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Salam everyone, I want to share something that all of you can benefit from inshallah, especially those who are finding it hard to cope with life on daily basis. I'm not the most pious or the best muslimah but by the mercy of Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) i'm becoming more aware of my purpose as a human and in return i have found peace & gratitude in everything. 1- Pray your daily prayers (even if you struggle to pray them on time try to pray them off before the end of the day). 2- Qiyam al-layl even with two Rak'ahs if you can't do the 11 rak'ahs. 3- Read quran daily even if one page per day. 4- Cutting out music 5- Cut out any bad habits 6- Become more gentle with yourself & those around you regardless who they are. 7- Have yaqeen(certainty) and reliance on Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) alone 8- Always help whenever you can even in small things whether at home or removing a harmful object off the ground out on the street. Alhamdulilah my days are becoming so much better. I wake up feeling so calm peaceful and happy, and i wish this beautiful feeling for all of you and anyone whose reading this. Goodluck xo

Salam OP, Praying your daily prayers, Reading Quran even if one page a day and doing Qiyam al-layl (every night if possible) even with only two rak'ahs. I promise you by the will of Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) that your life will be so much better and you'll feel so good too all day everyday even on bad days your heart&soul will be calm. Goodluck xo

Salam OP, Try and open up and talk to her and tell her what you like, if you like a certain hair colour/style suggest that to her. Also encourage her to be more intimate with you and wear flirty outfits at home. Good hygiene is really important too! get her scented body lotions, bodywash and perfumes that you personally like and gets you in the mood lol. Goodluck xo

Joined late dec 2023 seeking help on divorce. Fast forward to 2025 i married the cop who helped me get my ex to divorce me. It was hard and complicated but by the grace of Allah we did it !! no fancy wedding but a marriage worth a million dimes . Alot of times we get blinded by the bad that we don't see the good that's coming after. trust the process. Alhamdulilah xo

lol i hope yall not taking this bot serious, he/she/it/they is only posting to mock. Btw you need a husband not a wife if you were srs. Also Admins not sure why you would allow such post ?!? I think it's so clear and obvious when a post isn't genuine and if you can't differentiate then maybe you shouldn't be an admin.

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This Life is Not Worth It – A Reminder from Reality Sometimes, life hits you with a truth so raw, it shakes your soul. I knew this muslim girl young (25-28) beautiful, full of life. The kind of girl who lit up every room she walked into with her glam and style. Always out with friends, dining at the best places, living what many would call the "dream life." Popular, loved, admired. But in December 2024, she passed away. Just like that. And now, only a few months later... life moves on. Her name barely comes up. People who once surrounded her with love and attention have gone back to their routines. Parties. Laughter. Selfies. Like she never existed. And that’s when it hits you. This dunya is so fake. So temporary. So unworthy. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: *“Be in this world as if you were a stranger or a traveler.”* (Bukhari) This world isn’t our home. It’s not meant to fulfill us. It was never supposed to be the source of our happiness. Yet we spend so much of our time chasing people, love, status, and wealth and then stress ourselves sick when things don’t go our way. We cry over relationships, we feel worthless when people leave, we obsess over material things that will mean nothing in our grave. But what will matter? Our prayers. Our kindness. The secret good deeds no one sees. The way we treat others. The way we treat ourselves. So be kind to yourself. Don’t let this world break you. Don’t stress over people who might not even remember you when you're gone. Instead, pour your energy into things that will benefit you when you return to Allah. Let your heart be busy with dhikr. Let your hands give. Let your words heal. Let your silence be wise. Live this life knowing that none of it really lasts — except what is done for the sake of Allah. And remember: Even the most unforgettable people will be forgotten. But those who live for Allah — their legacy never dies.

Wa alaikum assalaam sis, Thank you so much for sharing that, what an incredibly interesting and unique experience. SubhanAllah, it's fascinating how certain people or moments from our past can linger in our hearts and minds, even long after we’ve moved on from that chapter of our lives. Dreams especially can feel so persistent and confusing at times. I pray that Allah grants you complete closure if that’s what you truly want, and that He brings peace and clarity to your heart. And if it’s better for you to be freed from these lingering thoughts and dreams, and gently remove them from your mind and replace them with ease, contentment, and focus on what truly matters now in your life. Ameen. May Allah continue to guide and protect you always, sis. xo

Sorry OP. Does anyone know what it means to constantly dream about a specific person but in every dream you don't get to see them but always waiting to see them or only talking about them and mentioning their name without their physical presence in the dream?

Salam guys, Does anyone know any good lectures or podcasts that can be beneficial for a revert ? he reverted from christianity to sunni islam how do i introduce him to shia islam ? not sure where to start with him.... also has to be strictly in english and/or french or polish. Thanks

Didn't know this site was a chatroom lol interesting...

Muhammed Baqer al-Qazwini

Salam Sis, From my understanding Mut'ah is there to help people who cannot get married for reasons beyond their control, not for those who are capable of marriage and yet opting out to casual flings under the name of mut'ah it's still zinah as there is rules and exceptions when it comes to the vadility of Mut'ah and shouldn't be abused or used lightly. In your case you're choosing to do Mut'ah as you are comfortable living alone without the committment of marriage, i don't personally think that's a strong reason to validate mut'ah.... maybe try to control your "needs" till you meet the right man to marry. Also if you think it's hard to control your needs just remember there's millions of sisters out there who have never been married before and don't have the option of Mut'ah and they're coping, so i think you will do just fine lol Allah knows best. xo