(bismillah) (salam) no one is telling you to discuss or not discuss anything but in your life, you are bound to follow atleast religion and there are two main concepts one is that you take religion from ahlubait. other is you take it from salaf. and you do need to see which one you are going to follow. the reason is simple if you are following the wrong group, you will damage none, except yourself..... you see even prophet told you that Volume 8, Book 76, Number 585: Narrated Abu Hazim from Sahl bin Sa'd: The Prophet said, "I am your predecessor (forerunner) at the Lake-Fount, and whoever will pass by there, he will drink from it and whoever will drink from it, he will never be thirsty. There will come to me some people whom I will recognize, and they will recognize me, but a barrier will be placed between me and them." Abu Hazim added: An-Nu'man bin Abi 'Aiyash, on hearing me, said. "Did you hear this from Sahl?" I said, "Yes." He said, " I bear witness that I heard Abu Said Al-Khudri saying the same, adding that the Prophet said: 'I will say: They are of me (i.e. my followers). It will be said, 'You do not know what they innovated (new things) in the religion after you left'. I will say, 'Far removed, far removed (from mercy), those who changed (their religion) after me." Abu Huraira narrated that the Prophet said, "On the Day of Resurrection a group of companions will come to me, but will be driven away from the Lake-Fount, and I will say, 'O Lord (those are) my companions!' It will be said, 'You have no knowledge as to what they innovated after you left; they turned apostate as renegades (reverted from Islam)." http://www.usc.edu/schools/college/crcc/en...tml#008.076.585 now if you say that i ll follow whatever, and i am not pushed to see who did what, well sister you may well be cursing your self on that day..... as regard to the fight that was long over. let me gift you a chapter from sahih muslim i ll just give you the name and link you read it for yourself. Chapter 30: DON'T BECOME UNBELIEVERS AFTER ME BY STRIKING THE NECKS OF ONE ANOTHER you can read this chapter here http://www.usc.edu/schools/college/crcc/en...im/001.smt.html you are free to think whatever you wish for, and i m least pushed what you think but whatever you think, think of that day. i am not interested in this thread, and will not be posting in it, as this has nothing to do with the main topic if mods wish, they can remove this post.