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In the Name of God بسم الله

shadow_of_light

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  1. By the way, I think fasting and reciting Quran can be helpful as well. In addition to what said above, dont watch the films that have immoral scenes.
  2. I am not a man but maybe these tips can help you: - how do you feel if a man gazes at your mother/sister/wife? - men who gaze at women are considered very disgusting by women. Do you like to be considered a disgusting creature? - Once a great scholar said something according to which those gazing at nonmahrams (and those who use foul language) wont experience spiritual joys. - respect yourself. Dont provide haram inputs to your body (that includes watching sinful scenes or even reading impolite comments of others). - if your friends show this bad behaviour, break off
  3. Salam Considering that you have 4 children and the younger ones are 9 and 6 and that you dont need money, I think it is better to stay at home and watch your children and pass on your knowledge to them.
  4. This topic is very old. I no longer feel depressed.
  5. 25. When others criticize your child, dont say things such as "yes, he is very lazy/ disobedient/naughty/ spoilt...". Instead, say "today he is not in a good mood... today, he is bored/ tired/...".
  6. 24. Dont punish your child: 1. When he is eating his meal 2. In front of his friends/ peers 3. When he is watching cartoons 4. After arguing with your spouse
  7. 5 Steps To Nurture Emotional Intelligence in Your Child Acknowledge your child's perspective and empathize. Even if you can't "do anything" about your child's upsets, empathize. ... Allow expression. ... Listen to your child's feelings. ... Teach problem solving. ... Play it out.
  8. Tips for raising an emotionally intelligent child: Label Your Child's Emotions. Kids need to know how to recognize how they're feeling. ... Show Empathy. ... Model Appropriate Ways to Express Feelings. ... Teach Healthy Coping Skills. ... Develop Problem-Solving Skills. ... Make Emotional Intelligence an Ongoing Goal.
  9. Antisocial personality disorder is defined in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), while the equivalent concept of dissocial personality disorder (DPD) is defined in the International Statistical Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems (ICD); the primary theoretical distinction between the two is that antisocial personality disorder focuses on observable behaviours, while dissocial personality disorder focuses on affective deficits.[5] Otherwise, both manuals provide similar criteria for diagnosing the disorder.[6] Both have also stated that their dia
  10. People who: 1. lack empathy (have low emotional intelligence) 2. are psychopaths or suffer from antisocial personality disorder 3. are heavy drinkers 4. are narcissistic 5. show aggressive behaviour and are impatient 6. have low self-esteem 5. have been abused or belittled by others * Men who are hostile to women or have friends who are so, are more likely to commit violent crimes against women.
  11. Salam Please, study the topic below: https://www.shiachat.com/forum/topic/235069784-useful-parenting-tips/
  12. This is from Tahrir al-Wasilah/v. 2: مسألة 2 - لو عقد على امرأة حرمت عليها أمها وإن علت نسبا أو رضاعا، سواء دخل بها أم لا، وسواء كان العقد دواما أو انقطاعا، وسواء كانت المعقودة صغيرة أو كبيرة نعم الأحوط في العقد على الصغيرة انقطاعا أن تكون بالغة إلى حد تقبل للاستمتاع والتلذذ بها ولو بغير الوطء بأن كانت بالغة ست سنين فما فوق مثلا، أو يدخل في المدة بلوغها إلى هذا الحد، فما تعارف من إيقاع عقد الانقطاع ساعة أو ساعتين على الصغيرة الرضعية أو من يقاربها مريدين بذلك محرمية أمها على المعقود له لا يخلو من إشكال من جهة الاشكال في صحة مثل هذا العقد حتى يترتب عليه حرمة أم المعقود عليها، وإن لا يخلو من
  13. I read some parts of his book about Ma'ad and it was interesting. Some parts, in particular, were very interesting. In contrast, i strongly disagree on what he said in his risalah about population growth in which he encourages having more children and even prefers sons to daughters. I didnt expect him to say such words!
  14. It is not a marriage at all. It is child abuse and i cant understand why our scholars allowed it!!! Everything immoral and inhumane must be declared haram even if there is no mention of it in the narrations
  15. In the Name of Allah, the All-beneficent, the All-merciful. Is it the last traveling or something else is in my destiny? However, I am satisfied with whatever it is. I am writing to you in this travelling to be as memory for you in homesickness without me, or may you find something useful in it. Whenever I start traveling, I feel like I will not see you again. Several times on the way, I have imagined your loving faces one by one in front of my eyes and many times I have wept for you. I missed you; I entrusted you to God. Although I had less opportunity to express love an
  16. We had leftover sabzipolo (rice cooked with finely chopped herbs (dill, parsely...) from yesterday. I cooked kuku săbzi (made of chopped herbs and eggs) and ádásee (lentil soup: water+lentils+ chopped potatos and onions (optional)+salt+pepper+lemon juice (optional)). This is adasee: https://www.proportionalplate.com/adasi/ Kuku sabzi: https://fae-magazine.com/2014/07/30/fresh-herb-kuku-kuku-sabzi/ Sabzi polo: https://fae-magazine.com/2014/07/30/fresh-herb-rice-sabzi-polo/ I also made some salad (lettuce, tomatos, zucchinis).
  17. 22. Dont tell your child: do whatever I tell you. Instead tell him: do it because... 23. Dont tell your child: dont forget my words. It is better to say: thank you for remembering my words.
  18. Salam 1. Green 2. Soft but not as soft as other melons 3. Yes
  19. Quote: Ibn Babawayh etc. have narrated from reliable chains of narrators from Imam Ali Reza ((عليه السلام).) that one day the Holy Prophet (S) went to the house of Zaid bin Haritha bin Sharjeel Kalbi. When he entered, he saw that the wife of Zaid was taking a bath. The Holy Prophet (S) said: “Glory be the one Who has created you.” By this statement he meant that she must consider the Almighty Allah as pure and free from the saying of infidels who say that angels are the daughters of God, as the Almighty Allah has Himself said So he entered Zaid's house without kn
  20. Her brother used a syringe without a needle to feed her.
  21. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8823341/Emaciated-baby-girl-rescued-Russia-left-starve-cupboard-mother.html The baby is so weak that she cannot cry!
  22. Try to encourage your parents. Tell them "if the Prophet(s) were in the same situation, what would he do?"
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