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  1. But ShiaChat Mod said something completely different so who is right?
  2. Thanks... I was soooo confused with those ahadith...
  3. Hi guys, I was just reading an online book and there's 2 hadith which literally contradict each other... Can anyone help me... Maybe I'm not actually understanding the ahadith.... Hadith 1 It was asked of Imām as-Ŝādiq (as): “If someone undresses his wife (and makes her naked) and looks at her, is there a problem?” He replied: “There is no problem, is there any better pleasure than this that exists?” °alliyatul Muttaqīn, pg. 111 Hadith 2 It is narrated that Muĥammad bin al-Ais asked Imām as-Ŝādiq (as): “Is it permissible to go near my wife naked (I.e. make love naked)?” Imām replied: “No, don’t do such a thing…” Ibid., vol. 20, pg. 137, no. 25238; pg. 138, no. 25239 So the first confusion I have is that, one hadith is saying that making the wife naked is fine but then the other one is saying that you can have sex naked... The second confusion I have is that it's saying to have sex with clothes on or under bedsheets like how does that even work??!
  4. Yeah, but it's not like we'd be having sex or anything, it's just messaging on the phone. But like I said before a temporary marriage would be happening somewhere down the line....
  5. Umm starting a relationship would mean finding spouse...... So are you claiming my further "mental development" over the next 6 years a reason not to start a relationship at my age? Of course, all wise and noble wizard lol.
  6. Hiii, thank u for accepting my account. I hope everyone is good and well. I wanted to ask a question about getting to know someone for marriage pls. I'm a 17 year old girl and recently I asked my parents that I want to have a relationship, so they found a boy in Pakistan and his parents agreed to see if we are good for each other. So my parents are arranging for me to start messaging and phoning him, then if everything goes well between us we can marry in 6 years or so after education. I'm really excited for this for a personal reason, I've been desiring this since for ever. Everyone has desires and sexual urge even us girls! But my question is this : Would this be allowed and how/can we keep the online relationship halal? (if everything goes well over the years) We are doing this without temporary marriage straight away because no one (not me, nor my parents or his parents or him) wants that so soon. Thanking u guys!
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