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molaayi_from_lahore

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    molaayi_from_lahore reacted to Abu Hadi in HELP! How to PAY KAFFARAH ONLINE!!   
    https://shareglobalcharity.org/get-involved/donate-now/
    This money goes to orphans in Pakistan and India(Shia areas such as Quetta in PK).Further info is on the site
    https://shareglobalcharity.org
    I am personally involved in the organization. In the note, put that this is kaffarah. It will be channeled properly. 
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    molaayi_from_lahore got a reaction from Waseem162 in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    it will happen always when the girls will be brought up in a Christian country. Our family is spread throught the world, in US, UK, Canada, Australia, Germany, Italy and some other countries. And everyone always brought their daughters and sisters back to Pakistan when they reached 5-6 years of age. The women brought up in an Islamic society (although not a pure Islamic but even then) will have a very little chance to fall in adultery or such [Edited Out] (lesbianisms bla bla )
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    molaayi_from_lahore got a reaction from MariyahLaleh in should i do Muta?   
    Someone asked me in this thread that why I don't bring her a housemaid to help in chorse. We have already a housemaide helping her in home chores but not all. There are some things in home which can only be taken care of by my wife and we (our family generally) do not like maids to do those stuff for us e.g. cooking meals and doing some personal stuff with children etc... So she has to do that herself. We can't hire any cheff or housemaid to cook 'roti' or daily meals for us (partly due to hygenic conditions) and such tasks take a lot of time so she cannot go to gym. 
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    molaayi_from_lahore got a reaction from MariyahLaleh in should i do Muta?   
    I will provide a separate home to my 2nd and 3rd wives.
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    molaayi_from_lahore got a reaction from MariyahLaleh in should i do Muta?   
    answering someone's questions...
    I am from Lahore, Pakistan, never went to India, although have travelled world and I am a twelver shia by birth.
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    molaayi_from_lahore got a reaction from notme in What can brothers and sisters see?   
    Are not we making the religion very complex?
    If lust is there while looking at the opposite gender, it is a sin otherwise not. Simple.
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    molaayi_from_lahore got a reaction from wolverine in should i do Muta?   
    OH MY GOD... laughing out loud fell from bed.... ROFL... hahahaha 
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    molaayi_from_lahore reacted to Inner Peace in should i do Muta?   
    Not commenting on this specific case but just wanted to mention that staying with someone if you're unhappy for the sake of children only is not always the better option. It's not healthy for the parents or the kids. Sometimes it's healthier for children to have divorced parents on good terms who co-parent respectfully and responsibly. Happier parents usually provide a better up bringing for their children whether that be with their children's other parent or not. Being in an unhappy marriage doesn't necessarily set a better example or provide a more stable household for the children than a "broken" household. As taboo as divorce is in many cultures, it simply means a relationship didn't work out. Just something to consider. 
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    molaayi_from_lahore reacted to Irfani313 in should i do Muta?   
    @molaayi_from_lahore
    Hope you are not bored from this long lecture.
    So while you should repent and feel extremely ashamed of yourself in insulting your wife in front of us, you have every right to marry another muslima, in timed marriage or in nikah daem, however you see fit as long as you can be fair to both. You DO NOT need the permission of your 1st, 2nd, or 3rd wife to take 4th wife, or nth Muta wife or the permission of your Marja' because Allah swt has already given you this right. For you the most paramount thing is to safeguard yourself from Zina; this includes Zina of thoughts, Zina of eyes (porn), Zina of jism (mastur...), Zina of words (flirtation), Zina of ears (punjabi culture mujras), and other forms of Zina.
    In your grave and on the day of judgement, it will be you standing without any of us SC members in front of the Lord of the Universes answering following questions regarding your sexual partners.
    1. Were they halal?
    2. Were you a human with them or an animal with them?
    3. Were you moderate about it? Or were you excessive in it?
     
