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okee go marry a young girl, nobody is stopping you my guy. Also I hate to remind you but youre 26, clock is ticking!!!Good luck love that for you two!

this proves my point ok and? What are you talking about I didn't do that, read what I said again please. But since were talking about it, I can definitely turn it that way. Lets talk about how you men don't generally care about a woman's well being and want a woman to wear the hijab just for your own selfish reasons.

Sis Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) is the most forgiving. Im pretty sure hell was made as a deterrent for people and not something Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) wants to throw people in. At least thats not how i see my Lord.

This is a response with zero emotional intelligence such a robotic response, iman fluctuates throughout your life, you might be very religious today but you don't know how youre going to be tommorow, what matters is the faith you have when you die. Its so easy to look down on other peoples struggles and call them weak. This type of arrogance is very dangerous and one day you might find yourself in the place of the people you looked down on. Also im pretty sure seyyed Sistani has a fatwa that a woman doesn't have to wear the hijab if it causes her unbearable difficulty, so while you people give no grace to people, Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) certainly does.

this is a clear example of someone who is religious but has no akhlaq, you really think imam ali as would make fun of her like you just did?

Salam Im a kurd and I can assure you that I in fact am a jinn. And my mum always calls me ifriet which means im one of the powerfull ones. Hope this helps!

he just the type of guy that hates women period, like your young wife is gonna age too weirdo

i wish all books had an audio version =( inshallah one day i can realize this

lol talking like she a granny lol you must be free of trauma or so you think. I was once very young and innocent until my childhood issues caught up to me at the end of my 20s. Its pretty normal that people deal with their issues later on in life. But men and women both can be traumatized from relationships yes. This is why i also would consider a younger man, but the way you talk is usually how younger men are, very immature. Usually younger men that love older women its because they like a challenge and want to be better men and don't want someone that just allows their nonsense and they like the fact that an older woman would give them a chance. Not all men are out to take advantage of women you know, there are a lot of decent people out there and usually what you allow is also what you will get. You men always want to scare women and act like she will have no options when she gets older but the truth is that women have options at any age so dont lower your standards ladies!!!

Im not oversimplyfying anything. U asked for warning signs, i gave some. Many things can be true at the same time and i would never blame a woman for being in an abusive relationship.

I 100%agree with this, ive learned a lot about myself from my short interactions with men. I also think you can do only so much self development while being single. Being in a relationship can teach you a lot. lol a lot of men also love older women. And a lot of men also don't care about age. Usually men that want a woman significantly younger it is for status or because she might be easier to manipulate. Women in their 30s are btw still young. My warning signs are usually just watching how they behave towards me. A lot of men can be really be good to the people around them but they can be very different with their wife. I tell a man what i like and don't like in the beginning if he doesn't do his best to avoid my dislikes i cut him off. I really watch out for men that care about womens well being in general so not only mother or sisters but also the women that cant do anything for them. Also don't be desperate for love and always be willing to walk away. Don't give too much of yourself to a man. where it gets hard to leave him. Let him prove his trustworthiness to you. Always have your own life and happiness besides him so when he starts being abusive you can just leave him and find another one. Only for women when the men doesn't turn out how they want, its usually an abusive man who beats their ass or watches them go into a burn out or cheats on them And I'm not saying women cant be abusive but yeah were still the weaker sex sooo

What psychopath would take a 9 month old baby hiking. Reminds me of a guy i was talking to who went hiking with his friends and one of them brought his gf along. And he told me the girl ended up crying and he thought that was funny? You can really filter out men like this who care about a woman's well being and not. If youre clearly struggling your so should immediately get you out of that situation. Some men really love to watch a woman struggle.

lol sis this sounds kinda depressing, i cant imagine marrying someone that i only find tolerable You can also just start a trial and tribulation while getting to know them and see how they are? i feel like in many experiences of women who lower their standards they get met by bad treatment. Im a prime example of that lol. I think the only reason a woman would lower her standards is if she has low self worth. If you have high self esteem you would attract people that meet that by default. So my advice is never lower your standards and work on your self esteem and on your own life so you can attract better and choose better. And i also want to point out that we often want things that we don't need. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) is the only one who knows what we need in order to get closer to him and to grow as humans and know ourselves better. i think the key question here is what are we compromising on. I don't think you should compromise on how you want to be treated or talked to

Sir why would it be haram, can u elaborate?

i feel like you can put that man in the category of what our sunni brethren call DAYOUTH, ew