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  1. Assalamu alaykum, Is it correct to say that some 'thing' is haram or should it be said that 'the action' is haram?
  2. Assalamu alaykum, I'm a Muslim convert. I don't know if I can say much but it is a very big thing to become a Muslim and it can lead to serius anxieties and mental distress even if you did it sincerely. No matter what is perhabs the first reason and the motivation a person should live with the decision after that. Becoming a Muslim and living as a Muslim openly and in public after converting may not be an easy thing. Is the guy ready to be a Muslim in public? If the only connect to islam and Muslim society is your spouse then you are weak. Encourage him to make friends with good Muslim brother
  3. Assalamu alaykum, It has been emphasized that a person should have the sincere intention to please only Allah and nothing else when it comes to the acts of worship such as praying etc. In fact having the correct intention is a requirement of the validity of the action. What would you say for a person who doesn't pray because he/she feels that if he/she would pray he would be a hypocrite? So until he/she has a pure intention to pray only for the sake of Allah he will not pray at all. On the other hand how can a person gain the pure intention? How should the person concider those thoughts of hyp
  4. Assalamu alaikum, Thank you very much for posting this article. I love niqab! I have worn it more or less depending on situation for about 7,5 years. Alhamdulillah.
  5. Assalamu alaykum, Does anyone know any hijab stores which would sell COLORFUL HALF NIQABS WITH ELASTIC in EU area, eg. in UK? Wa salaam.
  6. Salaam alaykum. I went to one ladies only gym few times. However there were maybe 1 or 2 male workers who may come around suddenly... I wore wide leg trousers and knee length loose hooded tunic which I had made for myself. I wore the normal underscarf and put the hood on and closed it by hijab pin. I think the hooded shirts are best for that purpose. If there are no men around you can cover the most of the hair by the underscarf... and if any man comes then you can easily pull on the hood without drawing too much attention to yourself... There's one hooded long shirt on Shukr: http://www.shukr
  7. Assalaamu alaykum. If you are afraid of wearing a headscarf which would reveal you as muslim and targer for harrassement then you could cover yourself in some other way, eg. by wearing hooded shirts and cover your head by the hood... Or maybe you could wear some hats and cover your neck by a scarf... Islam gives us the guide lines about which parts we should cover but practically it's up to our imagination how we do it. :)
  8. The verse of the Holy Quran that I was referring to is verse 33:59 O Prophet! say to your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers that they let down upon them their over-garments; this will be more proper, that they may be known, and thus they will not be given trouble; and Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.
  9. Salaam alaykum. If someone sees a Muslim woman in hijab or even niqab... or doing any other Islamic things then isn't it a good if others start asking the questions if they don't know the reasons behind it before? Hopefully when answered correctly they would understand it at least on the intellectual level even if they wouldn't like it personally... Actually wearing hijab is a visible thing to be noticed and the message of it to be understood by others.
  10. Salaam alaykum. I haven't been on ShiaChat for a while so don't know if anyone remembers me anymore. :D Anyway, here's one Shia sister who wears niqab since summer 2004. I wear it more or less but sometimes if I should spend a lot of time at work, school then I don't. It was my own choice. I've experienced more encouragement from fellow Shia Muslims to stop wearing it than to support it. Concerning the praying, covering the face isn't any problem. There are many Iranian, Pakistani or Afghani women who draw their chador to cover themselves completely although they wouldn't cover that well even
  11. salam, happy birthday to u

  12. (salam) I think the best you can do is being yourself. Don't pretend to be something you are not. Because I have been to work even with niqab I've noticed that it's better to act just normally to show that wearing hijab doesn't stop you from working. I also try to be positive, talk with others, laugh if there's something to laugh about etc. Personally I try to avoid talking about religion at work. However, often other work mates come to ask about it after they have noticed that I'm just fine. Then I answer them. If people are not that nice at work or there's not anything to talk about with th
  13. Assalamu alaykum. I wish I could have as passive attitude, to wait at home that someone else would arrange and fix all my marriage problems...! As a western Muslim revert sister I sometimes feel that many born Muslim sisters expect everything come ready for them. And often it does. First the parents take care of them, then the husband... What if you would be on your own? Many Muslim sisters seem so passive and un-independent that I wonder how they would manage if they had to do something by themselves one day. I don't know is that 'coming to the ready table' the reason why many born Muslim sis
  14. Assalamu alaykum. First I used to have a problem to take care of my hair after I reverted to Islam. In the beginning I went to some normal small hair salon where they could take only one customer at the time. I kind of tried my luck and was in a hope that no man would come there in same time. Sometimes I asked the hair dresser to book me a time when there wouldn't be risk to get male customers in... However, I found it very stressing to do so especially because non-Muslims don't necessarily understand all this... So, after a couple of times I stopped going to the normal hair dresser and I cut
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