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  1. Hi, Can I have some recommended Dua and Surahs that I can recite to help me maintain my spirituallity As I am struggling with my depression due to what's happening in my family, It affected me spiritually as I feel unmotivated and not strong enough to maintain my prayers properly. It hurts me and frustrates me. I'm going to gym, reading novels and playing PS5 (lol finally managed to get one). I do these to keep me distracted but not working. I may have to seek professional help as things get bottled up inside of me and not having someone to talk that may hear me and say some advice to me.
  2. How about women wanting the right to wear hijab? Oh wait we (west and other hypocrites e.g. individual, countries and humans rights) only care about certain rights for women. Europe (e.g. france )and India discriminating against those with hijab. No ? They don't matter? Humans and women rights groups why are you silent? I'm sorry i feel frustrated. I can't believe some iranian were happy to lose to their enemy.
  3. I'm more concerned how some iranian were happy that they lost (as i saw comments in Instagram). I find this disgracefull and playes didn't sing the national anthem, is that right? Don't these people that US and England are not trust worthy as history time again and again showed, this. No disrespect intended, this women freedoms thing, i find it more about women wanting to show more of their bodies? It's amazing how these people remain silents to US, etc have to the world. No one will say anything about Saudi Crimes. I could go and go on and we all know about these, the hypocrisy of this world and the human rights groups or even individuals. I didn't mean to be disrespectful, if i was, i apologise in advance.
  4. I don't know if anyone else seen Sayyed Ammar Nakshwani video on Mahsa Amini. I saw, I didn't have problem it. Those who seens it, what did you think of it I don't know whether anyone follows him or Instagram or fb but he received deaths threats and call to assassinate him. I understand some may not like him for whatever reasons but death threats and call to assassinate him is taking it way to far. I hope everything settles down in iran and the protestors to stop.
  5. Aside from religious purposes and the society we live in. Do you like or dislike hijab? if dislike, what do you dislike about it? I apologise in advance, if this question offended anyone.
  6. I love Resident Evil too, although whenever you end up with Ada Wong, you can never trust her. lol. In the outlast, I think I would just hide somewhere, move bit, hide and move bit etc till i get out of the town. because you don't have any good weapons with you lol Amnesia, another game would be hard to survive too because your memories are messed up. What others horror video games you think, if you woke up to be in that world, you think you can survive as main protagonist or a normal individual?
  7. If you've played a horror game and one day you woke up to be in that horror game/world, would you be able to survive? E.g. being the main protagonist (like Resident Evil, Evil within or imagine trying to survive in Outlast lol
  8. I don't believe its a sin. It depends on the age of the person and may depends on how much you know him. I have cousins who are sayid or family sayid family, we just call them as they are e.g. if his name is ali, we call him ali. I think perhaps when he gets older maybe out of respect at Least call him Mr. Ali.
  9. Are you planning to get married with her or you already married with her?
  10. It's okay. We can go through this world difficulties. Don't give up on God's Mercy. Take a break and refresh your mind. Thank God, Seek Forgiveness and Guidance from God.
  11. I want Iran or Japan to win it. I think Belgium, Brazil or Argentina may win it.
  12. My family are being torn apart bit by bit. My oldest brother's wife falsely accusing of him cheating and she knows its not true but the wealth and her sisters whispers have blinded her. My 2nd old brother's wife or both blame my 3rd brother wife for my failed marriage and told me parents to pick them or us. I have my own issues and demons to deal with My mind is not strong enough to listen to the news anymore. I see hypocrisy everywhere. There are times, I get tested with the same tests, yet I failed despite knowing the answers. Although I am getting better with God help. I think some of us, do get tested in life with same tests, despite knowing the answers, yet sometimes we fail. Perhaps some of the tests that we failed, God tests us again with those tests to see give us opportunity to overcome those tests. The more we seek to get closer to God, the more Shaytan attack us and perhaps we get tested more than unbelievers. It is very hard to find someone to talk with about God and religious matters. So many people no longer believe in God but if you speak about how did we get here etc, they have no answers or no interest in talking about. Don't they realise, what they have is because God gave to them, everything belongs to God The richer people become, they become more stingy. Spiritually I am doing bit better than before as I know how to overcome the tests that I am being tested with. I am writing this, because it's very to find someone to talk about such things face to face. I apologise, if this blog is approprate. God Bless all of yous
  13. Can some one provide a brief info on what's happening? and what the government has done in regard to this case? Has things been settled yet or still on going? when will internet connection be restored in Iran.
  14. I want to a book that has complete story of Prophet Mohammad (Peace Be Upon him). Does anyone have any recommendation or know of any book?
  15. Anyone else starting to think this war has been a failure? What's going to be outcome of this war?
  16. Is there a community where is a sheik that might provide some help. E.g. He may have various connections that might be able to assist in finding a potential spouse
  17. Don't go for Escort. Don't do it. Please Don't do it. Don't Do it - Don't do it. You will a trillion percentage regret it because you will end up, telling yourself What have i done? God is seeing you whatever you do. Don't let the whispers of Shaytan get better of you. Shaytan is telling you, you have an excuse to commit this season and God's punishment will be light. Don't do it. Don't look for excuses to commit sins. Strengthen your faith. This is a test, Our patient is being tested. We're being tested. It's life, some of us maybe not meant to have a partner in this life regardless of how good of person we are. God will give you someone better in the afterlife.
