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  1. (bismillah) (salam) http://www.al-islam.org/alpha.php?sid=287852670&cat=139&alpha_id=63&t=alpha many articles/books. Hope this helps :) .
  2. I love how the gender thing says not telling.

    1. syedabatool

      syedabatool

      Although my name gives it away.

  3. (bismillah) (salam) I dont really have alot of knowledge about this. But from what I know/have read, Islam tried to fight slavery indirectly. Eg; do this big sin/miss this act, free a slave. This is because at that time, owning slaves was like.. normal. A sudden change would be difficult to handle. So Islam had to slowly get rid of slavery. But it is allowed nevertheless and we had been taught how to treat slaves.
  4. Salam, kaisi ho? How's school going?

  5. (bismillah) (salam) I would advice you to keep a balance between everything. You need time, give it yourself. Make a chart of 40 days. Tick them up if you continuously offer your wajib prayers. No need to worry about any other amaal till then. After you have offered prayers for 40 continuous days, start with salatul Layal for 40 days. Then start with controlling you anger , or not talking uselessly for 40 days. I would ask you to think Allah (SWT) . Ask Him, for help surely He will help you. Also Imam Ali a.s. in one of his hadiths has said something along the lines, that one who is not honest cannot taste the sweetness of faith. So be honest to yourself. For example; even though crying in your duas, is a proof that your dua is accepted, if you don't feel like crying when you are asking Allah (SWT) for something, don't make yourself busy in trying to get tears out. Just fully indulge in your prayers. Similarily always be honest to yourself and work on your weakness. 14 Infallible is very right. Offering your prayers as soon as possible and staying away from haram acts is what we should do.Lower your gaze from anything that is inappropriate (hijabless women, dancing, singing, drinking etc.) and is a hindrance to your faith. Read this for better concentration in prayers. http://www.al-islam.org/concentration_in_prayer/ Hope that helps.
  6. (bismillah) (salam) Lovely information. JazakAllah.
  7. Bas zindaghi hawa ke saath jaah rahi hia!

  8. Alhumdulillah. How are u?

  9. Sab khairyat aur aap?

  10. OMG! Haha . Kiya mazak hai yaar. Seriously this is too much. I don't know why, it just sounds funny.

    Actually, I prefer "Assalamu Aliakum". Lol.

  11. Ok. But dont u need 50 posts first?

  12. ok. but don't u need 50 posts for sending Pms?

  13. (bismillah) (salam) I am sorry Ayla for what you are going through. I hope everything gets well soon , InshAllah. Reading all your posts, I think your husband doesn't understand how grave your situation is. Maybe he has seen his parents or his Aunt and Uncle fighting and has just taken it to be something normal. I am not asking you to go back in your in laws' house, but I would suggest stop complaining to him and try to be nice when he comes over. Small efforts like hugging him or kissing his cheeks will work. When you do that, he will see that you are making an effort. Then when he hears something bad about you from his mother/aunt, naturally he will see how your in-law's are being mean to you. But along with that, don't give him the idea that you are fine living like this. Every two or three weeks you can ask him if he has found any solution. But I really think your daughter will be highly affected mentally and emotionally. Don't lock yourself up in your room and cry (not saying you do, just an example) . Raise your daughter as if nothing is wrong. Take part in her school activities, help her with her homework, cook something she likes, take her out for a walk in a park, and well keep her happy. I would also suggest trusting Allah (SWT) and being more close to Him. Imam Jaffer Al-Sadiq has said, " He who entrusts his affairs to Allah (SWT) is in eternal rest and constant carefree ease of life." Read interesting books and attend lectures. Reading about the signs of Reappearance of Imam Mahdi a.s. (ajf), always grows a curiosity in a person's mind, do that. Plus, there are some really good E-books on raising children. If you want, I can give you the links. Furthermore, when you share your feelings with someone that really helps. Call up an old trusted best friend and talk it out. Personally, the best friend that I completely trust is Imam Mahdi a.s. (ajf). He is not unaware of your situation, but do speak to him in an isolated place. Help the flood victims, that way you will realize, it's not just you in problems, it's a lot more people. I am sure you can donate to trusted organization for flood victims, I think the army people have something there, do they? And please do go through some articles on articles about similar issues. Here are couple : http://www.clinicals...dhoodTrauma.pdf http://nationalmarri...n-marriage.html http://www.traumaawa...s.org/id50.html Hope this helps.
  14. (bismillah) (salam) I didn't know much about him, until about a week ago. He seems like an amazing personality. I'll pray for his safety. InshAllah Allah(SWT) keep him safe and he wil be released. And if it is him in the hadith about the Sayyed leader, then InshAllah we will be a step closer to the reappearance of Imam Mahdi a.s. (ajf).
  15. (bismillah) (salam) My inspiration is the bright and beautiful Bibi Fatima a.s. . Reading her sayings and her biography my curiosity grew. I asked myself that if such an amazing woman, possessing all the blessings of this world and the hereafter, covered herself and was humble towards Allah (SWT), and what right do we women have to show off our incomplete beauty. Besides I had noticed men looking at women and that itself made me very uncomfortable. Soon enough, I realized without Hijab it's just physical beauty, which fades away with time, with Hijab it's both external and internal beauty. Lol, with Hijab it's beauty with brains (girls wearing scarves do look adorable don't they? :lol:) . So that is what basically made me want to observe Hijab. Hope this helps .
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