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starlight last won the day on October 18

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About starlight

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  1. This is a pointless argument. Do you believe that generally women who sell their bodies for money enjoy doing it? Do you think any dignified Muslim man would allow his sister to be a prostitute? On the flip side given a choice between a practising woman and a prostitute do you think any sane man would choose a prostitute to be his wife?? Do you realise that some of the rulings are merely things that are permissible under certain (extreme) circumstances and not recommended.
  2. Request for Surah Fatiha ×1 , Surah ikhlas ×3 for brother Ali Naqi, whoever can take out the time.
  3. Why is everyone bringing up the physical aspects of marriage? Be it temporary or permanent, besides physical intimacy there is emotional intimacy and a sense of companionship which is priceless and equally important to both men and women.
  4. 1. اِنَّ اللّٰهَ عَلٰى كُلِّ شَىۡءٍ قَدِيۡرٌ‏ Quran 24:45 2. Imam Zaman (as) and Hazrat Fatima (as)
  5. starlight

    Hijab and pressure

    Don't want to derail the OP's thread but going by this rule namaz and fasting are also forced prostration and starvation respectively. It's upto us to accept and follow the rules of our Creator.
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    Hijab and pressure

    Hijab is not 'forced women's head covering' @Sisterfatima1 InshaAllah this is temporary phase you are going through. May Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى give you the strength and steadfastness to remain on the right path.
  7. starlight

    Thoughts 2018

    Going through a difficult situation at work. Could do with a LOT of duas please. Thank you. JazakAllah.
  8. starlight

    LGBTQY ?

    Yeeeuchh!! Thanks for breaking it down for me. I choose to stay cis gendered female heroine of my children's lives
  9. starlight

    LGBTQY ?

    Are you from those old times when they referred to 'cis gender hetronormative males' as straight men? Tsk...Tsk. ..
  10. starlight

    LGBTQY ?

    Wow!!! This opens up a whole new range of options that I never knew existed!!! Okay for tomorrow I plan to be a non binary gender fluid pansexual PS: Please don't ask me what the above means,I have no idea.
  11. starlight

    Motherly Love with Non Mahram Relations

    Aunts - maternal and paternal uncle's wives.
  12. starlight

    What is your goal today?

    I worked nonstop from Fri-Sun, moved furniture dragged heavy sofas, removed carpets from rooms all by myself, ran so many errands, by yesterday evening I got this backache which wasn't very bad but I figured I needed to stay in bed and rest a bit. I planned on reading a book and doing some work but fell asleep in the cosy bed. lolz
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    Jinn, Witches, Female demon and Fairy

    Here is mine : When my children started school I told them all mothers get a sweet little fairy for each of their children and she watches over them when mothers can't be around. I told them it also reports back to mommy if the child is being naughty, no finishing his lunch, being cheeky with grandmother when Mum is away at work etc. It worked SPLENDIDLY!! My children always thought of her as a guardian angel and felt safe and never tried pushing boundaries in my absence. Then, one day when was older one who was 8 at time came to me and said out of the blue, "there is nothing like 'Mommy's fairies',you made it up all along,didn't you?" I tried to evade the issue using all the mean parental tactics I could remember from bad parenting videos on facebook because I figured I could still use it for my younger one who was five, but there was no way she was getting sidetracked and I finally gave in. (It was then I realised that there was a little version of me standing there, just as headstrong and scary, something no amount of AyatulKursi or Quls was going to deflect) Soon after the incident my house frequently experienced the presence of a cute, very boisterous, little jinn who loves to play football and run around the house like a Shangai maglev. Whenever my daughter reports to me with another complaint of property destruction after I come home from work I tell her, 'See, I told you, you wouldn't have told him the truth about Mummy's fairies.' I have never been scared of jinns because when I was little my Mother told me that we are Sayeds and Jinns never dare come near Sayeds............Wait...!!!!! Was it another parental tactic so I wouldn't be scared going to the bathroom alone at night???? crawls under the covers, will stay there until Mum comes back home.
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    What is your goal today?

    Had been meaning to write a blog post for so long but always put it down to not having time because of children and housework. Took today off for that especially, sent kids to schools, Mum is out shopping, the house is so quiet and peaceful......perfect for doing some work interrupted.................. instead I am using this time to laze in bed and eat a Dairy Milk in the messiest way possible.
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    Make Shiachat Shiachat again

    There have been 'rants' like this from the time SC started.More than anything else I find these things amusing. There have been entire blogs dedicated to complaining about SC. Those blogs have died. SC has stayed.