  18. I don't see a good future with her as my feelings for her will not be there. I've been patient. I've closed my eyes for certain she did/her family did. I've closed my ears for certain things she said and her family said. I have been patient. I've told myself, perhaps a family member is poking her. I explained numerous of times that I cannot visit her again in six month because I need to save the money for her visa, ticket and to buy items when she comes here. she said I should've bought all that before I got married. She asked several times for money: 1 week. To send money for her to study., I declined, another week She claimed to have tooth pain and needs it to be fixed, I declined another week. She said she needs to have eye laser, despite she does not even wear glasses, i declined Another week She said she needs to have nose surgery (there is nothing wrong with it). I declined. 2 weeks ago, she said that I send her my gas/electricity bills, petrol cost receipt etc to see how much money I get left over to send it to her etc. This SHOCKED ME to be honest with you. I had enough and spoke to my parents, who also became upset and I said I really can't see a good future with her. When we finished from visiting Imam Reza (عليه السلام), she asked me to pray on behalf of her too, she checked me if I can read Quran properly and Wudu properly. Yet she did not know what is Ghusl Jannabet. I've overlooked all these things. These some of things but NOT everything. I've lost feeling and any trust in her. My parents and everyone want my happiness and things to work out. I know deep inside of them, they're not happy after all these things. I myself not happy too because I have strong feeling when She comes here (Australia) she will starting checking my wallets, accounts and try and send money to her family or buy her this or this. She may end up genuinely and sincerely being sorry. But if I have to weigh her goods and bads, the bads will weigh heavier. I understand Divorce is bad a thing, I understand I should forgive her and move on but I don't see any happiness. I don't feel I have any trust in her. I feel like if we stay together, my parents will be happy but truthfully they will be just acting as happy and me too I will be acting as happy for their sake. This relationship will be end up me and my parents acting happy for one another sake, whilst only her being would end up the only happy one. Unless we each go our own away. In the end, other people said to me Its my decision and don't blame anyone for what I decide to do. Why did I said all these things? Just wanted to share these feeling to someone.
  19. Does anyone know how much 1 Iraninan coin/sekkah is worth in dollar ? Whats your advice/thoughts on getting sleeping tablets or should I speak to my GP?
  20. Its pretty dumb, isn't it? Yeah I'm behind this post because things did not turn well for me. The one who I married to, is more interested in my money so I don't see any good future with her and as the result my feelings for her are completely gone and non existence. I understand divorce is wrong but if there are signs and evidence that one party is married the other purely for money, australia etc. I have seen and heard enough. Once we are divorced, not sure if I can find another partner, perhaps it is what is My Grandfather passed away almost 2 weeks ago. I have my grandfather photo on my whatsapp profile, few days ago, she asked me when I will change it, I said I don't know, she said it's been 7 days, change or at least have no photo. I find this completely disrespectful. So because I will end up single, i asked this silly, wishful thinking question because not sure if God will help me find another partner. Which is why I posted that silly question.
  21. I want/feel to swear a lot. In short words, The hyenas/wild dogs also known as Taliban are basically not only oppressing people but also committing genocide. <<Despite Muslim population being 1 Billion, don't be surprised if some or few millions of these Muslims will not hesitate to kill the Prophet Mohammad ((صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم)). Its even people (number of Muslims) more when its comes to Killing Prophet Mohammad Family and the Imams ((عليه السلام)) Because Prophet and Imams will not approve of many things are Muslims are doing, sadly the list is too much to name these things>>.This is how I feel.
  22. I saw that thread which was longer than I expected so I thought I may get short responses.
  23. Salam. I am sorry that you haven't received any replies I think its the effect of depression, loneliness, overthinking etc and moreover you wanting to get closer to God. Shaytan focuses on those wanting to get closer to God and having issues in life and struggling, makes it easier for his whispers to be effective. His whispers is will sound like our voice which makes it easier to get sinful thoughts. I think our struggle will continue but we remember to get up whenever we fall. ----------------------------- Solutions are easier said then done. Anyways you have to do your best, you gotta keep fighting. Do not give on God Mercy. Pray to God to protect you from whispers of Shaytan. Try and find solutions to some of your difficulties.
  24. What were the goals? Did they or are they going to achieve it? Was it worth it? I think it was a dumb a move Did it make world more dangerous place than its already is? The middle eastern refugees will now suffer more because Ukrainian will become main preferences for country that hold refugees?
  25. MashAllah and God Bless you for the great effort you're doing to become a muslim, a better human being and most importantly you're doing it to get Closer to Allah. Just Curious, is your husband also doing his best to convince his family to stop with their judgments and to start welcoming you to be part of the family
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