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  1. Thanks a lot sister. I deleted the message.

  2. Are you male or female and what is the topic you would like to discuss? =]

  3. Hi,

    I am a new member. I was wondering if I possibly could have your e-mali?

  4. bismillah. salam. Eid Mubarak! Happy Eid al-Fitr to you and your family. May Allah SWT answer all your prayers.

  5. yep.. does make it a bit more difficult :Hijabi:
  6. Yeah, honestly sister, it's better to tell her. If it's been 2 years and y'all have a good relationship.. what is holding you back? My mom is super super Christian too - and it was a huge struggle for the first couple years, but eventually she came to accept it and everything was ok. Of course, she thinks eventually I'll become a Christian again, but I can say our relationship only strengthened overtime since I told her, and I was able to become a much better Muslimah because I wasn't hiding my faith and actions.
  7. (bismillah) (wasalam) I'd argue that the best university for Arabic is The University of Texas in Austin - where the writers of Al-Kitaab and the book "Elementary Modern Standard Arabic" actually work at. It also has lots of other options too masha Allaah.
  8. (bismillah) It should be in Houston again next year insha Allaah.
  9. (bismillah) (wasalam) I think the sisters are shy to talk about it but I think I need to make some points so I'm taking one for the team. I know sisters (plural, not just one) personally who have period cycles of only 21 days and this is very consistent for them because they take birth control pills which regulate their periods. My period is barely 3 days, sometimes 4 but extremely light, so I can vouch for this also. Brothers, don't be looking online and be like "yeah the average woman this or that" because statistics are often wrong. I often thought something was wrong with me because I have extremely short periods (I don't even bleed much more than spotting past the second day) and my cycle comes every 31ish days and can sometimes come every 35 days. But doctors say every woman is different and as long as it's consistent there's nothing to be worried about. Now if a woman jumps from having a 7 day period in one week and has her period 3 weeks later and then has a 3 day period and then has her next period 6 weeks later, this is something that would rise concern and maybe she could be ill. So anyway, past the TMI, let's say hypothetically her period lasts 3 days and she has a period every 21 days, and she started her period the day after the divorce, she could be done with 3 periods (or in the start of the third one) 63 days after divorce. If we're looking at the long months of 30 or 31 days, then this is 61 days give or take a day. So, take it from a woman, it is possible.
  10. (bismillah) (wasalam) wr wb Well, I basically told my mom by wearing hijaab. We had been arguing about attending church and about religion in general for a month and I think she was suspecting that I was muslim anyway.. so I just wore hijaab to school one day and stuck to it. Pretty hard to ignore it when you're doing that lol
  11. Actually that's not true. There are many Christian groups who protest against South Park and things similar to this. My mom is Christian and she hates these things with a passion. She didn't even let me and my brother watch the Simpsons in the house as children! I just think practicing Christians hating it has become so common now that it's not "a big deal" anymore. As compared to Muslims, who are just recently being mocked at similar levels to Christianity's religious figures. I'd say after 30 more years of this stuff, Muslims won't be making death threats as quickly either.
  12. K so imagine the Simpsons, but more vulgar. If you're up for it, google it and watch a small clip.
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