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Mrs Halaibi

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  1. I also missed off my first post should I get divorced? Not that it matters now because I do know it’s not the right thing to do. I’ve realised that not everyone wants to hurt me like my past and I have to work on myself and my confidence then I will probably look back at this moment and see how I was probably reading his body language wrong as I was having a bad day. He doesn’t even watch porn since the first day he met me many years ago and he doesn’t even want another wife. So you’re right I should see a therapist about my image problem as it’s taking over my life and making me feel suicidal at times. Thank you.
  2. Thank you Maryam.. I have a bad hurtful past that my husband is aware of. And I know it’s mostly down to me. I know God is testing me and I have to learn to love myself first and that is what God wants me to do. I think when I’m having a bad day with myself perhaps Im reading it wrong. I know men have told me before sometimes a second or third look out of shock. I know my husband would hate to lose me. I needn’t to learn to love myself. Thank you.
  3. Yes of course there is more to it. I know I sound like a crazy person from stating one thing but it goes a bit deeper than this. I wish I didn’t bother posting anything now as I’m just feeling worse.
  4. I know everyone knows it’s haram and greedy and God will deal with them but I can’t be bothered to be with someone who does this all the time infront of their wife and child. Cheating always starts this way as evil can become greater if you do it to begin with. I’m so faithful I don’t deserve that when I know people who are very happy with each other and don’t care about anyone else. They tell me to find someone else.
  5. Hello I’ve been practicing Shia Islam for a few years. I am far from perfect and do a lot of bad deeds and it’s on my mind a lot but I am a good person with a pure heart and have a close relationship with God behind doors. He talks to me through different signs and I’m blessed to understand them. I’m married with a baby but I want to divorce my husband. I love him very much and the thought of my life without him is painful but I have a problem where I hate my image and he’s making that worse. He tells me he loves me and he’s happy with my appearance but when he goes out he has sneaky looks and women which is so hurtful and insulting to me and when I confront him he Denys it and says I’m crazy. It’s really getting me down and affecting me from getting closer to Islam. He’s the only person in the world that has the power to make me crazy. Probably because of the love I have for him. How can I get divorced?
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