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  1. No. Your family csnnot do anything. Enjoy being with your husband and be happy together. There are some family issues between your psrents and your husband parents, but you should NOT ruin your life because of them. Try to be patient and calm down. If you feel these issues cannot be solved, patience is the only way to handle it. It goes away. It's a test from Allah
  2. Sister, go with your husband only and dont think of anyone else. Enjoy the life with your husband. Ask him that you want more attention from him, more love, etc. Forget about other men. You can make the best relationship and love with your halal partner. Take advantage and do your best to keep your husband happy and ask him to keep you happy by more attention etc. that you said.
  3. Imam Hassan: " When it comes to this world (Dunya), work hard and live like you live here forever. When it comes to Akhirah, live like you die in the next hour". When you go to work every morning, do your best and make as much halal profit as possible. When it's Azan time, do your prays on time, be honest with people, enjoy halal pleasures, do zikr sometimes during the day, recite Quran and ziarat Ashoura, enjoy hikings foods being with family(especially wife and kids if married), etc. Don't overthink. Take it easy
  4. I don't see any problem doing that. Before doing that, share your dad situation with the daughter's parents so that they are aware of the situation. Also, say that you are exact opposite (I'm assuming) that you are a practicing muslim. There's no problem involving your dad in your proposal and I think it's a good thing to do because he is aware of your proposal and marriage.
  5. Respectfully disregard what they say. Find a girl around yourself, mosque, talk to shaykh, go to islamic conferences, etc. Find someone and tell your parents you want to get to know her for marriage. Don't expect your parents to do everything for you. Do it yourself.
  6. You probably should drive to Charlotte. I know it's far. I lived in a small city with no community for 3 years and I had to drive 3 hours to get to the closest shia community. Or you can follow programs online
  7. Salaam Sister Your post and your intention to do what Allah said is admirable and be sure Ahlulbait have an eye on you. Otherwise, you wouldnt think about that. Just do it and don't overthink. Overthinking destroys your life and your pure intension. Not all people are perfect. Don't postpone it to tomorrow or next week etc. Do it from today snd live with it. Don't worry about other wajibat etc. Try to do your best and Allah knows your intension.
  8. Seems like your dad cancelled the grand ayatollah meeting. Oh man
  9. Do Taubah and be sure that Allah forgives you. Do Mutah instead if it's out of control. Don't let satanic thoughts come into your mind telling you that you're not forgiven. You are
  10. I'm not sure if he forgets the ghusl, but I'm sure that he must do ghusl BEFORE fajr Adhan. For example, the person wakes up at the middle of the night to eat Sahar. He realizes that he is Jonob. He must do ghusl before Fajr Adhan. Another fasting law that may not be relevant to your question but good to know. Being in the state of Jenabat for quiet a while invalidates fasting. For example, the guy wakes up in the morning in the month of Ramadhan and realizes he is jonob. He postpones ghusl several hours later. It invalidates his fasting.
  11. All types of dogs are Najis and impure. Have you thought about how you wanna pray? Islamically, it is makrouh to have dog in the house. Some people like sheperds do need dog and they keep it outside of the house.
  12. How you guys manage your time in Ramadan? Some people sleep in the morning to noon and work from afternoon to Fajr Adan, then go to bed. How you manage it?
  13. There is no relationship between beard type and your career
  14. If you doubt that something is Najis or not, it is Tahir and clean unless you are sure. This is a general rule. Do not wash other parts of cloth or body. Your ghusl was valid. Only wash the blood stain on your clothe and the small part of your body that it touched. You are fine and ok. Everything good
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