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Mashallah. What a great life you have. May Allah provide more sustenance and blessings to you and your family. Ameen!

Thank you for the due and you understand me but I don't think he will visit a psychiatrist.

That is what I believe. I have posted another topic regarding this. My husband is totally neglecting me as a wife. However, he's decent guy but isn't interested in it.

Thank you for letting me know!

Salam to all. By the Grace of Allah, I pray and doing my best to perform all the wajib and mustahab deeds as much as I can. However, I still fall prey to carnal desires because of some very close friends. I do enjoy it to be honest but I feel pathetic afterward. How do I stop myself? I had remained absent from carnal feelings for weeks but they're back now. Why do I have carnal desires? It could be that I'm being neglected by my husband care, love and passion. I don't know. Please help?

Thank you for your answer. Your advice is straight to the point and I believe I have the right to divorce because I will be putting myself in haram behavior.

Nice one!

Thank you for such an informative advice. I've done what you're telling me (related to husband) and he doesn't seem to care about it. I have someone who's providing me financial care and I, myself, am doing some fitness courses so I can make myself stable enough to care for my children. The real reason I am not divorcing is the culture and society. Woman is always considered bad when it comes to divorce. And if I marry someone else, people will think I had an affair with someone. I do have supportive friendships with women. And I know it's haram and sometimes I ignore them completely but their worry for me is what makes me want to talk to them. Speaking of husband, he's not just physically inactive, but also mentally inactive too. He doesn't talk much and stays on with his mobile or with his family. You're right. I'll have to think more about it. You guys can PM me if you want to talk about it. I'm new here so not allowed to message.

I have moved out once. Nothing changed. The situation became even worse. Even my parents think something is wrong with me.

I've also taken this as a consideration. But this has been happening ever since we got married. He only gives me time after a few months and then forgets if I'm ever there. He's a decent guy but when it comes to my needs, he seems not to care about it at all. And yes, I am waiting that he gets a job. I'm also doing my best to provide for my children.

I've already tried talking to him and even being very open to him for my needs but he says, "there is more to it than that". He seems not interested in me at all! Whereas, I'm quite young in my 20s and people have complimented me about my looks. I do not know why he's neglecting me.

Salam. I'll be short. I am a mom of 2 kids and living with my husband and his in-laws. The thing is, I'm not being provided the care (financially, mentally and even physically) that I need as a woman, a wife and a mother. Our kids tuition fees are due for months and my husband hasn't found any job as of yet. I don't want to live him because in my heart, I don't want to leave him in this state but this situation has led me to depression, anxiety and frustration Ever since he stopped showing affection towards me even though I am in my 20s and Allah has blessed me with beauty; I've started to lean towards talking to men (online) because they praise and compliment me (I know it's wrong!). This is why I wish to get a divorce. But, I'm still very much tensed about it. PLEASE HELP!