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  1. The Moon-Sighting Committee of the Council of Shia Muslim Scholars of North America announces that Thursday, September 5th, 2024 will be the first day of Rabi al-Awwal, 1446 A.H. for the entire region of North America.

    https://www.imams.us/news/the-crescent-moon-of-the-month-of-rabi-al-awwal-1446-a-h/

     اضغط هنا لملاحظة بيان هلال شهر ربيع الأول ١٤٤٦ هـ

    Upcoming events for the US and Canada:

     

    • 8 Rabi al-Awwal (Sep. 12): Martyrdom of Imam Hasan al-Askari (p) 
    • 12 Rabi al-Awwal (Sep. 16): The arrival of Prophet Muhammad ((صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم)&hp) to Yathrib city (al-Madina) marking the start of the Islamic calendar.
    • 17 Rabi al-Awwal (Sep. 21): Birth Anniversary of Prophet Muhammad ((صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم)&hp) 
    • 17 Rabi al-Awwal (Sep. 21): Birth Anniversary of Imam Jafar al-Sadiq (p) 
    • 18 Rabi al-Awwal (Sep. 22): Establishment of Masjid al-Nabi in the city of al-Madina in the first Hijri year.
  2. On 4/20/2023 at 9:14 PM, notme said:

    My prediction; he's going to plead temporary insanity.  During the first few minutes that a person is awake, they are not fully in control of their minds.

    Yes.

    On 8/29/2024 at 10:15 PM, Hameedeh said:

    attorney has filed a motion in court requesting a mental evaluation to determine if the shooter (Andrew Lester) is fit to stand trial for shooting teenager Ralph Yarl. 

    Court documents say Lester has lost more than 50 pounds, has memory problems, and has shown confusion about court dates and basic facts. 

    His "memory problems" might be diagnosed as dementia. 

  3. On 8/11/2024 at 3:45 PM, AbdusSibtayn said:

    3. Divorce is going to be a difficult nut to crack. The groom's family might refuse divorce trapping you in the marriage and you might have to approach your marja's wakil to have the marriage annulled, as you were forced into it. 

    Yes, this is true. ShiaChat has many topics where the wife cannot get a divorce because the husband will not agree to do it. 

  4. On 8/19/2024 at 4:19 PM, Diaz said:

    People are talking about this disease a lot, I hope it won't be like covid pandemic. May allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) protect us all. 

    No lockdown and quarantine. People who get mpox have touched someone else who has mpox. It is person-to-person contact, the same way you can get chickenpox from someone if you have not had the chickenpox vaccine. If someone feels ill and begins to see a rash (bumps on their skin), they should call a medical professional and ask to make an appointment to have a checkup.

    https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/mpox#

    Mpox symptoms in humans usually start with a general, all-over feeling of being ill.

    Flu-like symptoms such as fever and muscle aches develop.

    Lymph nodes become swollen, often at the time of fever onset. This is seen in most cases and is usually seen before the rash. This feature distinguishes this infection from smallpox.

    A few days later, a rash may appear on the hands, feet, chest, face or mouth, or near or on the genitals. Mpox may initially be mistaken for chickenpox or a sexually transmitted disease if the rash is in the genital or anal region.

    The rash progresses through several stages:

    A small, raised solid pimple or swelling (called a papule) appears.

    A blister-like rash (consisting of vesicles) that looks like chickenpox develops.

    The rash may begin on the face and spread elsewhere on the body, or, if acquired during intimate or sexual contact, may begin in the genital or perianal areas.

  5. 34 minutes ago, zizi_00 said:

    one of my coworkers announced that someone stole 2 euro coin from him, pointing it to his jacket and bag. That point I froze. Of course I'd never steal from someone knowing it's my intention stealing it directly from them, but I froze cause I thought "did I steal it from him or no? I don't know." I really had no idea if I did and so for the last few months, or no the last few years it's been bothering me. 

    Salam. You didn't steal the coin from him. His saying someone stole it was not correct, because he lost it.

    If you said, Here is your coin, you would be admitting that you stole it when you did not, you found it. Others would think you are a thief.

    The fact that you gave the coin in sadaqa was good, because it showed that you wanted the coin to be used for a good thing. You are not a thief

  6. On 8/1/2024 at 9:50 AM, disappointment2000 said:

    Assalamualaikum everyone!

    Salam.

    On 8/1/2024 at 9:50 AM, disappointment2000 said:

    He's a good practicing Muslim and holds love and high regard for ahlulbayt (عليه السلام) but he just speaks a different language like his native tongue is different than ours. 

    If he is not Shia, then your parents are not happy. Since he speaks a different language, your parents think it will be difficult to communicate with him.

    On 8/1/2024 at 9:50 AM, disappointment2000 said:

    I have told my mother, brother about him but they are just so stubborn that they won't even consider to meet the guy I like even for once. They create malice in my heart for him just because he comes from a different caste.

