You are wrong again.The basic reasons all this trash is propagated so that Sunni brethren may not enter into a healthy disccusion with their Shia friends and stumble upon facts wich are otherwise hidden from the mases
You need proof?.Back in india there is a state of Gujarat which experienced one of the worst communual riots in post independence india.The then and present Chief Minister openly asks for proof of his involvement whereas everybody in the world knows how his regime collided with the roiters.Taliban is worse my friend .Please start saying and accepting reality.Condemn the oppressors even if they are your brothers.It is not Muhammed(swws)Islam is not what Taliban brings.
(bismillah) (wasalam) Why trivalise a simple matter.We in India first get married and then fall inlove and believe me it is a wonderful experience.By the way refer to your Marajae in reaching a proper decision
(bismillah) Jazakallah. As far as the issue of spending on decorations is concerned let us begin with Kaaba and the innumerable Mosque around the world.Surely a lot of money can be saved for the betterment of the community.Why do we only talk about the Roza's of Ahlulbait(a.s.) why not of the house of Allah(swt).