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  1. Abu Nur

    Illegitimate Children

    Is congratulate the parents same than congratulate the child and pray for the child heatlh and protection? Also it is enough proof that yhe connection can’t be cut, which is the point here.
  2. Abu Nur

    Illegitimate Children

    What is the English translation?
  3. What about the next verse 19:72 Then We will save those who feared Allah and leave the wrongdoers within it, on their knees. Save from what and leave other to what?
  4. Abu Nur

    Punishment of the grave

    Purgatory is established in Judaism and Christianity.
  5. Abu Nur

    Illegitimate Children

    It is not encouraging and it does not violating any Islamic laws. I don't know how do you understand it means by congratulating for blessing of Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) means accepting their haram actions? And [recall] when We took the covenant from the Children of Israel, [enjoining upon them], "Do not worship except Allah ; and to parents do good and to relatives, orphans, and the needy. And speak to people good [words] and establish prayer and give zakah." Then you turned away, except a few of you, and you were refusing. The state of the couple you are mentioned are in their jahil and follow their desires, most of people are in such a state, and they are not in state where they mock Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) and His religion.
  6. Abu Nur

    Punishment of the grave

    The reasonable proof would be the following verse: ال‍‍‍نّ‍‍‍َ‍ا‌رُ‌ يُعْ‍رَ‍‍ضُ‍‍‍ونَ عَلَيْهَا‌ غُ‍‍دُ‌وّ‌ا‌‌ ً‌ ‌وَعَشِيّا‌‌ ً‌ ۖ ‌وَيَوْمَ تَ‍‍قُ‍‍‍ومُ ‌ال‍‍سَّاعَةُ ‌أَ‌دْ‍‍خِ‍‍لُ‍‍و‌ا‌ ‌آلَ فِرْعَوْنَ ‌أَشَدَّ‌ ‌الْعَذ‍َ‍‌ابِ And the people of Pharaoh were enveloped by the worst of punishment - The Fire, they are exposed to it morning and evening. And the Day the Hour appears [it will be said], "Make the people of Pharaoh enter the severest punishment." The literal understanding is that currently they are suffering in the fire, because in Hereafter there is no morning or evening. And after the suffering the following verse comes: And the Day the Hour appears [it will be said], "Make the people of Pharaoh enter the severest punishment.
  7. Abu Nur

    Illegitimate Children

    Of course, but congratulate an born innocent child is not violating the laws of Islam. Nor if the relative is gay with gay married and you go to say hi and have halal conversation is no where violating any Islamic law. That is true, and we are not encouraging their sins in any way.
  8. Abu Nur

    My faith is diminishing.

    You are judging yourself too much and are very hard for yourself. God did not make worshiping Him complex and stressful. The only thing what is required from you is to do the wajibat and if you feel stressful, doing more worship actions will only cause you have more stressful and make you want to stop doing them all together. In these times just do Salat in time and protect yourself from sinning, these two things are enough, because Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) says in the Qur'an: "and whoever is careful of (his duty to) Allah He will make easy for him his affair. Q:65:4". If your stress does not go down, then the best thing to do is to seek professional treatment for your depression.
  9. Abu Nur

    Illegitimate Children

    Wa Aleikum Salaam Read Qur'an, there you will find your solutions. Not only that, but the heart will also soften and be guided. If your intention is to accept and congratulate a haram action then it is wrong, but if your intention is to keep maintaining the ties of family and congratulating for born baby that is innocent from parent actions while at the same time don't accept their parents haram actions of what they did, there is nothing problem with it and it is good and merciful thing to do. No, in such a case the produce is a haram institution and we don't congratulate such a thing. The child is different case, because he is innocent of what the parents did. Also even if your relative marries another man, does it mean that you go and cut the family ties between him? The answer is you can't: The traditions of the Ma’sūmīn ((عليه السلام).) leave no doubt whatsoever that the fulfilling of the rights of one’s relatives is obligatory. Whether the relatives are Shia or Sunni, pious and religious or sinful and transgressors or whether they are Muslims or Kafirs. It is compulsory to perform Silet ar-Rahm with them. Even if a Muslim relative apostises and becomes a kafir, his rights are not invalidated. Ibn al-Hamid enquired from Imam Ja’far as-Sadiq ((عليه السلام).): “My relatives are not of my religion. Are any of their rights upon me?” Imam ((عليه السلام).) gave the following reply: “Why not? The rights of the relatives do not become invalid for any reason (even if the relatives are unbelievers) but if the relatives are Muslim then their rights are twice as much. One is due to their being relatives and second because of their being Muslim.” https://www.al-Islam.org/greater-sins-volume-1-ayatullah-Sayyid-abdul-husayn-dastghaib-shirazi/seventh-greater-sin-qata-ar#fref_f7ebf55f_25 The only reason cutting the ties become Wajib is if the person is enemy of Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) and mocks the religion of Islam or the Prophet (saws) or the Ahlulbait (as): “You shall not find people who believe in Allah and the latter day befriending those who act in opposition to Allah and His apostle, even though they were their (own) fathers, or their sons or their brothers or their kinsfolk...” (Surah al-Mujādala 58:22)
  10. Abu Nur

