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Maisam Haider
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Yes, that shows getting married doesn't mean that a halal way to fulfill sexual desire will always be permanently available. There can be long periods in a married man's life where there is no chance to satisfy the natural urges. The reasons can be numerous. Therefore patience to safeguard oneself from sexual sins like masturbation is a life-long battle and has to continue even after marriage.
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What are the rulings of a male when it comes to mut3ah
Maisam Haider replied to a topic in Social/Family/Personal
One thing surprising is how there are some people in this world for whom finding any suitable person for marriage is extremely difficult and very challenging and very hard, with no easy solution and years of unmarried life ahead of them - and absolutely no halal way to fulfill natural desires. On the other hand are people who are not only permanently married, but can also engage in mutah whenever they wish, as many times as they wish, without any difficulty or hardship, with full liberty and absolutely no obstruction for fulfillment of halal desires. The contrast is striking and the -
I don’t have a feeling of wanting intimacy
Maisam Haider replied to a topic in Social/Family/Personal
Yes, of course. But I believe the other purpose of sexual desire is that how much effort can a person put in to limit this sexual desire only to that which is halal. Getting married is not wajib but avoiding sins is wajib. That means it is more important to not have haram pleasures than it is to have halal pleasures. So this sexual desire is a test of patience and a big challenge of life, not just a means of pleasure. -
I don’t have a feeling of wanting intimacy
Maisam Haider replied to a topic in Social/Family/Personal
Most men masturbate. Now if masturbation causes normal sexuality to become dead, then it means when most men get married, they find sexual intercourse less comforting, less pleasurable, less satisfying than masturbation. They would prefer to masturbate than to have sex. But masturbation after getting married is even a worse sin than masturbating before marriage. That means a person who masturbates a lot before marriage should keep in mind that even though it is obligatory for him to get married, it wouldn't necessarily mean that marriage would grant him more sexual pleasure than he is al -
I don’t have a feeling of wanting intimacy
Maisam Haider replied to a topic in Social/Family/Personal
A person who has no desire for intimacy may not feel any urge to get married. That is an issue because if he doesn't get married, then how will he be tested with all the responsibility that comes with marriage. But at the same time, having no sexual desire would also mean that the person doesn't commit any sins of sexual nature because he doesn't feel any need for this. That is a big plus point. What more could a man want than being protected so easily from sins of sexual nature?! No sexual desire, no sexual sins. Maybe the man should thank Allah that he is free from sexual sins in -
I didn't say they are not culturally imposed. I agree that Islam doesn't put any baseless restrictions on early marriages and most of the hindrances are due to society. But even if a person resists the culture and makes his maximum effort to get married early and tries his level best, it is still possible that he might have to wait for a long time, extending over several years, because making an effort to get married early is not a guarantee that early marriage will actually take place, because the resistance from the society may be greater than maximum effort the man can put in. I
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Yes, but when a man rightly makes the ultimate decision to get married soon, against all odds, that doesn't necessarily mean that his marriage will actually take place as soon as he wishes. Even if he tries his best he may have to wait for several years for nikah or even mutah to take place. That's because getting married is not something which is in every man's own personal control. Had that been the universal case, most young men would have been married at young ages. Circumstances today can make it so extremely hard to get married for a young man, that several years of wait is a very r
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Marriage of Conjoined twins... permissible or haram?
Maisam Haider replied to Maisam Haider's topic in Jurisprudence/Laws
Found the following by internet search but it is Sunni: Regarding this issue, the Islamic Research Academy at Al-Azhar issued the following resolution on Thursday, March 27, 2008: It is not permissible for one of the conjoined twins or both to get married from another person. The reason of prohibition in this case is that marriage has requirements and marital affairs that one of the conjoined twins is not allowed to watch. It should be noted that the conjoined twins are not considered one person, and it is not permissible for a person to marry from two female conjoined twins as -
What does Islam say about conjoint twins who are adults, cannot be separated and wish to get married? Is it haram for them to ever get married, because they are two different individuals and cannot be married to one spouse? Is marriage categorically forbidden for them in Islam and if yes, what options do they have to satisfy their needs without committing any sexual sins? If there are two brothers, is it possible for them to get married to two different women? How would that practically work because there would be no privacy? There have been some cases where conjoint brothers have married
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Suppose there is a young unmarried man. He is very pious, religious and God-fearing. Like other young men, he has high sexual desire but still he controls his urges and restrains himself from sexual sins. He finds it very difficult to maintain full chastity but still he is able to achieve this goal by putting in a lot of effort. Although he is very patient, still he does have fear that at some point in life, if he continues to remain unmarried, he might commit some sin. He understands that it is obligatory for him to get married and he is trying all within his reach to get married or do mutah
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Hagia Sophia in Turkey
Maisam Haider replied to KnowledgeSeeker36's topic in Politics/Current Events
In 1204, it was converted by the Fourth Crusaders to a Roman Catholic cathedral under the Latin Empire, before being restored to the Eastern Orthodox Church upon the return of the Byzantine Empire in 1261. The doge of Venice who led the Fourth Crusade and the 1204 Sack of Constantinople, Enrico Dandolo, was buried in the church. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hagia_Sophia The graves are still there, as far as I know. If you walk up the ramp which leads to the first floor, on the way up, there is an opening in the wall where I think it was marked that the graves were there. -
Hagia Sophia in Turkey
Maisam Haider replied to KnowledgeSeeker36's topic in Politics/Current Events
I have visited Hagia Sophia. Yes there are Christian holy figures burried there. -
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Giving Khums while residing in West
Maisam Haider replied to vigilant's topic in General Islamic Discussion
And this is a big challenge and very complicated and worrisome issue. Many people have no access to any marja or their wakeels. If you give khums to any online Shia charity, they might not provide receipts from Iraq from marjas office. What do you do then....bury khums in the ground for the imam as. to recover when he returns? Finding a reliable collection service for khoms is really a very, very big issue and a very serious matter. I often think most of the khoms I have given in my life, I have no way of confirming whether Ayatollah Sistani office was ever informed of not, because I do n -
How to see a women hoor from jannah in a dream ?
Maisam Haider replied to Mateen Rokni's topic in General Islamic Discussion
There is a tradition that there will be two men who will be exactly equal in their good deeds but one of these men will be given hoouris in jannah and the other will not get any. The reason for this would be that the one who will get hoouris will be the person who used to make very frequent duas to get hoouris, while the other person did not make any dua to get them. But it is possible that hoouris are not pretty girls, but infact represent some sort of menifesatation of love of Imam Hussain as. I think there is a tradition that houris are made up of Noor of imam Hussain as.