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  1. I feel so so so lost and so broken. I have been waiting to marry my best friend so long. We are supposed to get married in 5 days. I recently converted, maybe 2 months ago. His family has acted supportive but now they are bullying me, they are judging me, they are making me feel as if I am a fake muslim. I am still so new I have not learned anything. His sisters took my private instagram and showed old photos of me to his mom and said how could she let her son marry someone like me. In this photos I wore "shorter" clothes and occasionally had a drink, it was before I was muslim. I never was sinning to anyone. He partook in these activities with me. But for the past 1.5 years me and him have been trying to be more halal each day. Even before I was muslim I respected that he did not want to be intimate or and that for him he had to be married. Before to me there were "restrictions" but now that I have accepted god, I look at them like guidelines and I don't fight it. I accept that this is mine and his paths. But yesterday he told me that his family said that if we have our kitab they will disown him for marrying a girl like me. My fiancé knows every single thing about me and vice versa we accept each others pasts and move forward in the best way. I have been so polite, I have been so kind, I am never rude to his family. I never judge them even when they are being so horrible to me. I support him in his family as well, I understand how much they mean to him. But what do I do. I can't help but feel at fault, like I did something wrong. My instagram photos were just the past and I just recently accepted islam. I have learning why things are good and why things are bad. I cannot figure out everything over night especially with no help from anyone. They are quick to target anything I do. I am so lost. I don't understand how someone could treat me like this.
  2. Hello, Thank you for replying this will be my next step, I did get one in English. I am hoping to learn arabic eventually. I will reply again, or make a new forum when I have read it! I think it will take some time.
  3. Hello, I have a friend, he is muslim (Shia to be specific). He is the man I plan on spending my life with. Only problem is I am not muslim. I do not have a great history with religion. I am not sure what my next steps are, I do a lot of research. I do believe the Quran comes from divinity, and I do believe in Muhammed ((صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم)). I pray every night and ask for help and signs. Im sure people will say that I should not be converting for a man, and I just want to say that I am not. This is my own journey. If anyone can point me and give me some help I would greatly appreciate it. I am not sure if this is even the right place to post. But thank you in advance.
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