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  1. I remember hearing once, that in a situation wear a woman remarries, and then finds out (for example, during the war or something) that her first husband is alive, or for example that her first divorce was invalid or some other such thing, that the second husband becomes haram to her forever. Is this true? I know in the case of adultery or fornication this is the case, that the person becomes haram to them forever. In the case of (innocent) mistakes, does the same case apply?
  2. Kadhim, Im very curious to know (after the statement you made) who your marja' is. He may be one of the ones who allows people to kiss his hands, however much he protests. What bothers me is how you sum up all of their work and dedication through one act, and refute them as being not worth their salt. It's a very heavy sentence to state.
  3. Kadhim so any marja' who does allow this is not worth his salt? Would you say this about ayatollah khamenei and sistani? Makarem Shirazi?
  4. No... noone is replying to this email either :( Does anyone have any alim's email who is a mughalid of ayatollah shirazi?
  5. I have been sending emails to this address, and they keep returning back to me.. the queries email I mean anyone else been having this problem?
  6. Why do some marja's allow women / children (who are girls) to kiss their hands (when it is covered by an abaya) Isn't the fact that they're not touching the hand (because of the abaya) merely technical? What about the aspect of how the women are gaining proximity to the marja' by kissing their hands? I've emailed various marja's about this but no one will reply.. do you think that a marja', by allowing women / young girls to do this, is lowering his status as being adil?
  7. Salam, Does anyone know the contact information for a representative (or preferably the office of ) Ayatollah Shirazi? There were two contacts, one directly from his site at shirazi.org which doesn't work (my emails keep getting returned to me) and there's another yahoo account from the same site that no one replies to. Does anyone have a proper, current email address that the mughalids of ayatollah shirazi can email questions to, that they know are working? Jazakallah kheir
  8. Sister BintalHoda, I think I've come to some of the same conclusions as you, except that I haven't been able to let go of my guilt or stress about my past, even though it was so long ago. My biggest issue is the day of Qiyamat and seeing my husband, then. Im trying my best to be the best wife I can be for him, the best mother for my child. But I feel like (as another member mentioned) the compensation isnt the same. This forum has given me a lot to think about. I wanted to come to this site and see what others thought about this, and I think I've gotten my answer and I need to speak to a femal
  9. Salam, No, I don't have a child from a previous relationship. I did this when I was very young, and had no children or anything. It was just something that had taken place and was finished. After a while, a got married (the proper way Islamic way) to someone else. I have a child with my current husband and have been married to him for a number of years. That's why Im saying I don't want to tell him at this point in time. When he (my current husband) came to propose, that's when I told him that (in order to marry me) he had to accept that there were things about me I didn't want to talk about
  10. I live with my error every single day of my life.. I think about it every hour of every day. I have absolutely no peace, no tranquility, and the amount of guilt I have is becoming unbearable for me. I did this mistake when i was really, really young and I thought (when I grew up) I could put it behind me, just do istighfar and move on. But it doesn't work that way, it's something you live with (Im sure until I die) and sins like this make you become tortured. There's no good in telling my husband at this point in time, it would just sadden him and I don't even want to think about what it would
  11. Salam.. I told my husband when we first met that I wouldn't be able to tell him everything about myself, and t hat there were things I wanted to keep private.. to be honest, I've thought about it, I don't see any good coming in telling him about this matter.. it would just worry him, like it's doen to me, and constantly occupy his mind..
  12. Salam alaikom I have a problem that's really been bothering me for some time, and I'd appreciate any advice the sisters have for me... I am currently in my late 20's, very happily married, and I have a small son who I adore... I guess everything Is going well in my life, except one problem. When I was much , much younger, I did something that I've never stopped regretting. I was one of those girls who got married without her father's permission, which I thought was fine because at that time it was allowed by my marja. I waited a few years for the person to propose to my parents and see the mar
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