     
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    molaayi_from_lahore reacted to Irfani313 in should i do Muta?   
    @molaayi_from_lahore
    You asked me somewhere how to do Muta? Can't teach you that! But I can teach you this that learning the fiqh rules about Mutah and Nikah Daem are extremely important, because without these you would surely fall in Zana. Same are learning the rules of fiqh of doing business because without this you would surely fall in usury (from hadith of 1st Imam).
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    molaayi_from_lahore got a reaction from Hameedeh in [LAWS]Bodybuilding   
    Is bodybuilding allowed in Islam. Some people say that it is not because it is the deformation of human body. if Allah wanted us to be in THAT shape (bodybuilders) we would have been born like that. what do our scholars and marjas say about it
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    molaayi_from_lahore reacted to User4628568309 in should i do Muta?   
    100% of people who drink water die.
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    molaayi_from_lahore reacted to starlight in should i do Muta?   
    Zavon, the way I interpreted the opening post the OP is saying that: I am young, good looking and rich and hence more temptations come my way than the average man. I am at a risk of succumbing to those temptations. My wife isn't helping matters.Should I do mutah instead and falling into sin?  
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    molaayi_from_lahore got a reaction from Aabiss_Shakari in Urinating after Ghulsl-e-Janabat   
    Anything which invalidates a wuzu invalidates ghusl'e janabat for salaat as well.
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    molaayi_from_lahore reacted to User4628568309 in should i do Muta?   
    Her husband has his own problems which she appears to be oblivious about! Or are you one of these matriarchal women who gives Islam a bad name? It might surprise you to learn that the world doesn't revolve around women and their " psychological issues"!
    (irrelevant to the fact that a man is allowed to do mut'ah)
    Maybe she's not a good wife towards him and he has his own grievances...? (see how nasty it is to assume?)
    Not everything is so black and white!
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    molaayi_from_lahore reacted to Haydura77 in should i do Muta?   
    Although I find this brother's stance on his wife a bit extreme, I do partially symphatise with him. Some wifes don't look after themselves by gaining weight and ignoring their husband's urges for an intimate relationship and sex. What is the point of marriage if a wife becomes obese and she doesn't bother about her husband when he asks her to look good when he comes back from work. I am sure that husbands strongly advise their wives to exercise (and support them e g. by driving them to the gym)  but if they refuse to do so, what is the alternative?!
    I would appreciate rational answers rather than emotional and defensive response to my comments. 
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    molaayi_from_lahore got a reaction from ali_fatheroforphans in should i do Muta?   
    1- She doesn't want to go.
    2- Even if she agrees somehow, she cannot go due to some home chores.
    3- And even she agrees and starts going to a gym, it will take 2 years for her to be in a slightly attractive shape for me.
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    molaayi_from_lahore reacted to Journey of Truth in Shia Mosques in Sydney?   
    I have been to several in Sydney, and as brother Hayder has said, they are free. They also host events and so on. It is always best to contact the Mosque to find out what events are held during the week. They cater for both English and Arabic speaking people.
    If you have any questions while you are there just ask anyone brother around you and they will be more then happy to help you.
    If you need help with addressees or numbers to certain Mosques I can get them for you.
    We are all one under Islam.
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    molaayi_from_lahore reacted to Muslimthought97 in Shia Mosques in Sydney?   
    Salam, I can assure you mosques are free, you dont really need to know how to pray although would be ideal, go in copy the rest and slowly try to learn it, men are separated from women, A sheikh/Imam leads the prayer they usually would come or arrive a little earlier than the prayer time. Rules are take your shoes off, wear normal clothing dont go in with anything indecent, e.g. a no sleeve top or something (This is subject to culture what is worn in mosques but as long as its flatline moral). Usually the imam/sheikh will lead the prayer and you follow him saying the words in ur head/ lipising the words but you dont recite outloud as they are leading.
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    molaayi_from_lahore reacted to Journey of Truth in Shia Mosques in Sydney?   
    Any time Brother.
    The Fatima Al-Zahra Mosque 
    Address: 1 Wollongong Rd, Arncliffe NSW 2205
    Phone: (02) 8021 8153
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    Masjid Arrahman
    Address: 20 Garema Circuit, Kingsgrove NSW 2208
    Phone: (02) 9758 9977
    http://www.masjidarrahman.com.au/
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    IMAM HUSAIN ISLAMIC CENTRE
    Address 6 Lang Road Earlwood NSW 2206
    Ph: (02) 95581114
    http://www.ihic.org.au/
     
    Nshalla you find what you are looking for brother and may Allah swt guide you to the right path. If I can assist in anyway please let me know.
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    molaayi_from_lahore got a reaction from Tany in Imam Ali, Sky And Science   
    These statements are theroetical, not proven practically because no man ever went to any star and came back to confirm this. Even no satelite even went there and sent the temperature reading back to confrim this.   Even if we assume the stars are very hot then we cannot be sure that there is no human population there or any other living being population there. Fire can be cold by the will of Allah as was the case of Namrood fire burnt for prophet Ibrahim. Fire was there but not hot, rather cold and a living being (Ibrahim) survived in it by the grace of Allah. So if there is population on the other stars PLUS the stars are hot, we cannot be sure that they are hot for the living beings living there.   A third possibility can be the stars are very hot as Science believes and there are some living creatures (humans or anything else) there then it can be the case that there body is adapted to the extremely hot atmosphere and according to them there they can't survive on our planet Earth. Anything is possible if Allah wishes.   A fourth possibility is that there are cities of Jinns on the stars. Jinns are created with fire and so the hot temperatures may not affect them. Quran has some verse according to which Jinns used to fly till the sky and listen the news.
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    molaayi_from_lahore reacted to Sapphire in What Are My Options For A 2nd Wife   
    This thread has four pages worth of replies. Some are pretty judgmental. 
     
    The thing we need to understand is that we are Muslims and everything we say and do should be according to the teachings of Islam. 
     
    First thing we need to understand is that we are slaves of Allah(SWT) and belong only to HIM(SWT).
     
    As far as the matter of taking a second wife is concerned Allah(SWT) has allowed it. And OP is allowed four wives according to Islamic teachings. But justice has to be done among the wives. If OP can do justice then why not. But the only thing he has to keep in mind is, having an open discussion with his first wife on the topic. Keep her in the loop. Who knows she might agree to it. Another thing should also be kept in mind is that the second potential wife has also be made aware of the responsibilities of the husband towards his first wife and child. 
     
    I don't mind if my husband decides to take a second wife. I know I will always remain dutiful towards him and our children. Nothing can affect my love for him. I am aware of my Islamic duties towards my family. And my sole purpose in life is to please Allah(SWT) at all times.
     
    May Allah(SWT) help us all become better Muslims. AMEEN and INSHALLAH. :)
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    molaayi_from_lahore got a reaction from Ali_Hussain in What Are My Options For A 2nd Wife   
    wife is a part of life, not the life itself.
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    molaayi_from_lahore got a reaction from strength=Abbas in What Are My Options For A 2nd Wife   
    wife is a part of life, not the life itself.
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    molaayi_from_lahore got a reaction from Hameedeh in What Are My Options For A 2nd Wife   
    really great reply. i like it.
    just wait some moments dear.. i m gona reply... m tooooooooooooooooo much busy
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