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  1. It's good that you left those sins. Satan wants you to go back to where you were before. That's why he puts that idea into your mind. Don't overthink. You'll be fine when you are married. Remove all sinful videos, pics, everything and live healthy.
  2. Salaam Alaykum Brother, I was upset when I read your post. I do dua for sure. Do Tawassul to Ahlulbait. I had mumps before. Soon after that epilepsy added to the list as well. One time when I woke up from seizure, I felt pain in my shoulders. Now I have shoulder dislocation issue probably for the rest of my life. I do exercuse to make my shoulders stronger. I was under medication for seversl years for epilepsy, and now I'm very good like I never had it before alhamdulillah. Do NOT think about your career and job situation. Your health is the highest priority now. When different hopl
  3. Alhamdulillah, it's very good that you want to stop it snd make it better. May Allah help you. You can do that gradually through attention and care. I also say stuff thst I should not say especially in snger. I do dua for you, so do dua for me as well to control my tongue.
  4. It's hard at the beginning, but gradually you can achieve it. I remember I had same problem, but now I'm thinking of waking up for Salatullayl. Just know that it's a gradual process, and try to fix your schedule. Recite this dua before sleeping: اللَّهُمَّ لَا تُنْسِنِي ذِكْرَكَ وَ لَا تُؤْمِنِّي‏ مَكْرَكَ‏ وَ لَا تَجْعَلْنِي مِنَ الْغَافِلِينَ وَ أَنْبِهْنِي لِأَحِبِّ السَّاعَاتِ إِلَيْكَ أَدْعُوكَ فِيهَا فَتَسْتَجِيبَ لِي وَ أَسْأَلُكَ فَتُعْطِيَنِي وَ أَسْتَغْفِرُكَ فَتَغْفِرَ لِي إِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ يَا أَرْحَمَ الرَّاحِمِينَ.
  5. Salaam Alaykum, Don't worry. I know of an American revert who had tatoo and other things, but he has a happy family now alhamdulillah. You don't need to share everything with your girl. Only things that are visible like tattoo. She knows you're revert and your past is a bit different, so it's not an issue. Good girls understand it, do don't worry. Just travel to big Shia communities and tell them you are revert and you want a wife. Be active. Call, text, be linked to shia groups, shia friends, and gradually open up the discussion of finding a wife with them to get help. The key is being a
  6. Salaam Alaykum brother I do live alone and I also didn't know how to cook when I moved to US. I'm looking at your diet from outside, and tbh it's pretty unhealthy. I google every food that I want to make and I follow its instructions. Gradually you learn how to cook. I cook 1,2 times per week for the entire week. For example, I cook lamb on weekend, and I only cook the rice each time I want to have meal. It only takes 15 mins to get the rice ready. I also eat 2 times per day only. Breakfast and lunch/dinner around 3,4pm. In between I have fruit, hot milk with honey, or other healthy thing
  7. MuslimCongress Islamic Conference (its a shia conference) used to have camps throughout the year. One or two shaykh would come, and they also play tennis, soccer, do discussions with other people. Unfortunately, I noticed their program so late, and they cancelled everything because of covid. They had winter, summer, fall, spring, and some other camps. Here is the link: https://muslimcongress.org/wp/camps/ I wish I could go camping with them 2,3 times a year
  8. Going to restaurant, hiking, coding (software engr), fixing my car (oil change, rotors, brakes, etc.), driving, road trip. I wanna go for a road trip this weekend and change rotors of my car I just need a wife to have accompany of course not in oil change
  9. Salaam Alaykum, I'm sorry to hear the situation you go through. Brother, I had a similar life as you. My recommendation is not telling your dads relation with other women to your mum. When you tell this to your mum, it deteriorates her from inside. BTW, she knows that already. Your mum probably figured it out many years before you. Women are sensitive on this topic. She should not necessarily cry and beg in front of you to show you how upset she is. She is deeply upset about the situation. I never told my mum about that because I knew it empties her. Instead of telling bad things beh
  10. Look, ONE GHUSL IS ENOUGH FOR ALL YOUR JINABAT STATES. NO NEED TO DO GHUSL MANY TIMES. It's a Fiqhi rule, but avoid this sin. I know it's hard, but I do dua for you everyday to overcome this. I remember you in my dua.
  11. I did dua for you brother. Do NOT tell this problem to the girl you wanna marry. Ask her to marry soon. 5,6 years is too late. At least recite a temporary marriage contract or the Nikah contract between you two until you both have marriage ceremony
  12. I know how you feel. I had arguments with my family as well regarding religious matters, and I talked to them several times. They broadcast rumors about Maraji and people who supported Islam. They don't ask about its authenticity. When there's something true and teaching from Maraji, they suddenly question it and make it look bad. They don't listen. Instead they blame me for telling them the right things. I had one year of anxiety over this. I decided to follow the right path, and show them the right path by my actions. I still tell them the right things when the topic comes up, but I don't le
  13. Look, forget all that stress and everything that Satan puts into your mind. Go to your mum room, kiss her hsnd, and ask for her support. Once your dad comes in, tell him everything. Don't procrastinate. If you're afraid, you won't get what you want. Do what you're supposed to do. It is more promising if you be respectful and patient to your parents. Allsh helps you
  14. Just tell your dad. Don't think about his reaction. Just do what you're supposed to do.
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