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frozen star

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  1. (salam) so the objective behind the Iddah period is to rule out pregnancy, So does it make any difference if the couple had already been separated for a year, and have not had sexual relations for one year? does the woman still has to observe iddah after the divorce ?
  2. sisters........ i need urgent duas for my daughter........ time is passing by and last day tomorrow ........:(( cant go in the details now sisters please please pray that Allah and Imam e zamana (a.s) relieve me and her of the difficulty before tomorrow ends
  3. salam bros and sisters.. how does one keep their hopes up in times of difficulty...... i am praying and reciting ziyarat e ashura everyday.... and trying to keep my faith strong by remembering the 12th Imam (a.s) please if anyone could tell me of any personal experiences how they passed through the difficult times in there lives, it would help me see light at the end of the tunnel. i shall be very grateful kindly pray for me......need them badly
  4. thank you ! May Allah shower his blessings upon you
  5. salam can someone explain these verses to me 37:172-178 i know its pretty simple.but still (١٧٢)[That] indeed, they would be those given victoryBahawa sesungguhnya merekalah orang-orang yang diberikan pertolongan mencapai kemenanganوَإِنَّ جُندَنَا لَهُمُ ٱلْغَٰلِبُونَ (١٧٣)And [that] indeed, Our soldiers will be those who overcome.Dan bahawasanya tentera Kami (pengikut-pengikut Rasul), merekalah orang-orang yang mengalahkan (golongan yang menentang kebenaran).فَتَوَلَّ عَنْهُمْ حَتَّىٰ حِينٍ (١٧٤)So, [O Muhammad], leave them for a time.Oleh itu berpalinglah (wahai Muhammad) dari mereka, (ja
  6. i want to know the islamic ruling about the money and jewellery that was given to the wife at the time of marriage ... this wasnt part of mehr.. the jewellery was gift by husband's relatives and the money was given to her by husband soon after marriage .... now the husband and wife have seperated , they havent decided about divorce yet, but the husband is demanding the things back........ what is the islamic ruling regarding this? can/should the wife too ask back for the gifts she gave to his family?
  7. Thank you bro ali,those are all very good suggestions but unfortunately i dont think i will be able to put any of them to practise. The reason that the in laws were successful with their interference was my husband's attitude. In the past he never did anything to protect me and the children. I dont think he's going to do much now,despite admitting that his family are the ones who are behaving badly. My children are too young to understand whats going on. All the suggestions you gave require a united front (not letting them enter house without permission etc) by husband and wife, unfortunately,
  8. Thanks for ur replies, can anyone provide me any rulings relevant to this matter
  9. @ varun: there's nothing left to explain,husband know everything but is unable resolve things @keystoparadise : askd husband to move away several times but he's not going to,had we been living sum distance away i might not hav felt the need of taking this step,but since we r going to live in close proximity to them i need to draw clear lines to keep them from interfering,hence.....
  10. Salam everyone,i wont go in the details but my inlaws have always treated me v poorly ever since i got married 6yrs back,neithr me nor my husband has been able to come up with a good explanation of their behaviour,its just that they never accepted me ,i hav always tried to be good to them.they interfered so much in our marriage and nearly destroyed it. Even the birth of our children changed nothing for them.most of the time they ignore my children or openly show preference to other kids, some of those are not even family,yet they get preferred over the children of their only son.at other times
  11. good point, i think she probably can........ if that guy hasnt gotten resident status yet, no she doesnt have to pay back any money.......... just get a divorce....... people from her family can pressurise him he isnt behaving
  12. algerian shia....... if he is willing to gove it another chance...... why not????? some many men i know had affairs outside their marriages, some of their wives came to know abt it........ what happens...... lots of times nothing..........you ll find so many posts on shiacht and on the web about husbands being into porn.......addicted to it....... does that mean that the wives should automatically divorce them..........??? while i admit that this brother should have been stronger in some aspects........ in other ways i think its very wise of him to give his wife and his marriage another chance
  13. salam sis, please can someone tell me from where i can get those arm covers/gauntlets in pakistan? i dont seem to find them anywhere, i am desperate.
  14. just reading the Q&A on najaf.org out of interest............... most of the answers seem to be ambigious, not very clear cut and difficult to make out
  15. bapsi sidwha.......... highly recommended
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