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In the Name of God بسم الله


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  1. I don't see any problem doing that. Before doing that, share your dad situation with the daughter's parents so that they are aware of the situation. Also, say that you are exact opposite (I'm assuming) that you are a practicing muslim. There's no problem involving your dad in your proposal and I think it's a good thing to do because he is aware of your proposal and marriage.
  2. Respectfully disregard what they say. Find a girl around yourself, mosque, talk to shaykh, go to islamic conferences, etc. Find someone and tell your parents you want to get to know her for marriage. Don't expect your parents to do everything for you. Do it yourself.
  3. You probably should drive to Charlotte. I know it's far. I lived in a small city with no community for 3 years and I had to drive 3 hours to get to the closest shia community. Or you can follow programs online
  4. Salaam Sister Your post and your intention to do what Allah said is admirable and be sure Ahlulbait have an eye on you. Otherwise, you wouldnt think about that. Just do it and don't overthink. Overthinking destroys your life and your pure intension. Not all people are perfect. Don't postpone it to tomorrow or next week etc. Do it from today snd live with it. Don't worry about other wajibat etc. Try to do your best and Allah knows your intension.
  5. Seems like your dad cancelled the grand ayatollah meeting. Oh man
  6. Do Taubah and be sure that Allah forgives you. Do Mutah instead if it's out of control. Don't let satanic thoughts come into your mind telling you that you're not forgiven. You are
  7. I'm not sure if he forgets the ghusl, but I'm sure that he must do ghusl BEFORE fajr Adhan. For example, the person wakes up at the middle of the night to eat Sahar. He realizes that he is Jonob. He must do ghusl before Fajr Adhan. Another fasting law that may not be relevant to your question but good to know. Being in the state of Jenabat for quiet a while invalidates fasting. For example, the guy wakes up in the morning in the month of Ramadhan and realizes he is jonob. He postpones ghusl several hours later. It invalidates his fasting.
  8. All types of dogs are Najis and impure. Have you thought about how you wanna pray? Islamically, it is makrouh to have dog in the house. Some people like sheperds do need dog and they keep it outside of the house.
  9. How you guys manage your time in Ramadan? Some people sleep in the morning to noon and work from afternoon to Fajr Adan, then go to bed. How you manage it?
  10. There is no relationship between beard type and your career
  11. If you doubt that something is Najis or not, it is Tahir and clean unless you are sure. This is a general rule. Do not wash other parts of cloth or body. Your ghusl was valid. Only wash the blood stain on your clothe and the small part of your body that it touched. You are fine and ok. Everything good
  12. Brother, that was the email that I got, but I fasted today as یوم الشک. It means if it was Ramazan, I fasted today. If it wasn't, I fasted as the last day of the holy month of Shaban. Here is the rule. Always fast last day as یوم الشک. You don't lose anything. That's what I do every year
  13. I'm about your height and heavier than you. You can do pushups because I can do with my weight. I should lose weight and excercise more often
  14. https://www.imams.us/ At the bottom says click here to sign up. I always get email at the exact night before start of the month. For example, if Shaban starts tomorrow, I get email tonight
  15. If you live in north America, Council of Shia Muslim Scholars of North America emails and notifies you of the beginning of all arabic month
  16. I listen to Iran leader on muslims in China. I never listen to western media when it comes to Iran, Russia, and China and in general anything related to east. I don't really know what happens in Uighur, but I heard some say they are Wahabi like ISIS, some say different. I listen to IRan official notes only(I dont know about their policy on uighur).
  17. Some users send links sbout this foundation being authentic, so forget about my previous post. I myself live in US and pay my Khums to https://imam-us.org/ Thank you all
  18. Why did she mail it to them? Did she do a research on that foundation?
  19. This part was funny but sadly true. I was talking to a girl and everything was good. I really wanted to marry her. She was Hijabi, religious, etc. (at least to my understanding). At the later stages of our marriage discussions, we talked about Mahr and marriage expenses. Thank God we were not mahram yet. She asked for 20k Mahr plus main portion of marriage expenses (engagement hall and wedding hall expenses) plus asset division at the time of divorce if it happened. I tried to make marriage less expensive by like having wedding at home instead of hall etc., but it didn't work. She was active in the community and talking about Ashoura and Imam Hussain. I really wanted to marry her, but when I realized it's too much expense on me living alone in west, I gave up. If I find a girl that is okay to have a simple marriage, I save my money and spend it for the newly formed family later. I don't want to take loan and create financial problems after marriage.
  20. As long as you recite islamic marriage statement with considering its terms and conditions, it's valid. It does not matter where or when you recited the islamic marriage statement.
  21. It's not allowed brother to beat up, but you can simply touch her shoulder to get her attention in a way that doesn't hurt her. Islamically, beating anyone requires the person to pay some amount of money to the beaten person as Kaffarah depending on how hard he/she is beaten. This rule is very important.
  22. No it's Mustahab according to all Marajee. You Salah is over after saying the third Salam which is: السلام علیکم و رحمه الله و برکاته
  23. You can sell it to your local community mosque to be used for Qadr nights, dua, etc.
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