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  1. I guess the guys on the forum who were saying they want a wife that only "looks good" should kinda rethink their criteria, because after 10-20 years its gonna be the akhlaaq that really stays. Same goes in reverse for females
  2. Salam Alaikom, Check it out! http://fstoppers.com/10-incredible-gifs-showing-how-aging-changes-our-appearance
  3. I will do 5000, Inshallah. Thanks for setting this up. May Allah bless you :)
  4. Salam Alaikom, Im actually the opposite. Anytime there is a potential person that could be my future spouse, I always think he is too good for me and I am not good enough for him. Although these thoughts come randomly, the same way I get random thoughts at uni if I could actually pass a hardcore engineering class. It is random instances of low self confidence, which I know is due to some occurrences during my childhood, but I it has allowed me to become humble in front of others and even if I have success in the future, I still think people in general are better than me. I guess it has its p
  5. Salam Alaikom, What are your thoughts on this? I am heartbroken for the mother of the 23 year old victim :( http://news.yahoo.com/outrage-india-over-first-delhi-gang-rape-sentence-053315692.html
  6. La3natollah Ala Dhalemeen. May Allah curse all oppressors and those who do nothing about oppression :no:
  7. And I thought you wrote it Aal -e- Imran :squeez: But its pretty true! Thanks for sharing. I think similar things occur on Facebook and I actually feel so embarrassed for those girls who find the need to post pictures, and not just normal pictures that they would look like every day, but pictures of themselves with excess amount of make up, accessories, and tight clothing to get responses from others on how they look! Or maybe they want to find a husband? I just don't get it. Why do you have to "Show off"? We can all show off. Put on a few pounds of make up and photo shop our picture and
  8. Salam Alaikom, I have always had so much difficulty with the whole not shaking hands with men as I am very shy. I even remember discussing with my friends, what is one of the most difficult obstacles of ahkam, and I remember saying telling a na-mahram, "I'm sorry, but I can't shake hands with you". I have finished my 3rd year at university now, and everytime I meet with classmates or have groupmates, I pray to God so much that the men do not ask to shake my hands, because I just don't want them to feel embarrassed in front of others. In a lot of cases, if I tell a guy I can not shake ha
  9. When I went in for an interview for a ChemE internship, I wore fancy black pants and long black coat which looked like a suit, just a long version of it. My mom actually wore that coat to her interviews, but I think a dress looks a little tacky. A coat is more professional. Good luck! And I just read you got the job! So great job! yay
  10. I believe Eid in california is on Friday, but tomorrow is yom al shak, I suggest you go on a Safaar (travel) and break your fast, as it is better to be on the safe side.
  11. I heard that the last 10 nights may be laylatol qadr and that the imams would do "itikaf" the last few nights. Also, I heard the night of 27th of Ramadhan which is the 7th of Imam Ali (as) may also be laylatol qadr.
  12. Salam Alaikom, Thank you for this topic as I think the most important issue that we should address for those who have kids or are going to have kids is schooling. I volunteer at a islamic school Shia in California and I am saddened to say that I simply despise so called "Shias". After working there for several years, I have come to the conclusion that the reason why us shias are so oppressed and hurt is because of ourselves. We simply are 2faced people that only think about ourselves and never want to support each other. All we (shias) look for is to make people happy as opposed to mak
  13. If istikhara turns out bad, and her and her family value it greatly that means the decision is pretty much made. Although, in some cases the girl does want and the parents do istikhara and she becomes saddened but the parents still say because the results are bad we can not further pursue the case. In these cases, if the man truly wants the girl, he should again contact the family and ask them to just do another istikhara to see the results. Unfortunately in your case, the girl just doesn't want to continue. If she doesn't want to, you also need to move on. I know it is difficult, but I have
  14. Salam Alaikom, You know I have the same sort of problem. Shyness in general has its goods and bads. Ofcourse its always good to be a shy person, because some people who are not shy end up talking to much and causing problems. Actually last night at the masjed, they were giving out suhoor and I was too shy to take one, and the wife of owner of the mosque said "She is so shy that is why she is not taking food" and they ended up giving it to me. I think the best way to get out of shyness is to just keep socializing. Another factor is be around positive people. People who say good things ab
  15. Salam Alaikom All, Inshallah all your prayers and fasts are accepted in this blessed month. I wanted to share a video about Imam Ali (as). I don't understand arabic much, but this video is just so heart breaking. Eltemase Doa Yazahra313
  16. Kamran, thank you for your message. Tonight I was just listening to a speech my Dr. Assadi Garmoredi, and he was saying that having "elm" (knowledgeable) discussions on the nights of Qadr is of higher value than just going to the mosque to hit ourselves or to read a Dua. These nights are designed for us to increase our knowledge, because only through knowledge will our Imaan increase and our faith in Allah become greater. Just reading a dua and not understanding it will not do you any good. Thank you for the reminder and well given advice.
  17. Salam Alaikom all, Inshallah everyone is doing well in this blessed month of Ramadhan and all your prayers and fasts are accepted. As the first night of Qadr has passed, I was not able to do all the Amaal, but I read parts of Abu Hamza and inshallah in the next nights I can read it again thoroughly. But as soon as this dua begins, tears come into my eyes because I reflect upon each an every verse. I do not read all the arabic, but rather the translations so that I can understand the meaning. (My arabic is at a level of reading and knowing minimal words) Anyways, I wanted to share with yo
  18. Yes, I heard this from a friend who said, apparently in Ramadhan Irancell has a contest. In that contest, apparently they wrote a hadith and asked who is the greatest satan, and the answer was Omar. lol
  19. Oh oh, what should i do with 6 of my cats? lol :wacko:
  20. Tonight is first night of Laylatol Qadr. It is the night for 19, meaning today is the 18 of Ramadan. Monday night is the 2nd night of Qadr making the Shahadat of Imam Ali on Tuesday (21 of Ramadan). Wednesday is the last night of Qadr.
  21. I agree with Mehdi^ I guess we have to wait to ask Imam Mahdi when he comes, or if we never get around to that, i guess till Qiyama.
  22. للهم عجل لوليك الفرج الحجة ابن الحسن

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