand you will find men giving their wives freedom in that field and again is the man considered weak i doubt it. honestly just ask her everything that comes to mind, and if she is a good muslim everything will fall into place nshalla
  7. Salams Is this hadeeth authentic? Sorry for asking but i am used to checking authentications for personal reasons I also would like to ask about what Tawheed313 said
  8. Salam alaykm thanks everyone. Personally i believe marriage is for spiritual reasons and it comes in many forms as in gaining physical security or children.... i guess i opened up to a possibility that human hearts have many lumps and blackholes and that everyone has his own bala'a..... i kinda admire her though because she is willing to face herself no matter what
  9. Haydar husayn you have a point.... will it help if i tell you she never felt attracted to a guy in her life, i know because i asked her. Eventhough she is sociable and amiable and many men were attracted to her yet she did not feel the same way, back then i thought its probably his fault..... after what she told me i cannot say the same thing now
  10. باسمه تعالى Salam alaykom My topic is about homosexual desires..... ok so you will probably say "oh god not again"..... i know this topic has been widely discussed on this website and eventhough i have read most of the threads dealing with this topic i still feel i should post it and get helpful comments hopefully i have a friend that has been attracted to girls a few times in her life, i only knew about it recently cuz things happened and she kinda told me herself, yet she does not intend to act according to her desires (frankly now i know why sometimes she gets so depressed and no matter how many times we ask her she never tells) anyway, she told me she feels like their is an imaginary boulder sitting on her chest. I mean lets face it she is a muslim an a muhajjabah and she likes her religion but she is not understanding her desire and where it came from. I didnt know what to do or what to say, and to top it off she is getting engaged soon not because she fancies the guy but merely because she wants to prove to herself that she can be normal (literally)..... I kinda felt that she is getting married for reasons other than romance, like she wants to commit herself to someone in order to forget what she desires ..... I am just sharing this to hear ur comments and if anyone knows someone with the same experience please don't hesitate. I know there is so little i can do for her anyway but homosexuality is something i do not understand myself so my question is: Will Alla (swt) punish u for carrying such desires even if a person is determined not to fullfill them? thanks for reading salam alaykm
  11. Well what's next, is she gonna bring a dog into the house as well.... look akhi u should just be plain and simple, and tell her the root of ur beliefs and what should and should not be done, and if she abides then problem solved. But if she deosn't then don't commit such an act. i know alot of interreligious marrages that failed miserably just because the man wasnt open about his beliefs
  12. Walaykm alsalam If ur husband thinks u r wearing too concervatively, just ask him why he thinks so. Your husband in the end wants what's best for both of u so he may have suggested so based on the type of environment you're living in. Basically the philosophy of hijab is to revert foreign men's eyes, so if wearing a less conservative outfit and yet maintaining such a philosophy is possible then go ahead.
  13. salam alaykom so does this mean that a man can have 4 wives at the same time including amah?
  14. i cant believe i read 5 pages of posts just to write mine, and guess what, only 3 posts stick to the original idea......... anyway, lebanese princess, whats the idea behind your post? i guess you knew that you disagree with many when it comes to marraige that is why you were trying to see how many people share your opinion........ ok, ill play this game too, you know what was the question i usually ask myself whenever one of my friends gets engaged? i always say: how could she take the decision so easily just from the first guy that offered a relationship? its like a black hole to me.... a mystery to be frank, i find it very hard to commit myself to someone that doesn't deserve it, though i am perfectly fine to commiting myself to the guy of my choice........... so simply, to me its not an issue of not wanting to get married as much as it is not finding the right choice............ and that applies to many of us but hey thats just me, i am not here to preach, yall got enough preachin already yeah and i agree with abu hadi
  15. salam alaykom if the perfect guy rejects a girl then it was probably because something she did (wether it was wrong or incomplete or a misunderstanding) and vice versa is also true....... so if you reflect to your actions and have the courage to clear things up then you woud be doing the wright thing and if the other party didn't accept your honest apology or your effort then he/she doesn't deserve you as far as i go, i still haven't met the perfect guy, and each time i say "no" to someone it breaks my heart
  16. hizbullah proved over and over again that they are not a bunch of simpletons........ they are getting ready for the worst case senario
  17. salam alaykom its hard enough for your cousin to meet the girl and your making it even worse by wanting to set up the parents :huh: i am sorry but did i understood correctly: seems to me that either your cousin will only get to know a girl when his parents aprove of her....... or that you think the best way to go about such an issue is by setting up the parents..... anyway, take it one step at a time, show him the potential a5awat through pictures and if you know them you can be of great help to him and his parents and the girls parents.......... its still too early for a parent get together, well at least that is how things are done in lebanon
  18. salam alaykom such a simple question yet our answeres reflect our personalities........the better the people we admire the more we strive to be like them and the harder it gets: Sayeda Zahraa (3) Sayeda Khadeeja (3) Sayeda Zainab (3) Sayeda Narjis (3) Sayeda um al baneen (3) sayeda bint alhoda Soumaya (um yaser) my mother my akhlak teacher my best friend
  19. salam alaykom This question repeated itself throughout history....... why was almost everyone against imam ali (3) even though he was the perfect khalifa and yet the 5awarij called him kafer?........ why did the muslims kill imam hussein (3) eventhough he was fighting for the sake of islam?........ i guess justice isn't perceived well these days as always....... everyone is against the path of salah and so few stand up and fight for it while others are abeed donya
  20. bil2alile he wont be able to take any of his clothes off during the event......
  21. salam alaykom i have tried friendship and it was true enough for me and i adore her because you can not get a real friend that easy nowadays, basically we do many things together and i spend most of my time with her with out getting bored at all, maybe because we come from very different backgrounds so there is always something new to discover about her and something new to offer, plus, we passed through many experiences together that helped shape our personalities for 5 years throughout college....... love on the other hand, i have not experienced yet, so i believe that if i was lucky enough to find real love that the time that i must dedicate for this love is going to be on the behalf of the time i use for my friend...... similar to a story i once heard: " if you where given a choice to save only one, your best friend or your beloved, from drowning (lets say) whom would you choose........" i know it is a farfetched situation though ;)
  22. salam alaykom someone once asked me: what do you think is more important, to find true friendship or to find true love? in other words, if you have to loose one for the sake of the other, what would you do?
  23. salam, waiting_for_my_master: i already said it is a matter of relativity, this doesn't mean that if i dont read duaa tawasuul then i am no longer a shi3ee and the opposit is also true, the important thing is our intentions....... but i always wonder, all of our duaa were first said by either mohammad (3alayh salat wa salam) or aimma (3), like duaa komayl was atributed to ameer lmo2mineen(3), duaa tawba and duaa jawshan alkabeer for zain al abideen (3)............ which imam said duaa altawasul?
  24. salam alaykom no matter how long our description of our soul mates is, its not like he/she is going to come along with this description written on their forehead, it takes time to get to know someone, and believe me with time our standards will change i am only asking for a guy that has Alla ÓÈÍÇäå æÊÚÇáìin the center of his life, surely he has to have akhlak and a degree..... where i live, such a guy is not easy to find i guess the first 99 years are the worst ^_^
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