3ashiqat-Al-Batoul

I'm writing a research paper this weekend about Israels illegal settlements. My professor was Canadian ambassador for Palestine, Israel, Jordon, Syria, and was in Lebanon for a while as well. He lived in the ME for 30 years and is honestly the least biased Canadian i've ever met, although there are some minor issues that I disagree with him on. Here's an interview where he talks a little about the settlement issue: http://watch.ctv.ca/news/latest/middle-east/#clip279131

I agree that most if not all holidays are ways for companies to make money from consumers, I don't think anybody can deny that. BUT, just like there is a day for people to celebrate their birthday, there are days to celebrate other things like love. And you don't have to spend a lot of money, or any at all if you don't want to. You can have a home cooked dinner with candles, dress nicely, etc with your spouse. Most days we're so busy school/work/raising kids/cleaning house, etc etc we barely have time to sit and talk to our husband/wife. So setting aside a day to celebrate your love is a very good idea. Doing this continuously several times a year is even better, but if you cant, Valentines day is a good day to put everything aside and express love for each other.

^ LOL wow! Its also annoying when you yourself completely misread something and have several posts based on the misread information :lol: Thank you for that, that's what i thought. Now for those wondering, Sayed Khamenei does require the area under the chin to be covered! Wasalam. :)

I love how two members in this thread are only able to read one half of a sentence, and completely ignore the other half which is right after the comma one of them even quoted. I think its hilarious how the sentence they are quoting is exactly what i have been saying this entire time, but in "nicer" words, so somehow now its acceptable. You people act like little emotional kids.

The votes between males are about to become even. This is interesting

^ Burqah isn't the only form of hijab. You can wear pants and a loose long shirt with a normal hijab, and u can wear those in formal clothes. That isn't even close to being a good enough excuse to remove your hijab. :S

Ok, that bug was disgusting and horrible. I have a feeling that was your intention so thanks a lot And yes it was like that, but it was black and thicker :unsure: Ive seen creatures like it before, but never so thick. It was strange and fearless and wanted to attack me. I think certain people on this board should have some RAHMA and stop cursing me :mad: Anyway, nobody has really answered my question? Why is it that so many people are afraid of them, not just disgusted by them or sickened, but actually afraid? And why is it that more females are than males are, females are just as capable of killing them and just as much bigger than them as males are.

^ http://english.bayynat.org.lb/Jurisprudence/sex.htm This one works.

^ That post kinda makes me less sympathetic, but nonetheless everything i said before holds true. Good luck to you too. :)

^ That post was very emotional and you can't imagine the pain I feel for you right now. I don't even want to imagine being in that type of situation, because just imagining that I would have to live that way hurts my heart, let alone having to actually experience it. Sister, all that has happened to you in your life, and your patience and raising your kids as religious good humans will lead you to jannah, all you have to do is end the relationship with this other man. I know how hard it must be, somebody caring for you and loving you for 4 years when you had absolutely nobody else, It will probably kill your heart to have to let go of that, but it is the only way. You can be held in such a high esteem in front of Allah swt. You can't begin to imagine the status of the oppressed, especially the one that shows patience and never stops having hope and faith in Allah swt. You don't have to remain in this situation. If the only reason your husband changed is to make himself appear nicer in front of others, and there's no chance of him actually going to counseling and fixing what has been broken, I advice you to go to a psychologist yourself and try to sort out all the emotional scars you have. The psychologist can give you the relief that this other man has been given you, without causing you more problems and making you feel guilty your entire life for doing something haram. You can be free of all of this pain, you can move forward and either learn to live happily within your situation, or accept that divorce is the only option and leave the marriage with dignity. You should not tell anybody that you were with another man however, and you must in fact move forward as if there was never another man, and truly repent before Allah swt for what you have done and never go back to that situation. You have obviously seen in my other posts what cheating means and how big of a sin and horrible it is. But this doesn't mean there is no hope like you said before, there is hope. You just need to take that step toward Allah swt, let go of this sin that you are committing, make this step and inshallah Allah swt will take the 10 promised steps toward you. Your life can and will get better, you just need to move forward. If you truly want to love your husband again that is an option, but you really do need counseling. I wish you the best, and please please take my advice about the cheating subject, it is crucial.

I deleted my previous post due to a typo, i meant to say: Watch this, its an excellent movie. You truly wont regret it: http://www.youtube.c...h?v=_zTHefv17N0