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In the Name of God بسم الله

shadow_of_light

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  1. Here are some of his advices: - dont talk about bad news at home - dont threaten the kids -mind your language when you talk with your spouse -dont destroy your good deeds by misbehaving -the best change is to become kind -reflect on your deeds on a daily basis -stop sinning before repenting -dont request many things from others
  2. Salam I have read his biography. He was a very nice person!
  3. Putin is a dictator. Chinese and North Korean goverments are dictators, too. And it is very bad that our government has to have friendly relationships with them and cannot dare to say anything against their oppressive actions.
  4. My parents and my husband have high incomes but I personally dont have a salary. Every time my father or my husband give me money, i give some of it to the poor or charities but i wish i could help them more but i feel shy to ask my parents or my husband to give me more money. So i decided to work as a freelancer for English websites and earn a salary. But since I live in Iran, due to the sanctions, I couldnt have a paypal account. So I paid for a verified paypal account and a vps that doesnt allow the admins of paypal and freelancing websites to know where i live (i have to pay monthly for vps). I also downloaded a rd client app which will help me to use vps in android (due to the sanctions, play store didnt allow me to download it even when I turned on my vpn!!!). Currently, I am trying to pass an entrance exam in order to be employed as a freelancer. It is a transcription exam. I have passed the non-audio part but the audio part is difficult. They speak too fast! They offer some hotkeys for reducing speed but since i am using my cellphone and the android keyboard doesnt have a ctrl button, i cannot use these hotkeys. I will try but if I fail, i will try other freelancing websites.
  5. BE CAREFUL! Change either your job or your shift. Please take my advice seriously.
  6. We also have hired our 6 year old daughter to work with her 2.5 year old brother at least 2 hours per day. We signed a contract with her and before it, she had an interview. She has to read books for him, teach him to paint, ... . The contract includes some clauses for example she has to be kind to her brother, so he will learn to be kind or she has to paint so he will learn to paint, ... . She also agreed to give a certain percent of her salary to the poor.
  7. I cant see the picture but are you sure that he didnt pose it as a question/ objection/ misconception? Because he wrote this book to answer to some misconceptions. Can you take a photo of the page and post it here, please?
  8. One of the major reasons why Saddam became extremely cruel was that he was frequently belittled and severely beaten and physically and mentally abused when he was a child.
  9. Patients given fluvoxamine within a few days after testing positive for Covid-19 were 31 percent less likely to end up hospitalized and similarly less likely to end up on a ventilator. (Death from Covid-19 is rare enough that the study has wide error bars when it comes to how much fluvoxamine reduces death, meaning it’s much harder to draw conclusions.) It’s a much larger effect than any that has been found for an outpatient Covid-19 treatment so far.
  10. Most Covid-19 drug treatments that have been included in trials haven’t panned out. A large new study suggests fluvoxamine might be different.
  11. https://www.optometrytimes.com/view/fluvoxamine-can-prevent-covid-19-from-developing-life-threatening-conditions *fluvoxamine is an anti-deppressant.
  12. If you want to learn to easily control your nafs, whenever your nafs wants something, avoid satisfying its desire, even if it is halal. For example, you are not hungry but you like to eat a cake, however, you dont eat it. The more you ignore the desires of your nafs, the easier it will be for you to control it.
  13. I have never heard members of these groups taking part in killing or torturing the innocent. Maybe because they have pious leaders and that their intention is not gaining something material but defending the oppressed so every kind of person doesnt join them.
  14. Are they brainwashed? A normal human cannot be such cruel. I cant understand what makes some soldiers so brutal.
  15. 29. You shatter your child's self-confidence when: 1. You dont answer him when he calls you 2. You compare him with others.
  16. 28. If you wish to have a polite child: 1. You yourself must be polite. 2. Dont disrespect your spouse in front of your child. 3. When you ask your child to do something, say: please ....thank you...talk politely with your child.
  17. 27. Sometimes, let your child make a mistake and have a wrong choice (providing that it doesnt put his or other's life in danger) so he will learn from his mistakes. If you force him to listen to you, not only doesnt he learn that his decision was wrong, but he also will see you as dictatorial. Example: your preschool child insists that you buy a game for him which has text. You tell him it is not suitable for him because he cannot read and you suggest buying something else but he isnt covinced. You buy that game and he, later, will see that he cannot play it so he realizes that you were right. He learns to trust you and listen to your advice.
  18. I am sure many people care but maybe only a few people viewed your post. I personally care a lot but I dont know how I can help them. I like to adopt an Afghan child but I dont know how.
  19. Can sending a petition to UN be helpful?
  20. ‌May God save Afgans from any kind of oppression. They are in terrible conditions. Even thinking about it is terrifying.
  21. 26. Dont let your child become a stubborn person by empathizing (and dont arguing) with him. If stubbornness in children is not treated, it can lead to antisocial personality in their adulthood. Warning: many criminals, rapists,...have an antisocial personality. The reason why some children dont have good relationships with their parents or dont have enough contacts with them (dont call them or visit them in their homes) is that their parents didnt show empathy with them and ignored their emotions. So, for example, when your child is playing and enjoying himself, dont suddenly interrupt him and say: it is enough. You must go to bed right now. This will make him angry because he was enjoying his happy moment and suddenly you interrupt him and want to bring an end to his joy. Instead, say: play for 10-15 minutes and then let's go to bed and sleep. When he doesnt like the meal, dont say: that' s that. You must eat it. Instead, say: i understand that you dont like it but i have not prepared any other food. Let's see what we have in the fridge. Or tell him in advance what you are going to cook for lunch/dinner. Or use some tricks. For example say: this tomato will get upset and cry if you dont eat it.... Sometimes, allow him to choose (between two foods, between the games or her dresses) and by doing so, prevent him/her from behaving stubbornly.
  22. 26. Dont let your child become a stubborn person by empathizing (and dont arguing) with him. If stubbornness in children is not treated, it can lead to antisocial personality in their adulthood. Warning: many criminals, rapists,...have an antisocial personality. The reason why some children dont have good relationships with their parents or dont have enough contacts with them (dont call them or visit them in their homes) is that their parents didnt show empathy with them and ignored their emotions. So, for example, when your child is playing and enjoying himself, dont suddenly interrupt him and say: it is enough. You must go to bed right now. This will make him angry because he was enjoying his happy moment and suddenly you interrupt him and want to bring an end to his joy. Instead, say: play for 10-15 minutes and then let's go to bed and sleep. When he doesnt like the meal, dont say: that' s that. You must eat it. Instead, say: i understand that you dont like it but i have not prepared any other food. Let's see what we have in the fridge. Or tell him in advance what you are going to cook for lunch/dinner. Or use some tricks. For example say: this tomato will get upset and cry if you dont eat it.... Sometimes, allow him to choose (between two foods, between the games or her dresses) and by doing so, prevent him/her from behaving stubbornly.
  23. Salam https://lib.eshia.ir/ابن_كثير https://lib.eshia.ir/40189/1/467
  24. I think that for Iran, fertility rate of 2 is good and enough. It means averagely 2 kids per family. With this rate, the population wont increase. I believe that population growth will do great harm to the society. An example are the people who live in Sistan and Baluchestan. Many people there, specially those in rural areas, have many children and live in extreme poverty. I think these people must be encouraged (and if it is not enough then) forced to use birth control methods for by bearing more children, not only do they oppress these poor kids (who have to experience poverty, malnutrition, lack of welfare and education and ...), but they will cause harm to the society as well.
  25. Family planning is necessary. Having many children can destroy a woman's physical and mental health. It is unjust and inhumane not to allow a woman to have a few kids if she wants.
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