    Islam doesn't accept in the caste system. India and Pakistan have abolished parts of the caste system because of DISCRIMINATION. 

    On 8/1/2024 at 9:50 AM, disappointment2000 said:

    My parents didn't even ask me about this new proposal just told me not to say a single word otherwise get out of the house. 

    Do you have an auntie or grannie who you could live with?

    On 8/1/2024 at 9:50 AM, disappointment2000 said:

    My father even gave me threats that if I say no or do something against them he is going to divorce my mother. 

    Does your father treat your mother well? I hope so. If your father is so strict about who you can marry, he probably would not divorce your mother because that would make him look bad. Divorce is not a desirable thing. It's traumatic in many instances.  

    On 8/1/2024 at 9:50 AM, disappointment2000 said:

    Please let me know if this nikkah is going to be valid because i don't want to accept it and I won't be able to accept it from my heart anytime soon.

    When is the wedding? If you are at the wedding venue and stay silent, yes, you will be married, whether you want it or not. You need to keep telling your mother that you will refuse to attend the wedding with a person you don't want to marry. 

  7. On 9/20/2023 at 12:15 PM, Diaz said:

    So now the shooter will be free until october 2024?

    Yes. The teenager wasn't killed, just injured.

    Andrew Lester, the 85-year-old man accused of shooting Ralph Yarl, has a pretrial hearing scheduled for Sept. 6.

    His attorney Steven Salmon asked that the judge sequester both witnesses and the jury:

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    “Given the widespread interest in this case, jurors will undoubtedly be subject to news reports and opinions through all avenues of reporting.”

    “There is a pervasive racial component to the trial. While there is neither a racial element to the charged crime nor any supporting facts to believe race was a factor in this matter, this undercurrent has not abated the continued racial theme and animus centered around Defendant.”

    The trial is set to begin Oct. 7. 

  8. 2 hours ago, Haji 2003 said:

    Netanyahu's visit was likely an assessment of how the different groups stand as regards his plans and even if he can't carry the President's support, how Congress stands.

    Yes.

    In modern times the US presidential candidates traditionally pay a visit to israel and pray at the wailing wall, to show their friendship and alliance with israel. This always happens during the US presidential campaign period before the November election. Now that Israel–Hamas war is continuing, Donald Trump and Kamala Harris probably will not travel to israel, so Netanyahu went to the US. 

  9. 4 hours ago, AbdusSibtayn said:

    I was wondering if the self-professed 'Qa'id-e-Millat' has said anything yet.... 

    I can understand that people don't realize that Ayatullah Khamenei was the president of Iran for many years before he became the Leader (Rahbar). He wasn't self-appointed because he was selected by the Ulema of the country. In fact, he originally disagreed with becoming the Leader but the members of the committee convinced him he was the best person for the position.  

  10. On 7/25/2024 at 5:46 PM, EiE said:

    I'm struggling to discuss the concept of mahr with someone who isn't familiar with it, it might give the wrong impression or create awkwardness.

     

    21 hours ago, EiE said:

    Say hypothetically I was interested in a 1 hour Mutah. Even though it's only 1 hour, Mahr is obligatory. 

    If the woman was a good match for marriage, why would you want only one hour with her? Yes, you definitely would be giving her a bad impression of yourself. Women who seriously want to marry usually want a man who will be with her for a long time. 

  11. 7 hours ago, EiE said:

    Why is Mahr / Dowry Necessary for mutah to be valid?

    Salam. It's in the law, Brother. Mahr is mandatory and required for all Muslim marriages. Mahr is not an optional gift.

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    It is compulsory that mahr be mentioned in the contract of mut'ah. This mahr is similar to the mahr of a permanent wife, there being no prescribed minimum or maximum limit. and half of it subsides when the stipulated period is gifted or expires without consummation, in consonance with the rule applied in the mahr of a permanent wife divorced before consummation. See page 58 here: https://www.al-islam.org/printpdf/book/export/html/43417

     

    7 hours ago, EiE said:

    Is there any aytatullah that has a different rule?

    Are you looking to get out of paying mahr? Would an ayatullah say that mahr is optional? I don't think so. 

  12. 3 hours ago, EiE said:

    gift is voluntary. Mahr/dowry is an obligation. So it's more like a trade rather than gift.

    Allah made food an obligation for us in order to eat it and stay alive, but you can decide what and how much you will buy or cook. 

    Mahr is wajib but it is a gift. You and your spouse can decide what the mahr is and when it needs to be given/received. 

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    In Islam neither are women considered commodities or slaves, nor is Mahr deemed a trade price; rather, Mihr is a gift or endowment that a husband bestows upon his wife in order to revere her and demonstrate his devotion to her.

    The Mahr of Women and its Philosophy   PDF

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