    Little boy killed in Medina just for being Shia

    Only Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) knows. We are really living in final times and His reappearance is soon. Indeed, they see it [as] distant, But We see it [as] near. Qur'an 70:6-7
  11. Abu Nur

    Illegitimate Children

    Because we can't cut the ties, that is major sin.
  12. Abu Nur

    Illegitimate Children

    Simple, you keep good connection with your family members and relatives and congratulate the birth of the child even if it is Illegitimate child which is blessing from Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى). You don't want to, but what Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) wants? To please Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) is to respect and have mercy and kindness to His creation.
  13. Abu Nur

    To err is human? right or wrong?

    Well you can put it that way too. Yes God is the One who guide us to not sin or err, but we can sin by disobey Him and err because of our weakness. There is nothing wrong with errness, actually it is part of humbleness to admit our err while God never err. It is also nothing but sign of Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) to show how we are weak while He is Mighty.
  14. Abu Nur

    To err is human? right or wrong?

    It is not a mistake of Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى), because whatever Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) creates, He do it with Truth and there is always truth in it. Ahsan-e-Taqweem does not mean free from err or sin etc, but as you said it is innate qualities that by Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) Mercy He can give it to us. All good qualities comes from Him and all bad comes from us.
  15. Abu Nur

    To err is human? right or wrong?

    Yes, because we err (because we are limited) while He Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) is perfect and can't make any error. In دعاء يستشير: "You are the Forgive of sins while I am sinful. You are the Omniscient while I am ignorant. You are the forbearing while I am hasty". And in Munajaat of Imam Ali (as): "My Lord, O my Lord, You are the Leading and I am the straying, and who else can be merciful to the straying except the Leading?"
  16. Leave her and find a Shia woman. Mostly you are overwhelmed with desire and beauty that is nothing but illusion and will only harm you later in your life. You should found a spouse that could help you do develop in Allah way and not the oppisite that could take you to shaitan way.
  17. Abu Nur

    Why do some sunnis hate shias?

    It is in general sense and means all groups of people, even Shi'as too included. People tend to follow their family, culture way of life where they don't sincerely worship God and follow His laws. It is a warning to all of us to not follow what you are born on but rather follow what is the Truth. You think that born in Shia family means born in truth, but you will be surprise how many innovation and culture values have been mixed with it.
  18. Uthman for sure did.
  19. Abu Nur

    How long is your hair?

  20. Abu Nur

    How long is your hair?

    Bald.
  21. Abu Nur

    Bad Thoughts.

    No, because they are thoughts that comes and go and it is not your intention to think about it. They will go away when one cleans their heart more and more.
  22. It should be condemn if their decisions is opposite to Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) laws. I do have problem with them, they are the disease and they bring this diseases to other countries and most follow their disease. Their media is disease, their economic morality is disease, their Hollywood and entertainment industry is disease and their mentality to war any country that opposite them.
  23. I don't know because I have not studied it, so I can't say anything about it.
  24. I'm talking in general not only particular people. Politics decisions can be opposite to what Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) wants, thus it must be condem.
  25. Yes, and if the the actions of these politicians are against the Qur'an verse 5:44 and it's rules, we have very right to criticize them even if they are respected mu'min or persons favorite sheikh.
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