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  1. May Allah guide him and me...And all the troubled Muslims in this life. Thank you guys for all your help.
  2. Hi again After three days of silence between my husband and I, I finally decided to txt him just to tell him I'm still there. The txt was more of a reminder of "how could you go that long without speaking or asking about me?" And his reply was why didn't you call instead...I said I'm the one who's upset, and he said I didn't do anything to you, so now I'm gonna be the one whos upset. Etc.... This is how the conversation goes Everytime, and I just compromise so the ship can sail. To answer your question about what I think an alpha male is: the type of man who thinks he has to be
  3. Salam, Thanks guys for your replies, this subject is always on my mind, constantly trying to figure out if it's just my problem trying to force love or force this attraction to happen. I keep telling him, but he's not understanding me. He tells me he's doing everything I want, which I'm thankful for, believe me, I am always thanking Allah in my heart for sending me a good guy, but there's always this desire that I want more from this union between us. I don't really want materialistic things, although they are a necessity in life, I'm just looking for more. Before we got married, he
  4. Hi Salam guys, After so long I came back to shiachat. I wasn't sure I wanted to come back, but I have been on here without logging in. So, I got married. It's been nearly a year and alhamdulilah Allah has sent me a good husband. He has his flaws like any other human being, but alhamdulilah I am happy with him. Sometimes marriage life can be very difficult, especially with his personality. He is an alpha male type of guy, and I can have difficulties dealing with that. Although I knew about this since we were engaged, I always was told that when we would start living together, wh
  5. To Younis, its great that you're happily married but your assumptions of women living in the west is completely wrong.just like in iraq there are women that are very outgoing and think that they are living in the west, there are good girls here that grew up here and mashallah their families have raised them well. Its not fair to just make a judgement based on one or two bad experiences.
  6. erm, sorry why in the world are you calling her spoilt and an attention seeker? this girl is facing problems daily from her mother in law, which we all have heard what they can be like. Its causing fights between her and her husband, I dont think you can even comprehend how tired a new mother can be, or how much she wants to take the time off and enjoy time with her husband to build the bond they have, for the MIL to come in when ever she wants is not appropriate since they dont even live in the same house. There is always a red line that shouldnt be crossed because it will create tension and
  7. S.A. everyone, I hope everyone is well. Recently I have been thinking about Issa a.s., how in the holy Quran in Sura 4:157- 158 Allah says "And [for] their saying, "Indeed, we have killed the Messiah, Jesus, the son of Mary, the messenger of Allah ." And they did not kill him, nor did they crucify him; but [another] was made to resemble him to them. And indeed, those who differ over it are in doubt about it. They have no knowledge of it except the following of assumption. And they did not kill him, for certain. Rather, Allah raised him to Himself. And ever is Allah Exalted in Might and Wise.
  8. Salam alikoum dear sis, well I really like the way you put niqab on, although it limits you in someway because you say you want to show a lovable character like Zahra Alawi but it hides your facial expression, I dont think it will show even if you try so hard.... Please dont compare yourself to Zahra Alawi, you need to be your own self, have your own way, and that is the way to be successful. Be confident in what you do, everyone started in small steps, and success doesnt happen over night, you need to work for it to achieve it but also truly believe you can reach your goals. I dont understan
  9. I cant believe this actually happens, what in the world is happening to Muslims? have they forgotten what Islam is about?!!!
  10. Khalilallah, it is very distressing to read that because clearly you are not taking the whole situation from the sisters perspective. Having no parents for the girl is extremely difficult especially at her age, the girl needs a mothers guidance and a fathers support. Calling her a fornicator is so horrible in this case because she could be a great person who lost their connection with Allah or find themselves lost and disconnected from a deep wound. Prehaps shes the most one that couldn't get over her parents death...you just dont know. I rekon shes the victim and shes destroying herself with
  11. I loved it, I was discussing this with a relative not long ago, and we were saying how incredible that day will be when we see the angel of death coming to take our soul. The thought gives me shivers, but more incredible is the day of judgment! may Allah have mercy on us and let the ahlulbayt be our saviours on that day salam
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